Powebottoms, ever tie up a guy and sit on their dick?

[RalphQ]

Not safe for work lol. Said this to cute guy in a chat room and got his attention even though he was more quiet. Anyone do it? I thought about it. Just pinned them down.

 

[cubbybear01]

I have two friends at college who are a couple. One is short and versatile, the other is tall, feminine and strictly a bottom. The versatile one eventually got tired of being the top all the time so he tied his boyfriend to the bed and then power-bottomed him unexpectedly.

 

[eastofeden]

I had a real creepy guy tie me up and do exactly that in the morning after we had sex the night before...he rode me and made a lot of creepy noises... and then wouldn't let me leave the house and made me breakfast and fed me in bed..he thought my hands were still tied up but I had gotten one loose and as soon as I ate some of the damn food and he left the room I got all the way loose and climbed out the window...

...my heart was racing like crazy and I was half naked and when he heard the car I guess...or went into the room and saw I was gone...I saw him run out of the door and chase my car... YIKES

...late that night he came in the nightclub I worked at and made a scene...telling me he is the best thing that would EVER happen to me...he was scary angry.....

....and he was sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo wrong

 

[MakeDigitalLove]

I think he actually meant he is the scariest thing that would ever happen to you.

 

[erobert]

As a sub bottom, this is something that I've thought about being done to me- but only with the right guy (meaning attractive, safe and sane).

I had a real creepy guy tie me up and do exactly that in the morning after we had sex the night before...he rode me and made a lot of creepy noises... and then wouldn't let me leave the house and made me breakfast and fed me in bed..he thought my hands were still tied up but I had gotten one loose and as soon as I ate some of the damn food and he left the room I got all the way loose and climbed out the window...

...my heart was racing like crazy and I was half naked and when he heard the car I guess...or went into the room and saw I was gone...I saw him run out of the door and chase my car... YIKES

...late that night he came in the nightclub I worked at and made a scene...telling me he is the best thing that would EVER happen to me...he was scary angry.....

....and he was sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo wrong

Yikes! That's pretty crazy. Nut jobs like that are giving kinky people a real bad rap and turn off guys from exploring their interest in bondage with others ever again. Always meet in a public place beforehand to gauge them.

 

[eastofeden]

As a sub bottom, this is something that I've thought about being done to me- but only with the right guy (meaning attractive, safe and sane).

Yikes! That's pretty crazy. Nut jobs like that are giving kinky people a real bad rap and turn off guys from exploring their interest in bondage with others ever again. Always meet in a public place beforehand to gauge them.

Well...to be fair...he didn't really "ask" me and I didn't really agree...it was just one of those run of the mill "gee...you are young and cute and I want to own you" scenarios that I got a lot when I was 20-22. I got it maybe a little more than a lot of other people because I was in a gay nightclub and a lot more people saw me (and I liked having sex)...and before that hanging out at one so it was just one of those things young gay men have to deal with BECAUSE they are young. I also tend to attract and be attracted to really intense men and sometimes intense men like to "own things"...and own people. Takes awhile to figure out the difference...

It did not scare me away from kink though...I have been on both sides of dominant/submissive scenarios since that morning and am much better for it....the thing that was different after Mr Creepy Breakfast Guy was that with other guys we both agreed and it was mutual satisfaction...an essential element

I think he actually meant he is the scariest thing that would ever happen to you.

I wish that were true but doing a quick list from memory he is probably the 7th or 8th scariest...I got around a lot....

 

[kayman23]

I have two friends at college who are a couple. One is short and versatile, the other is tall, feminine and strictly a bottom. The versatile one eventually got tired of being the top all the time so he tied his boyfriend to the bed and then power-bottomed him unexpectedly.

Uh, the versatile guy knew whom he was getting with so forcing somebody to do that is just plain out of line. I would have just ended that relationship on those grounds alone. Sexual compatibility is key and if you are versatile and your partner is a strict bottom then one ought even realize they are going to be the top full time, buy a double-ended Dildo or just don't waste your time and find somebody that will accommodating to your preferred sexual position.

 

[erobert]

Well...to be fair...he didn't really "ask" me and I didn't really agree...it was just one of those run of the mill "gee...you are young and cute and I want to own you" scenarios that I got a lot when I was 20-22. I got it maybe a little more than a lot of other people because I was in a gay nightclub and a lot more people saw me (and I liked having sex)...and before that hanging out at one so it was just one of those things young gay men have to deal with BECAUSE they are young. I also tend to attract and be attracted to really intense men and sometimes intense men like to "own things"...and own people. Takes awhile to figure out the difference...

It did not scare me away from kink though...I have been on both sides of dominant/submissive scenarios since that morning and am much better for it....the thing that was different after Mr Creepy Breakfast Guy was that with other guys we both agreed and it was mutual satisfaction...an essential element



I wish that were true but doing a quick list from memory he is probably the 7th or 8th scariest...I got around a lot....

Ah, I see. I'm more careful these days with bondage stuff since there's a lot of creepy people online and too many older guys wanting "to break" in young guys in with no respect for safewords or anything. As you say mutual respect and trust is key.

kayman, somewhat agree; both people in a relationship need to be into bondage before anyone breaks out the rope. Unfortunately a lot of guys won't say what kinks they're into for fear that their partner might think it's "weird" or is worried about being stigmatized despite the fact that it's a common fetish. My ex was into being tickled/ tickling others and spanking but wouldn't fully communicate or open up about his fantasies because he was ashamed and embarrassed by them even though I was willing to be a part of them.

Communicating in the bedroom about those kind of desires and exploring them safely can spice up or revive a couple's sex life.

 

[eastofeden]

Ah, I see. I'm more careful these days with bondage stuff since there's a lot of creepy people online and too many older guys wanting "to break" in young guys in with no respect for safewords or anything. As you say mutual respect and trust is key.

kayman, somewhat agree; both people in a relationship need to be into bondage before anyone breaks out the rope. Unfortunately a lot of guys won't say what kinks they're into for fear that their partner might think it's "weird" or is worried about being stigmatized despite the fact that it's a common fetish. My ex was into being tickled/ tickling others and spanking but wouldn't fully communicate or open up about his fantasies because he was ashamed and embarrassed by them even though I was willing to be a part of them.

Communicating in the bedroom about those kind of desires and exploring them safely can spice up or revive a couple's sex life.

I agree with everything you said

Mutual respect and trust are essential...always...and communication is the key to pretty much everything

 

[dereperez]

So, what exactly is a "powerbottom"? An enthusiastic and aggressive bottom?

 

[eastofeden]

So, what exactly is a "powerbottom"? An enthusiastic and aggressive bottom?

Someone who is insatiable...and can last for hours and hours...and hours. (and yes...enthusiastic and aggressive as well)

 

[cubbybear01]

Uh, the versatile guy knew whom he was getting with so forcing somebody to do that is just plain out of line. I would have just ended that relationship on those grounds alone. Sexual compatibility is key and if you are versatile and your partner is a strict bottom then one ought even realize they are going to be the top full time, buy a double-ended dildo, or just don't waste your time and find somebody that will accommodating to your preferred sexual position.

Well, I know how it must sound out of context but it wasn't the huge issue that it seems. It did not end their relationship and they are still happily together. It's not as if it was rape. His boyfriend could have stopped it at anytime if he just said, "No, this isn't what I want." They had tried reversing roles before but his boyfriend always lost his wood too quickly because his brain couldn't get into it. However, by power-bottoming him unexpectedly, he was actually able to keep him aroused long enough to do the deed. No clue if its something that they have repeated since then.

 

[RalphQ]

Yes a power bottom is where the bottom is aggressive and more dominant and the top is submissive. I pissed some guy of for being really bossy and telling him what to do. He obviously didn't like that. The opposite of a power bottom is a service top.