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Plz Help me!!! :( should I do it?!

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Hey guys! :)

well I need some advice! I really have no one to talk to since I'm coseted! ](*,)
Well lately I've been deprssed like ALOT!!! I have the typical crush on a straight but aI think he is gay thing! I am thinking about coming out to him.........

He is like so funny n cute and like I feel like he might be gay/bi! Like at school I'd see him like at the end of the day and he would bassicly hug me and would say "AY I MISS YOU" and Id say I miss him too!
He always always always hits on me n gets real flurty!
But what if he isn't in to guys!! I mean the last guy I had a crush on was (supposably) staright! I mean I was fooled! the one I used to like he use to grab my dick and dry hump me just all kinds of stuff that gave me signs! next thing u know he was straight! He never got an erection! I guess he was so secure of his sexuality! He even got a girl pregnant!

Guys I am afraid If I come out to him (the recent guy I like) he might not talk to me...... well I can imagine him being cool with it but I just cant stop thinking about him! I like want a closer relationship with him....... so should I like tell him I'm bi or something and I should how? :confused:
 
Take some time. Observe (and report back to us;) ). Look at his eyes and see how he looks at you, affectionate or just playful? Does he look at you when he thinks you're not looking? Eyes don't lie.

Think about what you want out of this. That's an important lesson for me, at least.

And if you are ready to come out, then just do it as it will likely remove any doubt he may have on you and make thing easier.

Good luck!
 
I have a friend that flirts with me too and makes sexual comments, but I'm sure he's 100% straight. Plus, he's not my type. He even gets really, like really, offended if someone thinks he's gay. He's had girl friends too.

I don't really get it. If you want people to think you're straight, then you should stop acting gay... right????
 
You need to figure out what is more important to you. The possiblity that this guy would want to have a relationship with you, or his current level of friendship with you.
 
You say the last guy used to dry hump you. Did you come out to him and tell him how you felt? If not, that might be why he moved on.

Look at it this way--every time you don't come out and reveal who you are, you set yourself up once again to have a friendship where you develop feelings for someone you aren't sure about.

Do you flirt back or shy away? When he flirts, do you tell him "don't start what you won't finish," and flash him a smile? If he is gay or bi, do you give him any signals at all that would suggest you're open to something more?

alley1234's right--you need to figure out how much of this guy you're willing and able to settle for. For all you know, he might be gay, you could have sex with him, and then your friendship could be over anyway. You can "what if" yourself to death, and you'll be in the exact same spot tomorrow. And again.

Life is risk. Many of us never take them. How do you want to look back on this in ten years?
 
Killjoke said:
You say the last guy used to dry hump you. Did you come out to him and tell him how you felt? If not, that might be why he moved on.

Look at it this way--every time you don't come out and reveal who you are, you set yourself up once again to have a friendship where you develop feelings for someone you aren't sure about.

Do you flirt back or shy away? When he flirts, do you tell him "don't start what you won't finish," and flash him a smile? If he is gay or bi, do you give him any signals at all that would suggest you're open to something more?

alley1234's right--you need to figure out how much of this guy you're willing and able to settle for. For all you know, he might be gay, you could have sex with him, and then your friendship could be over anyway. You can "what if" yourself to death, and you'll be in the exact same spot tomorrow. And again.

Life is risk. Many of us never take them. How do you want to look back on this in ten years?
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you're right
I do give him signs I flirt back and like I act a little more friendly than I usually do when i AROUND HIM Like a little more phemmy but I am masuline so most times u cant tell!
Alot of straight guys love to play gay n stuff its so confusing!
 
I'm talking to him right now on myspace and I'm lost at this Idk what to say to him like u know how to
 
hey dude I'm straight and I can tell you if he's being all flirty and everything he is very comfortable with you

I've done some shit with guys not all the way type stuff...but it sounds like to me he really likes you

I can only tell you I'd never act all gay and flirty and shit with another guy unless I was totally comfortable with him first off.

Second thing it sounds like he really likes spending time with you
 
^ shit I repeated myself like two times.

I'm a dumbass and more than a little buzzed.

lol
 
o and doin it on Myspace I don't think is a good idea.

That sounds way to girlie.

You need to be face to face with this guy. He will respect you more for it.
 
RedRedKroovy said:
o and doin it on Myspace I don't think is a good idea.

That sounds way to girlie.

You need to be face to face with this guy. He will respect you more for it.
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lol yeah ur right!
I thought of that but what if it gets all awkward n stuff!

yeah I probably should but I feel like I have no chance cause he's talkin about missing his ex
 
ok think on this

I like having my buds around when the girls are being bitchy and stuff. So just listen to him and let him vent.

O and don't get all lovey dovey. He WILL NOT RESPOND to that if he is straight. You'll scare him off.

If he's gay well I can't tell ya that's not my area. LOL
 
RedRedKroovy said:
ok think on this

I like having my buds around when the girls are being bitchy and stuff. So just listen to him and let him vent.

O and don't get all lovey dovey. He WILL NOT RESPOND to that if he is straight. You'll scare him off.

If he's gay well I can't tell ya that's not my area. LOL
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hahaha yeah I see.....
well I'm about to tell him I want to talk to him in person
 
Well, that is at least some kind of answer for you. If he's bumming about his ex tonight, then it's probably not the time for you to be anything other than a good friend right now.
 
just hook up with him don't make it all serious and shit

do a beer or some such shit don't get all "I've got to talk to you" that's sounds to much lik a chick to
 
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