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plan to have sex instead of spontaneous sex

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Hey everyone, I thought up a question that made me curious of what everyone else thinks.

I'm in a relationship and my boyfriend and I usually plan to have sex. For example, we'll say lets have sex tonight. Or lets have sex tomorrow. Do you guys think this is a good thing or bad? I just need some thoughts on this because don't get me wrong. We still have good sex, but it makes me wonder if having spontaneous sex would be better/more exciting for the relationship.

One of the cons of planning sex is that sometimes he'll say lets have sex tonight. Then when tonight comes, he'll say that hes too tired, and we end up not having sex. After a while, it becomes frustrating, sexually lol. There are also those times that its planned and it falls though, and it was amazing. So let me know what ya'll think. Thanks!
 
The important thing about sex is that if you're both enjoying it, it doesn't matter whether it's planned or unplanned or who initiates it.

Relationships are imperfect. Sometimes you have to stop over-analyzing and just focus on making each other happy.
 
My partner of 28 years HATES planning for sex. Personally, I think a combo of planned and unplanned is grand.
 
I enjoy planned sex and spontaneous sex ;)
 
I need to plan sex with my bubby as we both work different times and live 1 hour away from eachother. So planning when we have sex works for us and it is still fun for both of us as we will go at it for half a day at a time once a week.
 
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