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Question about "straight" friend

>>>Because I gotta say, if it was me, and I was that sure he was wiggling his ass at me for my benefit, I'd have had him over the side of the hot tub in about ten minutes flat.

You're slower than me. I'd have him in that position in thirty seconds. :D

Lex
 
I like to build up the anticipation. (grin)
 
Apparently, this little "peek-a-boo" game has been going on for a long time. That's enough anticipation for me. :)

Lex
 
I feel like the way I described his acts isn't really spot on with how it really is... He has had many girlfriends, but the fishy thing is he gets "sick" of them after a couple weeks and breaks up with each and every one. He might be so comfortable with me as a friend, he just doesn't give a shit if I see him naked or not because I know him so well. I am just assuming he is straight, and I am assuming I am bisexual because I honestly don't see myself marrying a guy, I just want to test the waters a little bit so to speak. Some of the things he does when it is just me and him are more... flirty than even when some of our girlfriends are over to hang out. Oh, and im not sure why but we seem to hug a lot, a lot more than any straight relationships... I might just have to offer a MMF threesome with him and one of our close girlfriends and see what happens :P
 
TX-Beau said:
So he knows you're gay right?
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Good point :O It is pretty weird what straight guys do together, how gay it can get without actually being gay (frustratingly). So he might think this is perfectly normal laddish behaviour, when in fact it's just extremely confusing for you.

I think the only thing to do is just make a move, it will solve all of this fooling around/teasing in one way or another. Either he likes you and wanted you to make the first move, and you can have lots of wonderful shagging, or he is straight and is just being a tease. If the former, wahey to you, if the latter, you can tell him to stop messing about if it's upsetting you.
Also, you don't have to strip naked and grab his cock to make a move, it's probably just best trying to kiss him or something. He is definitely flirting with you, and he hasn't had any particularly good relationships with girls, but that doesn't (unfortunately) mean he's gay.

It does seem like a pretty weird situation though. You could try talking to him about it too, though that will probably just cause you more angst. Go wild I say :D
 
Icecold said:
He has had many girlfriends, but the fishy thing is...
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While we're on the fish analogy...

This guy is like the fish that just nibbles on the hook but won't take the bait. He's on to you. He likes the attention. But if you make a move and if something happens, it's going to be squamously awkward after.


Icecold said:
I might just have to offer a MMF threesome with him and one of our close girlfriends and see what happens :P
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The MMF 3-way might work but you're going to have to ponder whether the girl is doing to be willing to share. If you're lucky, you'll get a girl with a fetish and a knack for voyeurism. If you're not so lucky, you'll have two people who freak out when you can't keep your hands to yourself.

Or maybe everyone will be drunk and can use the standard excuse, "Boy, was I drunk last night... can't remember a thing".
 
The thing that sticks out the most to me is the tickling. Some guys I have been with have always used that trick to start fooling around. Trust me...we're all guys, we all think the same thing. Tickling is a way to get started.
 
G-Lexington said:
Again, I'll defer to Lube's Law.

If you think your friend might be gay, he's gay.
If you think your friend might be interested, he's interested.
If you think your friend might be hitting on you, he's hitting on you.

Lex
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word !
 
Oh just pull down his pants and blow him already.

He'll be grateful and you guys will be best buddies for life.
 
^ I suppose since this is all about thinking about experimentation, both guys are safe from being homos as long as they don't ever actually experiment.
 
I would rather just be able to appreciate him as eye candy and be his friend than screw up what we have. I don't want things to get weird, and if he is straight, or if he isn't ready to start experimenting, that would definitely put a dent in the relationship. He does have an awesome body though XD
 
Icecold said:
I would rather just be able to appreciate him as eye candy and be his friend than screw up what we have. I don't want things to get weird, and if he is straight, or if he isn't ready to start experimenting, that would definitely put a dent in the relationship. He does have an awesome body though XD
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Well then you have your resolution. End of thread.
 
orton86 said:
The thing that sticks out the most to me is the tickling. Some guys I have been with have always used that trick to start fooling around. Trust me...we're all guys, we all think the same thing. Tickling is a way to get started.
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Tickle wars ALWAYS end up in something sexual, end of story :)
 
>>>I would rather just be able to appreciate him as eye candy and be his friend than screw up what we have. I don't want things to get weird, and if he is straight, or if he isn't ready to start experimenting, that would definitely put a dent in the relationship. He does have an awesome body though XD

Then, presumably, that's that. Just, for our sakes, let's not turn this into a "OMG guess what happened last night" thread. If you'd like to start one, do so in another section. :)

Lex
 
Icecold said:
update : He skinny dipped in my pool last night as a dare, from just me. nobody else was over........ then I went to his house and he wanted me to sleep in a huge bed downstairs, and he slept in it too when his bed was in his room upstairs. we didnt do anything in the bed tho, but I just wish it was easier to give him an opening.
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After all of that your not even going to tell us how he looked naked i mean omg the V shaped thing you finally got to see the prize and it did nothing for you? maybe he is not for you
 
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