Qualities That You Require To Have In Your Dream Man/Partner/Husband

[bankside]

• No hint of low self esteem. Even a bit cocky is okay.
• Interested in travel.
• Non-smoker.
• Moderate drinker.
• Non-drug-user.
• Carnivore.
• Kids/wanting kids okay and even a definite goal in the right circumstances with right person...
• Atheist or strangely..possibly, religious but willing to argue about it. No post-modernist relativist piffle.
• Opinionated. Willing to fight it out about principle.
• Must like dogs but will not begrudge supplementary cat.
• Financially secure, at whatever level of consumerism makes him happy.
• Enjoys outdoors. (hiking, camping, canoeing)
• Enjoys indoors. (theatre, symphony, comedy)
• 100% versatile, and not into "sir/boy" or "dad/son" or "passive/submissive" or any of that.

 

[Lube]

• Great Smile
• Sparkly Eyes
• Not too fat or skinny. A bit of muscle doesn't hurt
• Height: 5'10 or above. I can negotiate down to a 5'8 if you are exceptional in other area
• Have a good job. Pay well, good benefits, progressive, and he enjoys going to work each day
• Knows how to cook is a definite ++
• A romantic at heart but live realistically.
• Sensitive but have the ability to say: Fuck it. I'm going to hang out with my boyfriend.
• Good hygiene but don't be a recycling freak.
• Knows how to enjoy life.
• Preferrably a buddhist or a non-practicing white people religion.
• No crazy back hair.
• Love to eat!!! > now that's a deal breaker if you're a health freak or eat like a mouse.
• Sex: versatile/top but enjoy giving up your ass once in a while.
• Loves to cuddle!
• Don't have any fetishes
• Have a good sense of fashion but know how to dress down and just enjoy wearing comfortable clothes.
• If you can sing +++
• Dark hair with bright eyes.
• Single and available.
• Able to stand up to my passive-aggressive craziness. Prefer if you can read mind.
• Age: 22-35, unless you are a sexy, young looking then 40 will be the limit
• Have a house, drive a nice car, have a dog/cat, enjoy traveling AND can pay for my traveling expenses as well.
• If you can make me smile

Wow, are you ever setting yourself up for disappointment.

Never seems to matter what I think I want in a partner--the guy I fall for always seems to surprise me in someway...and vice versa.

So true. Each person has been a total surprise for me.

 

[ronboy]

• 6'1"
• 170 lbs.
• hazel eyes
• medium brown hair
• hairy chest, arms, legs, pits and ass
• loves to be rimmed and fucked
• loves to be sucked off
• passionate and affectionate
• answers to "Dave"
• is loyal and trustworthy

Unfortunately, he is no longer trustworthy because he "overshared" his love...(See Lefty, I do read my comments.....)

 

[mikeyjon]

Someone who remembers flowers, and a satin heart shaped box of candy on Valentine's Day.

 

[hotb0d]

Wow, are you ever setting yourself up for disappointment.

nah not really. It is my dream man but I'm not in a dream so I don't expect to meet a guy like that so I'll just go for the next best thing.

 

[JUB]

My dream guy would be like my best friend. Someone I connect with on many levels, have similar interests and someone I can trust.

 

[USEDCAR]

• Great Smile
• Sparkly Eyes
• Not too fat or skinny. A bit of muscle doesn't hurt
• Height: 5'10 or above. I can negotiate down to a 5'8 if you are exceptional in other area
• Have a good job. Pay well, good benefits, progressive, and he enjoys going to work each day
• Knows how to cook is a definite ++
• A romantic at heart but live realistically.
• Sensitive but have the ability to say: Fuck it. I'm going to hang out with my boyfriend.
• Good hygiene but don't be a recycling freak.
• Knows how to enjoy life.
• Preferrably a buddhist or a non-practicing white people religion.
• No crazy back hair.
• Love to eat!!! > now that's a deal breaker if you're a health freak or eat like a mouse.
• Sex: versatile/top but enjoy giving up your ass once in a while.
• Loves to cuddle!
• Don't have any fetishes
• Have a good sense of fashion but know how to dress down and just enjoy wearing comfortable clothes.
• If you can sing +++
• Dark hair with bright eyes.
• Single and available.
• Able to stand up to my passive-aggressive craziness. Prefer if you can read mind.
• Age: 22-35, unless you are a sexy, young looking then 40 will be the limit
• Have a house, drive a nice car, have a dog/cat, enjoy traveling AND can pay for my traveling expenses as well.
• If you can make me smile

wow talk about being picky

 

[USEDCAR]

Good Sense of Humor likes to have fun and joke around and be serious when needed.
not a smoker or Drinker can have fun with out getting Wasted
has long term and short term goals
No Tats (1 or 2 small ones is fine) or Strange piercings(Gauged out ears lips pieced tongue pieced dimples etc)
Thats into something for example i love game shows i would like for him to be into something too.
Likes to talk i want a guy that can hold a conversation and start one not always looking for me to start a conversation. I think this is important
versatile i love fucking ass
Guys that gives me that feeling its hard to explain i get it when i have a strong crush on a guy. Its a adrenaline rush happy nervous scared excited all at the same time.
Loves Animals (cats,Dogs,Fish)
Masculine i love those type of guys never in a million years you would guess they are into men.
pushes me to try new stuff
Drives or has a drivers license i don't care if he drives a POS car as long as it runs. Its so annoying driving someone around
Really loves me you can see it in his eyes and everything i want people to say hey your man wouldn't stop talking about you. Or when you was away he was worried about you!

 

[freefall]

1). He's a human
2). He likes me.
3). He's okay with a list of my weirdness.
4). He doesn't bitch at my attraction to flowers and dissonant music.
5). He doesn't force me to watch sports or discuss politics or do something I dislike.
6). He practices hygiene in life. I don't want to date a literal scumbag.
7). He is down to earth and not arrogant.
8. He knows when to joke and when to be serious.
9). He is independent in most aspects of life (and definitely not a spoiled brat).
10). He is open about his opinions while not being ignorant about mine.
11). He must be able to receive critics.
12). Definitely not a smoker, an addict, or a pusher.

 

[justndav]

Hmmm...

Someone that can hold an intelligent conversation
Beautiful, sparkly eyes and a smile that will melt a glacier
Someone that takes care of their body, mind, and soul
A guy that I can go have a beer/drink with and watch a ballgame
Someone where we can both understand that we may have different interests/hobbies and respect that
A guy I can go sit on a gazebo with, hold hands, and watch the sunrise/sunset.
A person that is at least somewhat liberal/moderate in political views
A person that's versatile in the sack and likes to get it on at least once every couple days minimum.
Not a big barfly or party animal involving drugs
A guy that I can be comfortable with out in public and hold his hand and have him not be worried about it
A guy that doesn't mind doing dishes and laundry- I hate it but do it...I love to cook.

A coin collector would be a plus too++

 

[geloge]

Currently the most important one is that he lived in Granada.

 

[MMMonsterBoy]

My [strike]impossible[/strike] dream guy:

1. Goal orientated/practicle - Can't see a relationship going anywhere if you're not.
2. Compassion - Not just for me, but for others. I'm a real sucker for that.
3. Good self esteem - Not obnoxiously cocky, but how am I supposed to believe that he's physically attractive or good at some quality if he himself doesn't?
4. Similiar Humor - Laughing makes me feel comfortable. If we are sharing laughter then great!
5. Common interests - I don't mind differences, that's how we learn, but of course some interests should be shared..
6. Bring out the best in each other - If no one likes us together (not because we are two guys) then they may have a point. I don't know what to be that 'you've changed ever since you got a boyfriend' guy. ICK.
7. Attached - Not clingy, but we miss each other. We talk because we want to, not because we have to.
8. Honest/reliable/charamistic
9. For some reasons I like guys with big/close families. That is the kind of family I have. Of course I wouldn't turn someone down without this! I just noticed that the stable guys have close or large families, while the ones with issues...well not so much :|

Physically:
1. My height or taller. I mean, an inch shorter wouldn't be bother me. It is just that I am not so tall lol, so anyone shorter would just be...I don't know a little odd for me ha.
2. I've never been picky about body type, but my dream guy would have to have a decent body. For me that isn't washboard abs or skinny. A man that looks like he takes care of his body.