This is more of a sounding board than anything else but it is something that I came across by incidence. I had heard about the "death grip" in relation to masturbation before that when you grip your dick too hard, it desensitizes it to other sensations [mouth, vagina, anus] and causes erectile dysfunction. However, I think even worse is the porn -> masturbate -> orgasm [PMO] cycle that is accepted in the gay community which leads to porn-induced erectile dysfunction or PIED as the title says.
Even when I was single this past year, it didn't really occur to me that PMO can really fuck with your brain sexually, especially when it is a near daily occurrence. So when it actually came to perform sexually with another, I had difficulty maintaining an erection and the only way I could get off was by masturbation.
So with my PIED, I decided to do something about it and stopped looking at porn altogether and even masturbating. The only way I could get off was with another mouth or anus. The first fortnight was by far the toughest thing I had to endure as it was like my brain had to "reboot" to make my penis sensitive to other things besides my hand. In a sense, I was like a recovering addict.
It is a bit of a shame that this kind of thing is not talked about in sexual education, especially now with internet porn so prevalent. You should be longing to be intimate with another man/men and not your hand or a sexy toy. I almost deduce that is why so many gays bottom is because of PIED and them wanting to deal with "performance anxiety".
Yeah, this is basically a porn site so I am sure this message will be lost on most but that is my personal belief. I still hold firmly my "all things in moderation" idiom but for me, it is best to be without it.
Even when I was single this past year, it didn't really occur to me that PMO can really fuck with your brain sexually, especially when it is a near daily occurrence. So when it actually came to perform sexually with another, I had difficulty maintaining an erection and the only way I could get off was by masturbation.
So with my PIED, I decided to do something about it and stopped looking at porn altogether and even masturbating. The only way I could get off was with another mouth or anus. The first fortnight was by far the toughest thing I had to endure as it was like my brain had to "reboot" to make my penis sensitive to other things besides my hand. In a sense, I was like a recovering addict.
It is a bit of a shame that this kind of thing is not talked about in sexual education, especially now with internet porn so prevalent. You should be longing to be intimate with another man/men and not your hand or a sexy toy. I almost deduce that is why so many gays bottom is because of PIED and them wanting to deal with "performance anxiety".
Yeah, this is basically a porn site so I am sure this message will be lost on most but that is my personal belief. I still hold firmly my "all things in moderation" idiom but for me, it is best to be without it.