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Political Correctness should be banned. Not Christmas.

Christmas is a Christian word/holiday. It is not a generic catch-all term for the holidays.

Use it however you please in your church or home or private place.
So basically what you are saying is that if I do say the word Christmas, i should whisper so as not to offend anyone.

I say fuck that!!!!!!! I'll say Christmas Christ God lord heavenly father when ever the hell and where ever the hell I want to. If some one doesn't like it they better pack a lunch if they want to pick a fight about it, cause it'll take a long damn time before I change my mind about this one!!!!!!

EVERYONE HAVE A MERRY CHRISTMAS, AND GOD BLESS EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU.:wave:
 
My village dealt with it this way:

In front of village hall is a designated decoration area. Anyone from any religion wishing to display a decoration may do so.

You know what we've had there since it went up? A Christmas tree. I think once someone put up a menorah, but it was rather poorly built.

The village in which I work has a sign on the tree in the middle of the roundabout: "This tree paid for and erected with private funds"
 
I hope the judge bans the playing of White Christmas next. Damned racist song...
 
If I moved to Israel I wouldn't ask them to cover all public stars of David. I'd learn to live with other human beings who have different customs to mine. Asking xmas trees to be banned is NOT PC, it's intolerance.

If the courthouse is in a community where xmas trees are traditional then new members of the community should either adapt to the tradition or move out. I'm assuming the person who protested didn't JUST discover xmas trees offended him.
 
I have always sent cards that said "Happy Holidays" because many people on my list weren't Christian and the card also included New Years wishes. Would any one with half a brain send a card to a Jewish or Moslem friend with religious verses and a picture of Jesus or Mary?

Yes. Why not? I wouldn't mind them sending me religious cards either.
Back into medieval history, before mamluks, mongol conquests, crusades and Al-Hakim, muslims and christians celebrated their holidays together, bah, state officials, icluding caliphs, participated in it.
Being offended by someone having some other religious views is fundamentalism.
Political correctness in this point is a laic fundamentalism.
 
I don't think this is all about political correctness, it's more about mutual respect and consideration.
Insofar as covering Stars of David in Israel, you would be a visitor and have no say. Do you really beleive all American Jews just got off the banana boat? Many Jewish families have been here as long as we have.
 
I don't think this is all about political correctness, it's more about mutual respect and consideration.
Insofar as covering Stars of David in Israel, you would be a visitor and have no say. Do you really beleive all American Jews just got off the banana boat? Many Jewish families have been here as long as we have.

I said if I moved to Israel.

And my point about the american jew is precisely that it's absurd if he is taking offence at the Xmas tree after living all his life in an american city. So I assumed he had just moved to the community.

And mutual respect and consideration is what political correctness is all about - you respect the star of david, the xmas tree, the mosque, etc. You don't have them banned, you learn to co-exist.
 
Anti-PC attitudes...from gay men?!? :confused:

Since gays are a minority, and an oppressed one in many parts of the world, you really should have a more positive attitude towards PC or at least share some solidarity with other minorities that are mistreated.

So really, you're saying that you want to be respected as a minority, but you denounce other minorities? :confused:
 
This issue is beyond absurd.

Christmas traditions have absolutely nothing to do with the birth of Christ. Christmas trees, Santa Claus, gift-giving and the colors green and red are all holdovers from ancient pagan celebrations of the winter solstice. Christ was not even born in the month of December.

Both the Christians and the Jews need to get over themselves and stop acting like spoiled children. That mentality is the reason why millions upon millions of people have been brutally slaughtered over the centuries in the name of religion.
 
Anti-PC attitudes...from gay men?!? :confused:

Since gays are a minority, and an oppressed one in many parts of the world, you really should have a more positive attitude towards PC or at least share some solidarity with other minorities that are mistreated.

So really, you're saying that you want to be respected as a minority, but you denounce other minorities? :confused:

PC is not about protecting minorities. It is limiting freedom of speech and opressing people.
it seems that PC means You can not actually show that You have some religion. Well, at least not christian. Because it may hurt someone's feelings.
Isn't it the same as forbidding people to show they are gay in public, because it may offend someone's feelings?
If someone is offended because someone has other lifestyle than he has, or he is offended because someone does not share his religious views, he is a fundamentalist and an idiot.

NOT YOU! A public/federal place, silly.

It's not about offending anyone. It's about government's endorsing one religion over another.
This isn't a personal issue, people.

Get over yourselves.

So, if I dress red in a public place, is it state endorsing red colour? If I put a S.Dali's in state office, is it state endorsing S.Dali's painting style? Should we ban "Imagine" from being broadcasted or even tuned in public, because it promotes atheism and communism? Should other religions than christianity rename their holidays to some completely meaningless names as well? It's absurd.

This issue is beyond absurd.

Christmas traditions have absolutely nothing to do with the birth of Christ. Christmas trees, Santa Claus, gift-giving and the colors green and red are all holdovers from ancient pagan celebrations of the winter solstice. Christ was not even born in the month of December.

Both the Christians and the Jews need to get over themselves and stop acting like spoiled children. That mentality is the reason why millions upon millions of people have been brutally slaughtered over the centuries in the name of religion.

Santa Claus, or Saint Nicolaus, is an actual christian saint. He didn't come from Lapland, but he did give gifts to people and it is why we are giving presents these days. Aren't carols part of Christmas tradition as well? Or nativity scenes? In my region of Europe, there are another traditions associated with Christmas that are clearly christian or christianised. Christmas tree has biblical roots as well.
Without christinity, we wouldn't be celebrating this day. If the church settled Christmas on another day, we would be celebrating christmas on another day. That there were some earlier traditions - who cares? it's not them that made this day celebrated, nor carols, nor the christmas tree (in most countries not such a long tradition), nor gifts even, but Christ.
 
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Simple as fuck message?

You're saying the government of "one nation under God" shouldn't endorse a certain religion. That seems to complicate the matter.
 
You weren't clear earlier. Re-read your post on this page...
So You're opposing laying out public funds on funding religious symbols? OK. It is understandable.

But You've said not to use word "Christmas" in goverment/public places, and THIS is what I do not understand at all. Please, explain it to me, why shouldn't "Christmas" name be used by administration or people in public places / administrative buildings / whatever?
 
ELCA and Episcopalians have Nicholaus on their calendars. (I oft think the Roman Catholic Church is dubious..) :-)

Th tree does not have Biblical roots but was something Germanic and Nordic Chrstians brought into the tradition - and yeah we guess where they got that from - in our culture that evergreen (God's love is ever present) tree (pointing to heaven) is resolutely a Christian symbol.

The Incarnation is very foundational and that makes it the equal of any festival - in those churches that count them, whatever number of equal major festivals they have, Christmas, Epiphany, Easter, and Pentecost (and usually Ascension and Holy Trinity) are among them - equal in importance.

Of course the December 25 thing was just a date picked to crash on solsitice.
 
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You're saying the government of "one nation under God" shouldn't endorse a certain religion. That seems to complicate the matter.

What complicates it is the mistaklen assumption that this is "one nation under God." That is not in the Constitution, but government neutrality is.

One nation under God was added to the Pledge in the 50s to show those godless commies we meant business. Funny that we managd to win WW2 without "under God" in the pledge and have been on a losing streak since we added it. I think it is disrepectful to those who served in WW1 and WW2 to say the pledge they said was inadquete. But none th less, that is not Constitution and it is not law and we are not one nation under God.

Never confuse God and the state.
 
Name one denomination that recognizes him. Catholicism finds his claim to sainthood too dubious.

really? I am catholic, and I was always taught he IS a catholic saint. There are statues of Saint Nicolaus in bishop dress in Poland, and it is supported by the church. Would Bari take his corpse from Mira, if he wasn't an accepted saint?

The christmas tree is from the nineteenth century, unless I didn't pay attention in sunday school and Douglas-firs were growing around the Lake of Galilee around 20 A.D.

I'm not that much in the subject, but wikipedia claims otherwise.

Wrong. Christmas is a celebration of the winter solstice and would have taken place in Europe regardless, as it is the most important day of the year.

Do You really believe we would be celebrating this day was it not for the church to put Christ's birthday in this day? I seriously doubt it. Had church wished to celebrate it on another day, we would. Had church wished and really tried to get rid of any pagan celebrations on this day, it would finally succeed.
We do not celebrate this day today because it's winter solstice, but because it is traditional day of Christ's birth. The choice of this date is not a coincidence, of course, but the fact that it is winter solstice became irrelevant with the pass of time.

It is not a coincidence that Christmas that is inferior in meaning to Easter and Pentecost in Christianity is the most festive season.

it is not a coincidence... It is because celebration of birth of Jesus appeals much more to people than celebration of his death and resurrection, though perhaps finalisation of God's Plan is more important than the start of it.

Yes, the word "Christmas" has no business being displayed in a federal courthouse or any taxpayer funded public place unless all other religions are also represented.

What do You want to say by "displayed in a federal courthouse..." etc? A sign "happy christmas"? If it is paid from public funds, it may seem inappropriate, true, at least when there are some major religious minorities.
But even this is not obvious. Lets say Poland celebrates anniversary of Grunwald (Tannenberg) battle. Or Americans celebrates its war of independance. Sure, for Poles Grunwald is something to celebrate. Also, for majority of Americans, the independance is something to celebrate. But what if german minority in Poland is offended by using public money, money paid by them as well, for celebration of something some of them would rather didn't happen? The same, if someone is neo-loyalist or whatever, and thinks all this independance idea was not a good thing, why should his money be spent on celebration of such an event?
There's NOTHING everyone will like. NOTHING that will not offend someone.

It would be less controversial if "Happy Christmas" sign was funded from someone's personal savings, someone working there or whatever. But...
Lets say a state-owned firm helds a small birthday party for one of its employees. Or even just allows organising it in one of its rooms. It should be banned according to your way of thinking; after all, someone may dislike this person and not be happy with donating anything to him out, even an hour in some hall or a place on the wall for "Happy Birthday" sign.

Additionally, while You may have a point in such cases, when public money or use of public space is in question, it seemed to me that You actually think that even SAYING Happy Christmas in a public building is bad. Glad it's not what You've ment.

Freedom of speech has limitations, if it's unconstitutional and/or dangerous. For example, I can't stand up in a crowded auditorium and yell, "FIRE!" if there isn't one. Freedom of speech doesn't protect such a practice.

I think there's a difference between maliciously causing chaos and probability of injuries or even death, and any religious activity that is not pointed against other people

It also doesn't protect putting up a banner on or in a federal building which says "Christmas" without adding the other faiths to it. That would be the government endorsing one religion over the others.

My opinion is that it'd be the nicest thing if You could have a banner like this for EVERY religion, but it is impossible, because there are so many of them. If population would be 1/3 muslim, 1/3 jewish, 1/3 christian, or even 90% christian and 10% jewish, it would be unproper to put just Christmas sign, and no Hanukkah or whatever. But if population is like in Poland, 98% christian or so, I am doubtful if it is not right to put a Christmas poster... I wouldn't mind Jewish as well, because this faith at least has long tradition in Poland. But declining demand to put a baha'i sign, for example, I would understand, because this religion practically do not exist here etc. But there should be some rules made, like the list of traditional religions and automatic adding new religions that reached some percentage of population of a particular city.

This is why so many public places (like department stores) have been using the all inclusive "Happy Holidays" instead. Not because they are trying to "ban" Christmas.

There are people not celebrating these holidays at all. Why should their money be spent on this poster?

Oh, and I think there is a big difference between state office and department store. Department store, as private ownership, can do whatever it pleases.
To forbid them to wish Merry Christmas is interfering in their marketing. If they find christians a consumer group worth of attention, it's their right. If someone doesn't like it - he will shop in another place. But what a lousy man would it have to be to be offended by this anyway.
It's like if someone with overweight was angry that most of models are thin or that most clothes in the shops are in smaller sizes than his. Perhaps it's not fair, but that's what most people like, and You can not forbid them. There are some who have different views in this matter and it's their right as well.
 
Christmas is also a paid federal holiday, I don't ever recall hearing non-Christians complain about that.
Insofar as government funds expended for Christmas, what about gay people (most of whom don't have children) paying to educate the children of others?
What about those of us who pay increasingly higher health insurance so hospitals can continue to aid the uninsured?
I worked for the federal govt for 30 yrs, it was the employees who paid for any and all Christmas decorations, your tax dollar never did.
Christmas isn't just a religious holiday, it's a tradition in those countries that have allways had a Christian majority, if you don't like our centuries old traditions, move elsewhere and start your own traditions.
 
Where do you draw the line?
I'm all for recognizing Christian, Jewish and Moslem holidays. What about Hindu, Sikh, Bahai, Buddist, Taoist, Shinto, Jim Jones & Charles Manson followers? Aren't they offended by displays of the three Abrahamic faiths?
I was always a fan of NYCs' St Patrick Day Parade. Then the Italians wanted a day, then the Puerto Ricans wanted a day and so on. Based on that cities ethnic minorities there would be a parade a week, or more often.
Christmas, like St Paddys' Day has a historical and traditional element that overrides religious or ethnic favoritism.
 
OK, so Christmas is a Christian holiday, mixed with pagan symbols.
Some devout Christians see it as a holy day only, while others (Christian & non-Christian) see it as a holiday or a tradition filled with pleasant things.
Who doesn't enjoy seeing the expression on a childs' face opening a gift?. Or the wonderful reaction another loved one has in receiving a thoughtful rememberance? We probably should do things like this throughout the year, but we get caught up in our daily lives. It's also an annual reminder to send greeting cards, keeping on touch with those who have moved away and we want to remember.

I just can't understand the mindset of people who want to suck the joy and life out of something so many others enjoy.
 
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