POLL IT:- Straight-acting

[LuckysRevenge]

I'm sorry you have no gay life. Want a cookie?

What is a gay life?

 

[TX-Beau]

Or....he figured he was actually not, his vernacular speaks volumes.

What, not aware? Not SA. Not a Redneck, Not English (around here that means effeminate -as in "is he a fag,or just English") Not a Republican? NOT A MARRYYYY!!

LOL

SPEAK TO ME VERNACULAR!!!!!!

 

[blackbeltninja]

Actually that's not what he's saying. It wasn't fine for him when he was doing it either. He was just not aware. Now he is. Take note.

Actually, I think you'll find it IS what he's saying.

And I'm sure when he was using it as cover, or to find like-minded guys, or whatever else he was using it for, he was just fine fine fine with it - probably on our side and everything. I'll admit I'm guessing, but I'd put some money on it.

He can be as smug about his current views as he likes; but I'll bet he's not at all sorry for any mileage he got from being SA back in the day and that puts him on something of a slippery slope.

-d-

 

[TX-Beau]

What is a gay life?

I'm so sorry you don't know, how tragic.

 

[xbuzzerx]

I'm so sorry you don't know, how tragic.

I'm curious as well. Since a lot of the "definition" of being gay is at the core of the discussion here.

I already gave my definition which is, I'm into men. I'm not sure what else is necessarily a universal part of it for everyone.

 

[TX-Beau]

...He can be as smug about his current views as he likes; but I'll bet he's not at all sorry for any mileage he got from being SA back in the day and that puts him on something of a slippery slope.

-d-

LOL

I do remember that smug conceit that somehow all gay men were lucky to be noticed by my SA ass.

 

[TX-Beau]

I'm curious as well. Since a lot of the "definition" of being gay is at the core of the discussion here.

The definition of "being gay" has never been the subject. WE were discussing the commonalities gay men experience.

Don't try to change the subject.

 

[LuckysRevenge]

I'm so sorry you don't know, how tragic.

You're being pathetic. When you're cornered in this thread and called out you try to joke and make light of things.
It's neither funny or convincing.

I tried to stay out of this ridiculous argument but I could not help calling you out.

So if someone can't tell you're gay, then that's a problem? And now there is a "gay" life? What does that mean exactly? Who determines what a "gay" life is?

And I I don't have a "gay" life, does that mean I have a straight one? Could I be described as straight-living?

 

[blackbeltninja]

Righhttttt........................

You don't like apples, farmers grow apples, they like to sell them, selling is good, money comes from selling, YOU HATE MONEY!!!!!

Was it you who had the reading comprehension problem upthread?

Go on, then.

Tell us about how you called yourself SA, but oh G_d how you just hated doing so, all the time. Every time you said it or acted like that, a little piece of your soul just withered and died, so much so that after like 3 days* you just couldn't anymore.

How long did your SA phase last? How much mileage did you get from it? Did anyone call you out on it, and if so, did you defend your position or admit you were wrong?

I'm genuinely interested.

-d-
*Weeks? Months? Years? Decades?

 

[xbuzzerx]

The definition of "being gay" has never been the subject. WE were discussing the commonalities gay men experience.

Don't try to change the subject.

You're the one changing the subject. We're asking what you believe those set-in-stone commonalities are, and you haven't answered.

 

[TX-Beau]

Nope, that would be you.

 

[Rolyo85]

Good for you. Want a cookie?

When I talk about my life, it's not obvious I'm gay. Is that a problem?

Kinda... Care to elaborate?

 

[TX-Beau]

I'm genuinely interested.

Liar liar pants on fire.

 

[LuckysRevenge]

Kinda... Care to elaborate?

The only way someone could tell I'm gay is if I talk about my sex life or if I'm dating someone. Not dating anyone currently so the subject of my sexuality is never relevant to conversation.
However I am out and freely discuss my sexuality with pride if it is ever relevant (talking about gay marriage for example).

 

[blackbeltninja]

Liar liar pants on fire.

Not keen to get into details, then? Worried you might have benefited a bit TOO much from the term to justify the piss and vinegar you're spraying on it now?

Keep digging - rock bottom isn't far. Nearly there!

-d-

 

[Rolyo85]

Actually, I think you'll find it IS what he's saying.

And I'm sure when he was using it as cover, or to find like-minded guys, or whatever else he was using it for, he was just fine fine fine with it - probably on our side and everything. I'll admit I'm guessing, but I'd put some money on it.

He can be as smug about his current views as he likes; but I'll bet he's not at all sorry for any mileage he got from being SA back in the day and that puts him on something of a slippery slope.

-d-

No it's really not what he's saying.

And of course he was fine with it when he was using it. Then he stopped because he became more self aware.

Your attempt to make him into some sort of hypocrite for having used SA, is logically inconsistent. If anything, his experience makes him an authority on the subject.

 

[TX-Beau]

Not keen to get into details, then? Worried you might have benefited a bit TOO much from the term to justify the piss and vinegar you're spraying on it now?

Keep digging - rock bottom isn't far. Nearly there!

-d-

It's more fun to watch you froth. (thanks for the word Mitchy!)

 

[Rolyo85]

I'm curious as well. Since a lot of the "definition" of being gay is at the core of the discussion here.

I already gave my definition which is, I'm into men. I'm not sure what else is necessarily a universal part of it for everyone.

A gay life is communicating with other gays, having homosexual romantic life and being interested in other men sexually and romantically. All of which does actually come up occasionally in a generic everyday conversation WITHOUT people asking you.

Unless you specifically wait for them to ask and otherwise omit these parts of your life.

 

[LuckysRevenge]

A gay life is communicating with other gays, having homosexual romantic life and being interested in other men sexually and romantically. All of which does actually come up occasionally in a generic everyday conversation WITHOUT people asking you.

Unless you specifically wait for them to ask and otherwise omit these parts of your life.

You talk about your sex and romantic life in every day conversation?

Even if you do, to suggest that it's the norm is ridiculous. My straight friends don't talk to me about their sex or romantic life unless they have a partner or unless we're very close.

 

[TX-Beau]

Mary Peaches is tired right now. Work it out yourself.

Now don't be that way sugarplum, I'd be lost without you.