Physical Contact

[guesswhooo]

I will try to make this short. I live in a rural area out in the country. I have a neighbor who lives a mile or so down from me. He is married and has one child . I really don't know a lot about him other than he is a good looking man and nice eye candy.

Without a lot of long boring details yesterday he and I had a reason to be together with a third man who was driving a small pickup truck. The two of us rode in the truck with the third guy to go look at some property for sale.

As it worked out I was in the middle sandwiched between the two. My neighbor put his arm up across the back of me resting it on the seat. As we traveled along he was very talkative to the driver leaning in on me very much. At one point he dropped his hand down resting it on my shoulder. I was resting my hand in my lap and he reached over and took hold of my hand and turned my watch so he could see the time. Maybe it was me ...But he held my hand just a little long for this.

When we arrived where we were going and he got out I could see he had an erection. He adjusted and we went about our business.

Again on the return trip same thing...the leaning in on me and being very close even for a small space we were sharing.

Just wondering if the tight space and physical contact gave him the erection or maybe he is interested.

Any of you guys had anything like this happen to you?

 

[willhunt]

When I used to work construction, this was a common and wonderful occurrence. All I can suggest is get to know him as a friend and see where that leads. Good luck.

 

[sixthson]

The erection could mean he is just a healthy male. But whatever it means, you should find someone who is single and available.

 

[nycguydowntown]

Think this was a scene in "Brokeback Mountain" But I would do what the other guy said and get to know him better and see where it goes. Are you sure it was an erection or a positioning thing or the way the pants where bunched up?

 

[jensu846]

ask him if he needs any help with that next time he pops up. he'll let you know one way or another.

 

[Caution]

ask him if he needs any help with that next time he pops up. he'll let you know one way or another.

This.
pretty much he is flirting with you....dont be stupid

 

[Storybook_Man]

Get to know him better. Try and advance towards him to hang out one night. Drink, shoot the shit, play some cards anything that you or he may be interested in.

As for the erection part. He may have gotten erect because of the taboo of touching another man. After all supposedly every guy has at least had the thought of having a gay encounter be it jerking off together, jerking someone off etc.. Get to know him better and keep us updated.

 

[HunterM]

If I live in a rural area where neighbors are located a mile apart from one another...I'd have an erection too when I feel another human contact.

 

[Storybook_Man]

lol hunterm

 

[guesswhooo]

The erection could mean he is just a healthy male. But whatever it means, you should find someone who is single and available.

I did no mention anything about wanting to get with him or even getting to know him better. I just said he is a good looking guy and eye candy.It just seemed he took a little advantage of the tight space we were in with all the touching. One poster ask if I was sure it was an erection? erection for sure....lol

 

[borg69unimatrix]

Driving on bumpy gravel roads has always given me an erection. It could be he's interested, and it could be like others have said, the close contact and bumpy roads caused a reaction he couldn't control.

 

[palemale]

Some straight men just don't have hang-ups about touching other men. Don't assume it was sexual, especially considering that you were in a tight space, being jostled about. Some drivers don't pay attention to the road when someone is talking to them. I know people who turn around and look back while driving if a back seat passenger is speaking to them. Maybe this guy leaned in toward the driver to minimize the distraction of the conversation. I'd wouldn't try anything with him absent more compelling evidence he is into. If he slides his hand down your pants the next time you are together, that's a good sign he might be into you sexually.

 

[Skills90]

I get an erection 6-9 times a day on the bus or at home or class. It's not always under our control when we get an erection, and maybe it was the physical contact, but like others said try and become friends. Who knows may be you'll be good pals and never have sex cause he's straight. Then again maybe it turns out he is bi or gay and he totally wants to jump your bones, but until you get to know him better you shouldn't try anything. For you own safety of course since you never know how people will react to advances...