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Please give me some ideas for romantic things to do.

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I'm not a romantic person. My bf is and he wants me to be more romantic. What the hell can I do to be more romantic?
 
Light some candles when you have sex, play some soft music, nibble on his nipples, soak in a hot tub with him and sip some wine, ram your tongue down his throat and caress his ass, play with his butt hole as you do this.
Man, now I am hard!

Forgot, wear a thong or a jock strap
 
peeonme said:
Light some candles when you have sex, play some soft music, nibble on his nipples, soak in a hot tub with him and sip some wine, ram your tongue down his throat and caress his ass, play with his butt hole as you do this.
Man, now I am hard!

Forgot, wear a thong or a jock strap
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He said nonsex things.
 
zombiekiller said:
He said nonsex things.
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Ok, sned him a gift, girl like flowers, I have no clue what to send your bf, depends on the dynamics and any roles (if any) such as sub/dom, I believe that you are the top and older, jewelry is cool, some after shave cologne?
Just a card might get him hard!
 
I'm not very good at being romantic either, so don't go for the generic stuff. Think about things that are specific to him and go from there - you'll do better than anyone giving suggestions on here.

Honestly the little things go a long way, like if I pick up my bf's favourite coffee for him on the way home or something. Or if I'm out shopping and I see something that makes me think of him then I might surprise him with a small gift. Make him something for dinner, do the chores so he can have some time to relax. These things mean a lot and you're probably full of ideas already. The social idea of 'romance' is just a way of forcing people to buy stuff and act out of character.
 
buy up country ans change natations song ta poppy romatantic songee an whip poplation sing it
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it all a fashion ya no fa celebeees ass supa wich

tinkyou
 
zombiekiller said:
He said nonsex things.
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I somehow knew your bf would say that because he knows that romance is not the same as sex, just like gifts and dinners out are not romance. They might be part of romance, but they are not the central part.
Romance is not a one time thing, either. It's also not a Friday night date night, then the rest of the week is status quo.
Romance is a lifestyle. When you truly love someone, you give them your heart. This is no small thing.

Put your bf first everyday. Let him have your undivided attention so that he knows you are really listening to him and care what he thinks. If you know something is important to him, even if it seems like a little thing, then do those things. Read some poetry to him, read the lyrics of an important song to him. Take him outside after dark and sit and listen to the night sounds with your arm around him on a warm summer evening. Massage his feet or give him a back rub as long as he knows it's not just foreplay.
I could list off a lot more things, but that would defeat the purpose of you being romantic. It shouldn't be about us giving you a list that you can check off. Think about HIM. You are supposed to know him better than anyone else, then you should know what to do.

Zombie, let me say this and think about it before you get upset about it, but from what you have posted here, you come across to me as someone who can be very self pre-occupied. Selfishness does not make for a good lover.
 
Write a poem for/about him. I just wrote one for mine and he loved it and said it was sweet.
 
I think romance comes from spontaneity. I don't think it can be planned without feeling contrived. Romance for me is in the little things. I touch of the hand, an impulsive gesture or treat. I think people put too many bells and whistles on when it's time to be romantic.
 
You are an ex-cop and now an engineer, these are occupations where i should imagine "intellect" is a giving.

Try using yours.

Romance does not equal sex, in many cases.

How about taking your boyfriend for a nice meal, or maybe even just going to the cinema.

Even "spooning" whilst watching a favourite movie is great.

Or how about just going for a long walk, where you can speak to each other, a perfect time to be "romantic".
 
1. Go to the shower beforehand and wear clean clothes.
2. Don´t put too much after shave on.
3. Brush your teeth well.
4. If you have hair, let it be natural. Too much mousse, gel and color are a killer.
5. Don´t tell dirty jokes, especially poop ones. They are also a killer.
6. Gifts are not important, but they make a nice little gesture though...
7. Be tender. Hug and put your arms around him. Look into the eyes and kiss him gently on the neck & lips. Feel his hands and let your hands slide on his body. Be passionate without sex. That is the most romantic thing ever!!! Don´t tickle!
8. Be honest about your feelings and say how you feel...honesty is the best policy (even if it sounds stupid). But don´t say "can I fuck you", even if you would like to. That is def. a killer!
9. If you already have been together for a long time and still wanna stay together, that puppy part Johnny mentioned is a good idea. Pretend it´s your love child.
10. If you have some issues to deal with, forget the puppy. The puppy will take all the credit after that, so....
11. And foremost, be yourself and relax....it´s you he chose after all...remember... :luv2:

Cheers,
Jerry

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sixthson said:
Zombie, let me say this and think about it before you get upset about it, but from what you have posted here, you come across to me as someone who can be very self pre-occupied. Selfishness does not make for a good lover.
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Actually, I agree with you completely. No argument here.

Thank you for your advice.
 
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