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Mr-Brooding

Mr-Brooding

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So...I'm sitting here crying my eyes out after watching the season finale of the first season of Queer as Folk. *Spoiler* After one of the characters gets beaten with a bat for kissing his "boyfriend" in public, I started thinking about how serious coming out truly is. I can't help but to also think about the other thread on JUB that features a real-life man being beaten for being gay by some thugs. Have you guys ever been chastised, publicly humiliated, or even physically abused because of your sexual orientation? And how about PDA (Public displays of affection) with your male counterparts? How ugly has it gotten for y'all?

I'm emotional, but I'm nowhere near a weak person. I can take some verbal abuse because I have all of my life, but I've scared to death of being physically attacked based on my being gay.

Sorry if I make you guys relive awful parts of your lives, but I'm at a really scared place in my head right now.
 
Honestly, I can't show affection to my boyfriend in public, because I feel so uncomfortable, Its sad that society managed to brainwash millions that 2 people can't comfortably be together without fear! This might be the wrong time to share this video but it isn't always bad


[ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2O7IW1CP0jA[/ame]
 
Mr-Brooding said:
So...I'm sitting here crying my eyes out after watching the season finale of the first season of Queer as Folk. *Spoiler* After one of the characters gets beaten with a bat for kissing his "boyfriend" in public, I started thinking about how serious coming out truly is. I can't help but to also think about the other thread on JUB that features a real-life man being beaten for being gay by some thugs. Have you guys ever been chastised, publicly humiliated, or even physically abused because of your sexual orientation? And how about PDA (Public displays of affection) with your male counterparts? How ugly has it gotten for y'all?
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I don't think LGBTs suffer that much more violence or abuse than the average citizen.

This is in Holland, but if you live in a place that you are comfortable with as a straight male, chances are that you can live there as an out homosexual quite well.
 
Mr-Brooding said:
So...I'm sitting here crying my eyes out after watching the season finale of the first season of Queer as Folk. *Spoiler* After one of the characters gets beaten with a bat for kissing his "boyfriend" in public, I started thinking about how serious coming out truly is. I can't help but to also think about the other thread on JUB that features a real-life man being beaten for being gay by some thugs. Have you guys ever been chastised, publicly humiliated, or even physically abused because of your sexual orientation? And how about PDA (Public displays of affection) with your male counterparts? How ugly has it gotten for y'all?

I'm emotional, but I'm nowhere near a weak person. I can take some verbal abuse because I have all of my life, but I've scared to death of being physically attacked based on my being gay.

Sorry if I make you guys relive awful parts of your lives, but I'm at a really scared place in my head right now.
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I recently started kissing my boyfriend in public. At first I felt a little awkward like everyone would be watching and judjing, but now I don't even care, I'm not afraid.

Plus I know how to throw a punch. And I can run really fast XD.
 
^ Aw, saw a bit of that today. Jealous.

(the kissing, not the arse-kicking, that is)
 
I see - there does seem to be a critical population required before PDAs become acceptable for some reason. Bit of a pity.
 
I am older 56, attitudes are changing, 30 years ago you might have been called faggot or been verbally threatened when walking with friend, here we elected an openly gay mayor about 20 years ago, gay marriage is legal throughout the country, I've kissed some friends on the cheek in our local mall, I hug some people if I know they won't be uncomfortable with it, the thing is I taylor the public display to the situation and the person I am with, people here are fairly tolerant, but I'd be careful around new immigrants that come from homophobic areas, they have been known to get upset.
 
I met my hubby in downtown Mpls. for lunch one day last summer and when we left for our seperate cars, we gave each other a quick kiss. As we did that, we heard "QUEERS!! QUEERS!!" being shouted from a car that looked like it had several young men in it. I remember feeling shivers go up my spine when I realized that instead of shooting off their mouths, they could have had been shooting guns at us. This is in a gay friendly part of downtown, too.
 
I kiss in public. I hold hands in public. I fuck in public(well, at least in open air). I live in GA(at least for 4 more weeks) - not near where the thug attack happened, but I don't exactly live in the gay mecca either.

Am I supposed to fear for my life or something? Because I clearly didn't get the memo.

As for the question, no, never been chastised or humiliated, attacked over my being gay. Some people haven't "gotten it", but i'm too old to worry about their problems.
 
MoufOfKhaos said:
I kiss in public. I hold hands in public. I fuck in public(well, at least in open air). I live in GA(at least for 4 more weeks) - not near where the thug attack happened, but I don't exactly live in the gay mecca either.

Am I supposed to fear for my life or something? Because I clearly didn't get the memo.

As for the question, no, never been chastised or humiliated, attacked over my being gay. Some people haven't "gotten it", but i'm too old to worry about their problems.
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I've never been one to live in fear either, but it came home pretty powerfully to me that we don't live just for ourselves. We have children to think of. Is it worth the PDA for them to lose a Dad?
 
sixthson said:
I've never been one to live in fear either, but it came home pretty powerfully to me that we don't live just for ourselves. We have children to think of. Is it worth the PDA for them to lose a Dad?
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I'm not saying your choice not to show your affection to the outside world is wrong, especially for the reasons given - i'm just saying I don't live that way.
 
a friend and i (we werent even boyfriends) once got called names and thrown a drink at in the streets of amsterdam. by a bunch of dutch teens, for those who care about the nationalities and cultural backgrounds of homophobic people. now, im a tiny scrawny thing that has never been in a fight, but i got so furious, i actually started charging towards them (they didnt look that though). my friend managed to hold me back, and the morons were happy to let it go and move along, once they realised id actually put up a fight. fucking cowards.
 
I feel your pain Mr. Brooding. South Carolina is not much better. I would not dare to show PDA to my male lovers. Yes, it is because of gay bashing. People around here associate homosexuality to pedophilia. I posted last week some comments about gays that were in the local newspaper.

Also, I have posted about Sean Kennedy several times previously on this forum. He was a local guy who was attacked at a night club simply because he was openly gay. He died from his injuries. His murderer only served 12 months in prison for this crime.
 
Never been physically attacked for it, but I've been harassed, laughed at, called disgusting, faggot etc. people moved their table away from us at a restaurant. all for quick kissing and holding hands.

Some people are shameless.
 
When I have a boyfriend I don't hide it in public. I live in North Carolina, and I've never had anything said to me about it. A few weird looks from old church ladies maybe, but that's it. :lol:
 
I did have one experience that could have been very bad, but it turned out ending very well.

Two years ago I was sitting in a Pizza Hut with my guy. We were being overly affectionate, but we were holding hands and just being happy in love. A lot of families were there that day, kids in baseball uniforms. Well, the kids kept staring and pointing and asking their parents silly questions. Some of the parents complained to the staff right in front of us.

They wanted us to leave. I already started thinking about how I was going to argue with the waiter about the Charter and human rights. But to our surprise, the manager came out and asked the families to leave us alone and allow us to enjoy our meal as we were not bothering anyone.

More than half the people who complained got up and left the restaurant. Then the manager came to our table and apologized to us! After he lost half his evening business. I thought it was an exceptional experience.

I thanked the Pizza Hut by writing about it in a few papers as well as organizing some business dinners to take place at that particular Pizza Hut.
 
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