Potential gay sex spot in New York City

[snclas]

I know this may sound very weird but do you know if there are any places in NYC that you can just come and find someone to have a safe one-night-stand with. I came to the West Village (dunno if that's the same with Greenwich Village) as people recommended but I didn't find like a place like that.
Anddo you think it'll ever be okay to come up and ask a guy if he wants a blowjob (sounds so low-esteem, sorry hehehe)

 

[sentirpromesas]

I know this may sound very weird but do you know if there are any places in NYC that you can just come and find someone to have a safe one-night-stand with. I came to the West Village (dunno if that's the same with Greenwich Village) as people recommended but I didn't find like a place like that.
Anddo you think it'll ever be okay to come up and ask a guy if he wants a blowjob (sounds so low-esteem, sorry hehehe)

I'm sorry sweetie, but that doesn't exist. I know you didn't come to have people talk to you about the health risks associated with cruise spots and one-night stands, but I feel as a community we should look out for one another. You are an adult, and can do with your life whatever it is you want (isn't US America great?). However, what you described, a "safe one-night stand" just isn't real. It's a dream in our collective memories of pre-AIDS gay life. To convince yourself that today it is still possible, is putting yourself in danger. Don't do that. Love yourself more than that.

In other news, as you probably imagined, I have no clue where you can find a cock to suck.

 

[snclas]

I swear to God that this is like the most random stuff I've ever come up with, lol. But yeah, it's all good (wink)

 

[Telstra]

it'll ever be okay to come up and ask a guy if he wants a blowjob ()

no one would dear ask that unless there is a film crew and let the camera rolls.

 

[spiderhead]

ACtually there's a place in Long Beach California like that. So yeah, in some parts of the country people dare to ask that stuff. I can't help you out with New York though.

 

[Spellbound]

i'm sure there's places like that in most major cities. they're just very underground. and I don't imagine them being very safe.

 

[spiderhead]

Yeah. I've personally never done anything like that but I do know of the place in Long Beach because it's pretty well known amongst the gay community. It's actually right in front of the beach.

 

[thewiz]

You might check to see if there is a bathhouse in New York. I'm not sure if there is or isn't. My ex roommate lives in New York so when I visit we usually go to the clubs and everyone seems pretty friendly and there are always the willing....

As for asking about a blowjob...I'm not sure I would like that or find it very kinky and erotic!

 

[snclas]

lol you guys, I just realised how very random and insane it was. I wouldn't want it either. But anyway, I went to that bathclub called the West Side Club, and it's so weird that I kinda had a feeling people were just too cautious for anthing to happen. (which means I just ripped 30 dollars)

 

[thewiz]

Hope you at least got a blowjob!

 

[BigGreen04]

I do believe all the bathhouses in NYC were closed years ago due to aforementioned health hazards.

The best place to find no-strings-attached action in NYC is--you guessed it--via the internet.

But, there are still porn booths in Times Square (42nd Street). And a few gay porn stores in Chelsea where guys lurk the booths for action. I've never done anything in the booths, but I know a friend who has and it is obvious that people do it. Bring cash to make the videos play, or else they'll kick you out. Don't piss of the attendants though. They may chase you with their mops.

 

[Soramaro]

Here is a site that should give you all the information you need

http://www.bathhouseaddict.com/


I have not personally gone to any of these places but I want to and this site seems to be a good guide to do so.

 

[pmgunnerxx]

cruisingforsex.com is another site that likely has the info on it your looking for.