question about top and bottom...

[seeking]

..ok so i have a question...i've noticed that when ever i hookup with a guy they always seem to take the role of the top..but i've also noticed that every guy ive been with has had a larger package than me as well. I know that i'm not very large so its never a surrpise to me but i guess my question is, do you think that the size of your penis plays a part in what roll you play in the bedroom?

for instance we will be making out and he we undress each other, etc etc..the same thing ALWAYS happens...i can set my watch to it...they roll me over so im on my back and then they start brushing thier stuff against my butt...maybe its my fault because i eventually spread my legs for them, but anyways what have your experiences been?

does the man with the bigger penis usually play the top?

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>they roll me over so im on my back and then they start brushing thier stuff against my butt...

Or, perhaps, it's because you appear to be playing a passive role in bed. If THEY're doing the rolling, and THEY're doing the brushing, and you're just sitting there, perhaps they just assume you're a passive in bed. And quite often (although no, not always) the passive one is the bottom.

If you want to top, if you want to take turns, if you want to just do oral, if you want to pour cooked macaroni all over him, for God's sake, SAY SOMETHING.

Lex

 

[SilverRRCloud]

Dude, I know loads of guys, who would be very envious of your situation. There is a serious shortage of top dudes in many parts of the world.

They call San Francisco, Bottom by the Bay for a reason, rite?

I fully agree with Lex here. Say something and DO something to indicate that you would want to top as well.

Most dudes tend to adopt the view that the bigger guy should top. I suspect that this comes from the porn. Be as it may, this is not written in stone and you are free to express your wishes, too, just like everyone else.

If a dude does not want to bottom for you, trust me, he'll say so.

SC

 

[racer2438]

your vibes are PASSIVE.

 

[JayHew]

For sure nothing is ever written in stone when it comes to having a relationship with someone, sexual or otherwise. Say something or do something. If you can't have frank discussions of sexual preferences or some of the dos and don'ts then what the heck are you doing having sex in the first place?

For the record, it doesn't matter the size of the penis as to who tops or who does not. It is the mood and perhaps the expectations of those involved.

 

[seeking]

just to make it clear i dont want to switch, i dont mind it, im just curious as to whether or not the "bigger penis" being the top is a common thing amongst others

 

[ElMmSM]

I bottom because I'm lazy.

 

[tallguy297]

just to make it clear i dont want to switch, i dont mind it, im just curious as to whether or not the "bigger penis" being the top is a common thing amongst others

Nah mate... its got nothing to do with it.

And in fact theres a lot of guys who will only bottom with smaller tops...

In my experience seeking... the size of a guys penis has nothing to do with his ability to satisfy and please his lover... in or out of the bed!