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On Topic Discussion Pining

Vannie

Vannie

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Have any of you experienced long term pining for someone?

I have broken up with my long term partner Philip and my sorrow is great. I only get relief when I'm sleeping.

I'm taking care of myself through exercise and eating properly. I've been going on long walks just to relieve myself from the constant sadness.

The feeling is heavy on my heart and consumed me most of the day.

I will seek professional help soon if I can't get relief.

Any of you experience long term sadness and have any coping tips?


Thank you all for listening.

John
 
Vannie said:
Have any of you experienced long term pining for someone?

I have broken up with my long term partner Philip and my sorrow is great. I only get relief when I'm sleeping.

I'm taking care of myself through exercise and eating properly. I've been going on long walks just to relieve myself from the constant sadness.

The feeling is heavy on my heart and consumed me most of the day.

I will seek professional help soon if I can't get relief.

Any of you experience long term sadness and have any coping tips?


Thank you all for listening.

John
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Your reaction to breaking up with a long term partner is natural. It will be helpful to talk about your feelings with a professional. Seek this out as soon as you can.
 
Vannie said:
Have any of you experienced long term pining for someone?

I have broken up with my long term partner Philip and my sorrow is great. I only get relief when I'm sleeping.

I'm taking care of myself through exercise and eating properly. I've been going on long walks just to relieve myself from the constant sadness.

The feeling is heavy on my heart and consumed me most of the day.

I will seek professional help soon if I can't get relief.

Any of you experience long term sadness and have any coping tips?


Thank you all for listening.

John
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Were you reading my diary?

I don’t even get a respite during sleep, Jimmy shows up in my dreams.

It’s just like a death. You’ll greave the same way. Sorry, Ali
 
Alistair said:
Were you reading my diary?

I don’t even get a respite during sleep, Jimmy shows up in my dreams.

It’s just like a death. You’ll greave the same way. Sorry, Ali
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Yeah wow. Yesterday wasn't so bad. Today it's consuming me. And I can't get warm. Got the heat up and a warm pullover on and still cold.

TY so much.
 
Seriously, Vannie, this is meant only to cheer you up: "Pining for the fjords?!"

Sorry you're feeling so down.
 
gsdx said:
Seriously, Vannie, this is meant only to cheer you up: "Pining for the fjords?!"

Sorry you're feeling so down.
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TY Neil :love:

I know that's from a sketch or TV sitcom or something.
 
I am so very, very sorry to hear of this.

And the loss and pain you are feeling is no different than greiving for death.

I have always counselled people to talk their grief out with nayone and everyone. I am always here to 'listen'. As are likely many of us here.

But I have encouraged those really struggling to absolutely seek a professional counsellor and this has helped most people immensely.

Warmest hugs.
 
Break-ups don't just happen.

How long has the relationship been on life support, whose decision was it to pull the plug, and how long ago did that happen?


I've been in three long term relationships, and each time it was me who made the final cut. I suppose, to some, that makes me the bad guy. But, in every instance, we both knew it wasn't working, and that ending it was best for both of us.
 
I am so very sorry Vannie, and wish I had a good solution. Keeping your mind occupied with things like a good book or movie can temporarily help. Sometimes you just have to take stock of the situation and say "okay, it happened, but my life is not over, and I will go forward, heal, and find new happiness". I will keep you in my prayers.
 
Vannie, I am so sorry that you are going through this.
Advice, relationships that end are painful and sorrowful.
We all go through tough times and life is what gets us through them.
Sometimes, it involves wallowing in that for a time but then move on.

Life moves on, don't get down, become a free bird now.


Life is short
 
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