Persue a friend?

[rareboy]

^^Oh dear Chosen. While your post is rather difficult to parse and make some sense of, allow me some thoughts.

1. Please don't accuse someone of bullying. That is utter nonsense. Mikemartin is not being bullied, quite the opposite. He is being challenged to undertake some self-examination.

2. It is obvious you've missed the crux of my reply to his posts, but homosexuality is not a stereotype; it is a natural state of being, just like being straight and bi-sexual.

3. I make not claims to being a sound person to offer advice. People can take it for what they will. I am also not 19 and have some experience of the world.

4. If you're looking for hypocrisy, look to those who would pronounce something wrong but then say it is okay to do it anyway....like mikemartin and his approach to homosexual acts. Although a sinner is granted absolution as long as there is repentance, the persistent and cynical disregard for obeying one's own moral compass and the edicts they profess is soul destroying.

 

[mikemartin]

We spent some time together at my parents house out of state a week ago.

I figured I wouldn't push anything, but if it looked like it would happen, I wouldn't discourage it.

We are both very comfortable around each other, and actually lived more like nudists than anything for the week. We got really drunk one night, and I don't know exactly what happened, but I do remember waking up in the living room floor curled up together, naked. I also know the next morning we woke up together in a twin bed, although we both don't remember much more than that(we both remember telling each other I love you repeatedly, but that was possibly the alcohol).

We did have some conversations about everyone being attracted to men to some extent. He never really came out and said he was, but while we were oil wrestling(naked of course) we both had nice hardons.

I'm not going to push any further, as the time we spent together reminded me of how close we really are, even in a non-sexual way. I am not about to loose that over a piece of ass.

 

[wildcat]

wow that sounds really hot, you're so lucky

 

[DarkHelios]

If you're concerned about keeping a good relationship with your friend, then be honest. If you trick him into something while he's drunk and he didn't really want to do it, he's probably not going to react well. If you ask him directly and he's not interested, you'll probably just have some awkward moments and then go on with your lives as normal.

 

[backpacker]

You are both not being forthcoming with your feelings. If he didn't have same sex attractions, he wouldn't be wrestling with you in the nude or doing the other things you mentioned. One of you has to have enough balls to talk about it.

 

[fjancsi80]

funny. that's not true. no straight boys do that, it's a gay teenager's best dream.

 

[billybob109]

When the topic of homosexuality has come up we agreed it was wrong(note, wrong doesn't mean "won't do it"), but as far as marriage and such, we agreed that it wouldn't hurt anyone and should be allowed.

Well both of you agreed that it is wrong? Then why are you here posting for advice obviously at least you were lying, So he could be too. I would just straight up ask him when he is really drunk so at least you can cover it up in the morning if he asks you about it again which i doubt he will