On Topic Discussion Question about kinks and sexuality

[Jonri2]

I see myself as a very sexual person, I'm not ashamed of a little good sex,
on the other hand I've never had any real kinks, the closest thing I've had to a kink is my attraction to armpit hair,
and I read the type of kinks here as sex with family members or peeing and the like, and I can't help but feel left out,
like it seems strange to me, I really like sex and am very open about it but I would still like to eventually be in a monogamous relationship with someone and have children together,
like I think that's sexy after all,
and it's a little weird to me that I don't have real kinks like other gay people, so it's mostly a release, what do you think?

 

[KaraBulut]

The Fetish forum on JUB is one of the few gay sites that have such a forum with a laissez-faire approach. If you've never been around some of the subcultures, it may give you a distorted view of LGBT people, most of whom are pretty vanilla.

That said, what might be a kink for you might not be a kink for someone else. For example, armpit hair might be something that you enjoy as a fetish but for another person, a guy without armpit hair just seems weird because most men have armpit hair unless they shave.

 

[LeicsDom]

Sexual satisfaction is a very long and varied spectrum
Just because SOME people appear to enjoy very niche sexual stimuli doesn't mean you have to try it or attempt to enjoy it.
For some of us die-hard gays sex with a woman is a kink too far but that doesn't mean it shouldn't be for others

 

[Kahaih]

Seems the definition of 'kink' has always referred to something unusual/out of the ordinary.

But, now we have the Internet. Turns out there's not much of anything like that. Probably never was.

 

[purina]

I thought men having sex with other men was a kink.

 

[KaraBulut]

I thought men having sex with other men was a kink.

If it were, then the fetish forum wouldn't be so popular.

 

[rareboy]

The Fetish forum on JUB is one of the few gay sites that have such a forum with a laissez-faire approach. If you've never been around some of the subcultures, it may give you a distorted view of LGBT people, most of whom are pretty vanilla.

That said, what might be a kink for you might not be a kink for someone else. For example, armpit hair might be something that you enjoy as a fetish but for another person, a guy without armpit hair just seems weird because most men have armpit hair unless they shave.

Pretty much this.

Maybe this is your kink....


I would still like to eventually be in a monogamous relationship with someone and have children together.

 

[TickTockMan]

Spend some time on Fetlife.com. You will find other likes/kinks.