Prostate Pointers...

[Lacan52]

This is a somewhat common topic, but I simply wish to raise it here both for emphasis and clarification. Basically, its the endlessly fascinating, totally alluring, terminably awol prostate! Essentially, I'm intrigued by it enormously, and on a few occasions have felt some of the splendid sensations associated with it. However, it still seems to escape me, and thus I question my entire technique. Any advice would be gladly accepted.
Firstly, some internal geography of a sort - rather than describing where the prostate is, could anyone describe, rather, where is it not, what lies around and about, above and below, it, and what can be confused with it - am I overreaching, underreaching etc, and on that note, what is the best body position for exploring? Secondly, its somewhat de rigeur to describe the most effective action as the 'come hither' motion, but is there anything more specific? Thirdy, what kinds of sensations are expected (less vague than intense, or mindblowing, etc). Lastly, but perhaps most importantly, what would you said is the proper context, by which I mean, all that is happening in and around the body at the time - how does the environment affect it, what kind of preparation helps, etc.

I know that one of the golden rules is that if you are determined to find your prostate at any one time, chances are you wont. Ironically, its those times that I've felt I've experienced a taste of it that infuriate me so - they are so enticingly incomplete! Thanks for listening!

 

[racer2438]

Well to me it's pretty easy to find. And the sensations from it are great. I prefer the finger rub and being sucked at same time. But I also love to be fucked and have it rubbed by the cock and make me go wild.


But it's easy to find.

 

[Lacan52]

Well to me it's pretty easy to find. And the sensations from it are great. I prefer the finger rub and being sucked at same time. But I also love to be fucked and have it rubbed by the cock and make me go wild.


But it's easy to find.

Haha, thanks for responding and Im happy for you, but thats the kind of vagueness I mean. Its probably difficult to describe, but I need more specific information. Thanks though, enjoy yourself!

 

[KaraBulut]

Well, let's start with, "Where have you been looking?".


Up in the All About Anal sticky, there's some pictures. It's inside your rectum and can usually just be reached by the index of middle finger.

Where is it? It's under your pubic bone. If you take your left hand and place it on your lower abdomen just above your penis, you'll feel a the pubic bone. If your partner uses his finger to "point" toward the pubic bone, he'll feel the prostate.

What does it feel like? If you push your tongue between your teeth and into your cheek then use your finger to feel your tongue through your cheek- that's about what it feels like to the touch. It's a soft area with a small bump that feels a little firmer than the soft tissue around it.

 

[richardPB1]

I suggest you feel another guy's prostate first, and then it will be easier to recognize your own.

 

[Lacan52]

Well, let's start with, "Where have you been looking?".


Up in the All About Anal sticky, there's some pictures. It's inside your rectum and can usually just be reached by the index of middle finger.

Where is it? It's under your pubic bone. If you take your left hand and place it on your lower abdomen just above your penis, you'll feel a the pubic bone. If your partner uses his finger to "point" toward the pubic bone, he'll feel the prostate.

What does it feel like? If you push your tongue between your teeth and into your cheek then use your finger to feel your tongue through your cheek- that's about what it feels like to the touch. It's a soft area with a small bump that feels a little firmer than the soft tissue around it.

Thank you, very informative. Just for clarification, the cowper's gland area feels rather like a thin wide fold of flesh that protrudes, and the prostate is right above? - or is this the second part of the spinchter muscle? And if we have location solved, what kind of factors influence prostate sensations (what kinds and degrees of pressure should be used, etc? Thanks again!

 

[KaraBulut]

Thank you, very informative. Just for clarification, the cowper's gland area feels rather like a thin wide fold of flesh that protrudes, and the prostate is right above? - or is this the second part of the spinchter muscle? And if we have location solved, what kind of factors influence prostate sensations (what kinds and degrees of pressure should be used, etc? Thanks again!

The cowper's (bulbourethral) gland is fairly deep and small. It's the size of a small pea and it is below the prostate, so you really can't feel it from inside the rectum.

There are two internal sphincters, yes. But most people can't really distinguish between them without some thought. What I hear a lot of guys say during anal sex is that they get about 1/3-1/2 of the head of their penis inside and then they hit something solid. The bottom will say, "It felt like he was inside and then he hit something and it burned and hurt". That's the internal sphincter.

In terms of a finger, the internal sphincter would be about half way between the first and second knuckle on the finger.

For the prostate your finger pretty much has to be all the way in. The prostate is about where the tip of the index or middle finger would be when you've inserted as far as possible- it's in further than most people realize.

Different guys have different sensations with the prostate. With some guys, any pressure makes them feel like they need to pee. Other guys find it very pleasurable. Some of it is context- what may feel good in bed with your partner may not feel as good in the doctor's office during a rectal exam.

Most guys find a gentle rubbing or "milking" of the prostate to be pleasurable. If you think about it, the penis is not particularly well-designed for stimulating the prostate. It's a bit like threading a needle with a baseball bat. It's probably the sensation of the penis going back and forth over the prostate that rubs or milks the prostate that triggers the pleasure sensation. And that may be why girth seems to be more of a factor than length in the sensations of anal sex.