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problems with virginity

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I don't know. I mean, I guess you'll have other experiences not in a toilet if you do this, but I, personaly wouldn't want to do this. I would worry about being caught and I like to leave the bathroom alone for its main purpose. But do what you want.
 
Ask him why he wants to do it in a toilet. Is it to realize a fantasy of his, is it the secret thrill of being caught? The most important thing is that if you are not comfotrable in doing it , then don't do it. Some people like to spice things up by having sex in unusual places.
 
So this guy wants the two of you to have sex in a toilet.

Dump him.
 
As I've said elsewhere...

Don't ask us.
Ask him.

You obviously have had (oral) sex elsewhere. He might have a fantasy about having sex in the bathroom. Nothing wrong with that. But you certainly should have no trouble telling him "I've never actually had anal sex before, and I'd prefer my first time not be in the public restroom." His response to that should tell you everything you'll need to know.

Lex
 
Hey veschvic,

Welcome to JUB!!!! Its great to have you on board!!!

Mate... to answer your question, there is only one person who this really matters to. YOU.

And if it doesnt sit with your values, your dreams or how you thought it would be, then dont. You are the only person who can decide how much this means to you... and your opinion is vital and important. Listen to your heart and trust in your gut.

And if this guy does like you and thinks highly of you he'll listen and respect your decision. If hes doesn't then he sure isnt worth compromising what you want for!

Good luck mate!
 
I go along with Lex and Tallguy. I cannot imagine that a public toilet would provide the most comfortable place to have sex in, particularly when you consider that this will be your first time.

Find a PRIVATE and comfortable bed!
 
First off; this whole treating virginity as though it's some huge gift to give or some pinnacle of spiritual awakening will happen when you pop your cherry is so 1950's, straight, insano-Christian mumbo jumbo. No, instead of having a finger in your pooper, or a Dildo/vegetable you are going to have a penis in there instead. Big whoop.

As far as sex in the toilet...meh.... who cares one way or the other, I surely wouldn't judge. However, in your situation I would make sure you have some privacy, whether that's your dorm room, hotel, whatever. Seeing it's your first time you will be a little nervous and need an environment where you can relax and be comfortable. If you can get that in a bathroom, then go for it. If not, I'd find another place for your first time or two having butt sex.
 
Public toilets are bad enough for their intended purpose, let alone for intimacy.
Also, it's disrespectful to others trying to use them.

Why not find a secluded dumpster somewhere??
 
Hmm..
Can't you just suggest somewhee nice for the first time, and then do the toilets after?
 
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