Hey guys I have a question and need your opinion. I am a bi masculine male here but mostly into guys as of the moment. I am very straight acting and not fem by any means, just not into that scene, so because of this I have all straight friends. I have a friend that is moving to the area soon who I always assumed that is secretly gay. Lets go back to college, this guy to me is so far in the closet its ridiculous. Let me go over the reasons why..
#1 he is always making gay jokes to me. Everytime we see each other or talk there is some sort of gay joke that comes out. #
2 If he sees a gay person he always has to comment, say something negative etc, like he goes out of his way to say something. Other friends who I know are 100% straight tell him to relax sometimes because he goes so over the top with it.
#3 This is the big flag for me, as much as he disses gay culture he knows allot about it! I am from the DC metro area, and he wants made a comment to be about a sports figure here. He said that the sports figure was spotted hanging out at a gay bar down here( he was joking). The thing is how do you know about that gay bar? You dont live here, and the place he was talking about is real! Also he has made a mention of twinks before. I dont know to many straight people who know what a twink is. I should also add he is a HUGE tom Cruise fan. Like this kid loves him to the point where he will joke and talk about him hooking up with him, he claims jokingly.
#4 He is always talking about his dick and how big it is to me all the time. I remember one time in college when IM was big he may have faked a IM convo about his dick to me. I think he created a fake name, im me and said to to talk to this person, well the alter sn was talking about how my friend would try to show him his dick!. Just does not seem normal straight guy behavior.
Am I crazy here or is this guy in the closet? The thing is if he is I would love to have a friend thats like me. Bi guy who I can talk to about guys with. I dont have friends like that and I would love to just hang out with a guy that just like me drink beers at the bar, watch sports and the same time say wow that dude is fucking hot!
Help guys!
#1 he is always making gay jokes to me. Everytime we see each other or talk there is some sort of gay joke that comes out. #
2 If he sees a gay person he always has to comment, say something negative etc, like he goes out of his way to say something. Other friends who I know are 100% straight tell him to relax sometimes because he goes so over the top with it.
#3 This is the big flag for me, as much as he disses gay culture he knows allot about it! I am from the DC metro area, and he wants made a comment to be about a sports figure here. He said that the sports figure was spotted hanging out at a gay bar down here( he was joking). The thing is how do you know about that gay bar? You dont live here, and the place he was talking about is real! Also he has made a mention of twinks before. I dont know to many straight people who know what a twink is. I should also add he is a HUGE tom Cruise fan. Like this kid loves him to the point where he will joke and talk about him hooking up with him, he claims jokingly.
#4 He is always talking about his dick and how big it is to me all the time. I remember one time in college when IM was big he may have faked a IM convo about his dick to me. I think he created a fake name, im me and said to to talk to this person, well the alter sn was talking about how my friend would try to show him his dick!. Just does not seem normal straight guy behavior.
Am I crazy here or is this guy in the closet? The thing is if he is I would love to have a friend thats like me. Bi guy who I can talk to about guys with. I dont have friends like that and I would love to just hang out with a guy that just like me drink beers at the bar, watch sports and the same time say wow that dude is fucking hot!
Help guys!
