Pretty Face , Bad Character

[Danugh]

If a guy is sexy and hot with a banging body but his personailty and character are disgusting, would you still be able to find him attractive.

I find that no matter how hot a guy is if his character is dirty he looses his appeal for me no matter how good he looks.

 

[Lube]

If a guy is sexy and hot with a banging body but his personailty and character are disgusting, would you still be able to find him attractive.

I find that no matter how hot a guy is if his character is dirty he looses his appeal for me no matter how good he looks.

You're turning out to be a fine young man, newboy.

 

[dolphwasser]

Ugly is as ugly does. To me, you can't be attractive if you have a bad character.

 

[cozmik]

No. He could be the most physically attractive person in the world, but if he was a jack ass, he would instantly become unattractive to me.

 

[Danugh]

Its interesting how the mind works because obviously the hot guy has the same physical appearnace he had before you found out about his character so its interesting how our minds work and how we can percieve people differently after and befre their actions.

 

[Danugh]

Everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise.

I think he could be handsome, but then might pull something like sleeping with other men, or I might learn he's been feeling up strangers on public transit, or making passes at friends he is staying overnight with, or sleeps with his sister's boyfriend, or is spiteful and vindictive about former boyfriends, or just constantly on the make and not very honest with himself.

Those things could be a big turnoff.

Well if thats the case why dont you put whoever that person is on ignore.

Just a suggestion

 

[Danugh]

Uh huh, and what about nice character and icky body and face?

Now thats just being vain. Its whats on the inside that counts. Physical attractiveness fades with age.

"icky body and face"? that is somebodys child you are talking about. You might think its "icky " but to someone else they might find the guy extremely attractive.

Id much rather you said you werent attracted to him than to say he has a "icky body and face".

Thats not nice.

 

[Paul_UK]

Appearances are only the initial attraction. If he has a bad personality I quickly lose interest, no matter how cute he is.

 

[Danugh]

apologizing wont/ cant change character its just words so carry on.

 

[Danugh]

Well would you just have a hot night of passion with them and move on or engage in nothing at all once you find out about their personality.

There is this one guy i know his personality is very wrong but if he forced the issue i think i would succumb for one night but then my morals would come into question.

Its like if i mess with him what do i stand for.

Why am i making an exception for this man but not for others, i think in the end i would not do anything with him even if apart of me would want to do something with him since he is hot. Although maybe if he told me that he is trying to change his ways.

It can get complicated.

 

[looseliam]

Beauty is only skin deep; ugly goes straight to the bone.

I've met a few men that were gorgeous, but then they speak. I always think to myself "you should have just kept your mouth shut!."

 

[jwest]

i wouldnt find him attractive anymore,
but i couldnt deny that hes good looking.
thered be nothing wrong in saying, hes hot but a the biggest ass out there

 

[TheBenz]

He could be the hottest guy on earth. But if he's an asshole with a bad personality, I wouldnt waste a minute on him.

 

[MidnightPrism]

Appearances are only the initial attraction. If he has a bad personality I quickly lose interest, no matter how cute he is.

Exactly. Takes a lot more than looks to make someone attractive

 

[unclaimedblessing]

Ted Bundy and Scott Peterson are considered by many to be handsome hunks, but we all know how they worked out.
Character traits are more important than physical beauty,but if we can find both WOW!

 

[gmoney]

Beauty is only skin deep; ugly goes straight to the bone.

I've met a few men that were gorgeous, but then they speak. I always think to myself "you should have just kept your mouth shut!."

My viewpoint exactly! I can't say how many times I've lost any attraction when some guy opens his mouth and reveals his true self!

 

[Fastdavy]

It would tend to tarnish him a bit for me but no one is totally bad.Everyone has something that redeems them as a human being.

 

[Riverrick]

Its like if i mess with him what do i stand for.

I'm kind of surprised to see this side of you, Newboy. Its sweet.

 

[chance1]

If a guy is sexy and hot with a banging body but his personailty and character are disgusting, would you still be able to find him attractive.

I find that no matter how hot a guy is if his character is dirty he looses his appeal for me no matter how good he looks.

For sure

However, I might give the sexy and hot guy a little more leash on proving he was an asshole - might take me a little while longer to "hang him" - LOL

And for me there's a difference between finding someone physically attractive and being attracted to someone and wanting to explore a relationship.

 

[Snade]

There's an old Pennsylvania German saying: "Lovin' don't last. Cookin' do." In other words, if one enters a relationship based soley on physical appearance, he's in for trouble. There's an implication here for those obsessed with porn-site models, as well. Not much shocks me any longer, but I was dumbstruck to find out not long ago that some guys spend well into six figures annually courting certain models. Talk about buying into fantasy!