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thelaw18489

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About 5 years ago I had sex with this boy that was 3 years older then me and took photographs. Now fast foward five years. The boy is now a holywood star (I don'r know about the star part, but I guess now a days your concidered a star for being a no good actor) and a friend of mine discovered the pictures. He wants me to captalize on the pictures and make a shitload of money off them. The only problem is that I believe that the right thing to do is not to out him because that's against both gay and my personal ethics. What should I do?
 
I don't know about you, but my morals have a price.
 
jav1231 said:
Why would you even ask this question?
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because the opprutunity at goodmoney is tempting and I feel like I need others perspectives to get a full scope of the situation and figure out what to do
 
Of course you shouldn't sell them.

If you were him would you want someone to do that to you and make a lot of trouble for you? Destroy them before someone else gets a hold of them. While your at it get a new friend because the guy that made this suggestion to you will sell you out if he has the chance.
 
always remember, karma will bite u in the ass.

honestly, that's fucked up if u sell the photo. i would destory the pictures
 
thelaw18489 said:
About 5 years ago I had sex with this boy that was 3 years older then me and took photographs. Now fast foward five years. The boy is now a holywood star (I don'r know about the star part, but I guess now a days your concidered a star for being a no good actor) and a friend of mine discovered the pictures. He wants me to captalize on the pictures and make a shitload of money off them. The only problem is that I believe that the right thing to do is not to out him because that's against both gay and my personal ethics. What should I do?
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Either give the pics back to the guy or destroy them.

If you have personal ethics that you want to hold on to you don't have any other choice.
Not a tough question to answer. And if you do the right thing here I'm sure you will be rewarded in other ways througout your life.
 
Destroy the pictures and be wary of friends who want you to hurt others for financial gain. Your description of actors as "no good" suggests you are dangerously close to letting your friend convince you to do the wrong thing, so destroying the pictures is the best way to make sure you protect the young man's privacy.
 
Destroy the pictures to avoid further temptation. Think about it. A person becomes successful and you want filthy tabloids to post censored pictures of him all over the newstands? Shameful.
 
From a legal aspect only . . .
If he told the pictures destroy them, technically he would own the copy-write to the photographs and this could open you up to a lawsuit for breaching intellectual property rights (plus the following). When you/he took the pictures do you believe that he had an expectation of privacy; if so, then you could be sued for liable, fraud and deformation of character. However, none of this matters. In this country anyone can sue anyone, provided they have the money to obtain an attorney and pay any court fees. If you sell/publish those photos he will probably sue you. It does not matter who is in the right or who is in the wrong, all that matters is that if he is famous he will probably have money and thus one hell of an attorney. Even if they loss the case your legal bills will add up fast.

On a moral note . . .
That's just fucked up. A few years back I had a girl try to pull that kind of shit with a videotape we made in the dorm. This stuff has the potential to ruin reputations and create unneeded negative karma. The world already works against those who are good and strong, is there any benefit to backstabbing each other? Even if you were to do this as a form of revenge, it will undoubtably make you feel better but what about this guy that was once your friend. I honestly would not destroy the pictures but instead give them to him. Let him know that he never needs to worry about their existence.

(Just to note I am entering law school and I am in no position to provide legal advise, before acting on any of the advise above it is strongly advised you seek the advise of a qualified attorney.)
 
Hey thelaw18489,

Ummm mate... the most obvious thing about this situation to me is what it will cost you.

Forget him. Forget the money.

Do you want your private life, your past, your history, your friends and family under the microscope? Because seriously mate, not only do you out him you out yourself and every aspect of your being. Nothing you have ever done will remain off limits... and you want to hope no one has any dirt on you because what goes around comes around.

Moneys great mate no question. So's being able to live your life in peace and being able to sleep at night. Other things are far more valuable.

I guess the other way to look at it is this... would you like the tables turned if it was you simply because you slept with someone you thought was a good guy and you could trust?
 
So you were 13 and he was 16??????

And how are you going to sell these pics without breaking the law???

I'm calling bullshit.
 
you sure make some money.. which will not last. but you will forever be painted as a loser for your whole life.
 
So you were 13 and he was 16??????

And how are you going to sell these pics without breaking the law???

I'm calling bullshit.
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I realize that I forgot to highlight my earlier comments.
 
thelaw18489 said:
About 5 years ago I had sex with this boy that was 3 years older then me and took photographs. Now fast foward five years. The boy is now a holywood star (I don'r know about the star part, but I guess now a days your concidered a star for being a no good actor) and a friend of mine discovered the pictures. He wants me to captalize on the pictures and make a shitload of money off them. The only problem is that I believe that the right thing to do is not to out him because that's against both gay and my personal ethics. What should I do?
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I believe that the right thing to do is not to out him because that's against both gay and my personal ethics
 
finbar said:
Where does thelaw18489 say he's 18 ? All I see is 18 posts.
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You are correct and I was mistaken.

That being said, if you extort your friend, you are an immoral piece of shit that deserves enerything bad that will come your way.
 
thnks for your advice, thnks for making me realize that I should stick with my gut and ot sell them. I dont know where u guys got april 89 as my birthday month because its not I'll check my profile and fix it. I also decided to give the pics to the celeb, in hopes that we can hook up again because I would really like that. And for my friend I'm going to tell him off and give him a chance to make things better and if he dosn't our friendship is over. thnks for help. Oh yeah and it was less then 5 years ago and our age diffrence was diffrent because I don't wan't to give away to much information so no one can figure out who im talking about.
 
Gold stars all around to JUB. 23 posts without anyone asking who the actor is.

...and no, I'm not asking. :)

Lex
 
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