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Pointless Attractions

Christopher123

Christopher123

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Have you ever kind of fancied someone but realized there's no point because you're both on two totally different planets? But at the same time, although you know nothing would ever come from such a 'fascination', the person still intrigues you because they're so different?

I don't mean "planets" as in the actual distance of where the person lives. I mean the differences in interests; such as hobbies, needs, wants, desires, attractions, lifestyles, etc. So different from you that you know there's NO WAY the two of you would ever survive more than 3 hours together and you're pretty sure this person wouldn't have anything to do with you in the first place. But, again, the intrigue is still there. In fact it can be a total turn-on.

Does anyone know what the hell I'm talking about? Gawd please someone know what the hell I'm talking about, lol.

Chris
 
Christopher123 said:
Have you ever kind of fancied someone but realized there's no point because you're both on two totally different planets? But at the same time, although you know nothing would ever come from such a 'fascination', the person still intrigues you because they're so different?

I don't mean "planets" as in the actual distance of where the person lives. I mean the differences in interests; such as hobbies, needs, wants, desires, attractions, lifestyles, etc. So different from you that you know there's NO WAY the two of you would ever survive more than 3 hours together and you're pretty sure this person wouldn't have anything to do with you in the first place. But, again, the intrigue is still there. In fact it can be a total turn-on.

Does anyone know what the hell I'm talking about? Gawd please someone know what the hell I'm talking about, lol.

Chris
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I understand what you mean. I am there.
 
I sooooooooooooooooooo used to have a crush on a guy like that and if I ever saew him again I know I totall would again... kjust because he was sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo fucking hawt! :D
 
Thank you, I'm glad there are some of you that know what I'm talking about.

And sometimes you really really really want to confront this person, but then you smack yourself and tell yourself to get a grip because there's a 99% chance you'll be shot down in fiery flames. And I don't take rejection very well, I'm afraid.
 
Just like the end of that Eternal Sunshine flick, sometimes you have to say "fuck it", Chris.

What ever fallout that would come from giving it a try would be a hell of a lot more fulfilling than than the speculation of "what if?".

That is how my head works, at least.
 
Evsann said:
Just like the end of that Eternal Sunshine flick, sometimes you have to say "fuck it", Chris.

What ever fallout that would come from giving it a try would be a hell of a lot more fulfilling than than the speculation of "what if?".
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My whole life is one big "what if?"

And hey, glad to see you around and posting. I hope everything is okay.

(*8*)
 
trawler69 said:
Chris I've been there so many times and it hurts! (*8*)
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Well it's not so much a pain issue at this point, but rather feeling completely stupid because it becomes more and more obvious I'm the type of guy this man would have nothing to do with. And if he would have something to do with me, he's damn good at hiding it.

Sometimes the attraction (on our end, not theirs) is so strong you just want to say, "Hate me, I don't care! Just acknowledge me and you can hate me all you want! Take it out on me sexually, I want you to throw me down and ravish my body and use me to take out your aggressions!"

lol

I'm nuts. I realize this.

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Christopher123 said:
I mean the differences in interests; such as hobbies, needs, wants, desires, attractions, lifestyles, etc. So different from you that you know there's NO WAY the two of you would ever survive more than 3 hours together

Does anyone know what the hell I'm talking about? Gawd please someone know what the hell I'm talking about, lol.
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Yes, his name is Kelly. I first saw/met him over 20 years ago. He was, and still is, one of the most attractive guys I have ever met. The only thing we have in common is we are both gay. We can have "small chat" together like the weather etc., but other than that, we just don't have anything in common to talk about. I have never slept with him, never had sex, fooled around or even kissed him and we have had many opportunities to do so and there is mutual attraction, but we have never done so.
There is a strong physical attraction but mentally we just don't click, not because we don't like one another, we do, just nothing in common.
I fantasize about him !oops! but...
That is life, what is the point, I don't know...over 20 years!
 
VICTORIADON said:
That is life, what is the point, I don't know...over 20 years!
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Oh my gosh, that's a long time. But I know what you mean about having certain things in common, yet you just don't 'click'. I mean, maybe I'm crazy. But it turns me on as well as bothers me :rolleyes:

I'm so weird. I'm now realizing, with this thread, just how weird I really am. But you know? I'm a glutton for punishment. In some ways. I'm to the point now (in my thoughts) where I'd want him to tell me he doesn't like me while ripping my clothes off.

OMG, I need therapy.

(*S*)
 
Christopher123 said:
In some ways. I'm to the point now (in my thoughts) where I'd want him to tell me he doesn't like me while ripping my clothes off.

OMG, I need therapy.

(*S*)
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No. You just sound horny tonight and probably need a good lay. :sex: ;)

BTW, opposites DO attract. Why not take a chance with him?
 
hey. i took a chance on someone who i thought i could only have small talk with and ended up in a relationship that has been going well for over 2 years. I am normally not one to take chances like that, and it wasn't just attraction. If you think that something can really flourish from going for it--I say take a chance. I also thought I had a 99% chance of being shot down.(A friend of mine even told me multiple times how, "i just wasnt their type AT ALL, and that I should just move on--i didnt.) I planned it all very casually and asked to just "hang out"(avoided all "date" connotation) with him at his place. He knew i had been into him in the past, and I took my cues from his body language: If he seemed uncomfortable with the closer I got I would've backed off, but he didn't so I asked to kiss him--he said yes. Admittedly it was a rough start, but you can be amazed at what can come out of someone you thought you had nothing in common with-- and realize you had more in common with them than anyone all along.

Happy Holidays
 
I think there's no such thing as a pointless attraction.

Only sometimes it's difficult figuring out the point of it.
 
Yes. There's this straight young guy at work that I have mentioned before........ :? ](*,) :cry:
 
Christopher123 said:
I'm so weird. I'm now realizing, with this thread, just how weird I really am.
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OMG, I need therapy.
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Oh hell no. You are quite alright! And happily alive and normal!(!)

Christopher123 said:
I'm to the point now (in my thoughts) where I'd want him to tell me he doesn't like me while ripping my clothes off.
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Kind of a neat fantasy. ..| See my comments above. (*8*)
 
Christopher123 said:
Thanks for all the comments :)

And I think Riverrick may be right, I'm just freakin horny.

:help:

lol
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Awww! Poor guy!

Actually, I could use a little help too. :rolleyes:

Wouldn't it be the right thing to do and in the Christmas Spirit to help each other out??? :gogirl:
 
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