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Question for Bisexuals: Do you prefer women, men, or enjoy both equally?

I gave it a try with men only. I get horny very fast from men, but it's harder to me to have sex with them, unlike women.
 
GayGHOF said:
I was very lucky to meet my wife, just by chance, and then to find her desires were as wild as mine was icing on the cake. Even though, she like many women was initially feared my desire for men. But once we got that first step behind us, she loves it all. What we have is very rare though. My suggestion is to be honest. I know bisexuals who married uptight women and then cheated. I don't believe in that.
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I too have a wife that is very accepting of my bi urges. Both of us were in the swing lifestyle for many years. Due to medical issues, she no longer participates, but still lets me have sex with other guys, as long as I keep her informed and I don't do anything stupid. When we were both active in the lifestyle, she loved watching me having sex with other guys. But, to answer the O P's question, at this point in my life, I much prefer having sex with guys.
 
I prefer women romantically and sexually than men.
In the past when I hooked up with gay men it was purely sexual, no kissing or cuddling, I just liked having them use my mouth and ass for their own pleasure.
 
All my life I had been straight, and even when, in middle age, I found a craving to suck cock and get fucked, I still preferred women. However, in my old age I can no longer get hard. My interest in having sex is sucking or getting fucked, and women don't have cocks.
 
I prefer women romantically and as a partner. I love eating a pussy, I love to feel a soft smooth female body, and I love the feeling of plunging my cock into a woman after she has orgasmed from being licked. I love the total connection of our bodies coupled together.

But then there's the raw horny lust for cock. It's not about preferring one over the other; a woman and a man give two completely different experiences, and both are to be enjoyed totally in the moment. A cock represents power, domination, and my submission - the experience of submitting to a cock is the ultimate opposite to my role with a woman.

Sex with a man is not about connection of bodies for me. It's a letting go, submitting my body to the lust and power of a man to enjoy the giving of pleasure. And when he rams hard and deep inside me, it feels so damned good. I always enjoyed anal play, and a real, living cock under the control of another person is the ultimate in anal pleasure, to experience that feeling of deep thrusting and release of pleasure inside me.

So it's not about preferring one over the other, it's about enjoyment of my two favourite things which are totally different.
 
GayGHOF said:
Over the 40+ years my wife and I dated bisexual men, by far most preferred women. Some even had limits in what they would do with a man, especially if they felt it was 'too gay' whatever that means. In our ads in adult magazines we always indicated that I preferred men, so the guys knew this up front.

I am wondering, with bisexuality and homosexuality being more acceptable, do you have a sexual preference?
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After all these years I'm still confused.

I had cock before I had pussy but like a lot of men I ended up getting married. I was not great in bed with my wife and she ended up having affairs. Unfortunately there was no chance of me joining in.

My next girlfriend was more experienced and seemed to pick up on my submissive side. She knew to finger my bum to keep me hard in bed and turned me into a bit of a sissy. This usually meant wearing her clothes and being fucked with a strap-on she'd bought me for Christmas. We talked about getting a man for me. She wanted to wank a guy off over my face and watch me getting fucked. back then there wasn't so many sites and we never found anyone. Eventually she got bored with me and went off with another man.

Since then I've had relationships with women but for the last 9 years I've been pussy free.

I've been seeing a guy on and off for 5 years now. Sexually I prefer men, it just feels more natural to open my legs for a man. I still flirt with women and had a couple of dates but they seem to suss me out and they never go anywhere. It's probably just as well as I don't think I'd be able to perform with a woman. Although I do like the idea of a woman watching me with a man.

So yes, I'm confused, I fancy and admire women but love sex with men.
 
BiBtm64 said:
I prefer women romantically and as a partner. I love eating a pussy, I love to feel a soft smooth female body, and I love the feeling of plunging my cock into a woman after she has orgasmed from being licked. I love the total connection of our bodies coupled together.

But then there's the raw horny lust for cock. It's not about preferring one over the other; a woman and a man give two completely different experiences, and both are to be enjoyed totally in the moment. A cock represents power, domination, and my submission - the experience of submitting to a cock is the ultimate opposite to my role with a woman.

Sex with a man is not about connection of bodies for me. It's a letting go, submitting my body to the lust and power of a man to enjoy the giving of pleasure. And when he rams hard and deep inside me, it feels so damned good. I always enjoyed anal play, and a real, living cock under the control of another person is the ultimate in anal pleasure, to experience that feeling of deep thrusting and release of pleasure inside me.

So it's not about preferring one over the other, it's about enjoyment of my two favourite things which are totally different.
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While I also prefer women I don't try to overthink the reason. I just like sex, for the physical pleasure (pussies and cocks both feel good, but in different ways) and getting my rocks off with another person, be they male or female.
 
I never have sex with women anymore, only guys. Guys just want to do anything that feels good and that's it. With women, I'd feel too pressured to perform, so that they'd be "satisfied" afterwards.
 
For Christ's sake, are any of the bi men here actually tops? Cause it seems like you all only bottom when you're with men.
 
I use to feel that I wanted sex with males and females pretty much equally. Over the last decade though, that feeling has changed to where I prefer males
(or Trans with a cock) over females, or more specifically, pussy. I have now got into the habit of saying I consider myself a gay leaning BI.
 
allin4cum said:
I use to feel that I wanted sex with males and females pretty much equally. Over the last decade though, that feeling has changed to where I prefer males
(or Trans with a cock) over females, or more specifically, pussy. I have now got into the habit of saying I consider myself a gay leaning BI.
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I couldn't have said it any better myself. Even though I'm married, at this point in my life, the only sex that I'm having, is with men. Sex for me now is not just satisfying the urge anymore, I can do that with my right hand anytime I want. So I guess a lot of people would say I'm Gay, but then again . . . . everybody has their own definition of just what gay is. BTW, my (female) wife is very tolerant of my Gay (?) activities.
 
imariver said:
I couldn't have said it any better myself. Even though I'm married, at this point in my life, the only sex that I'm having, is with men. Sex for me now is not just satisfying the urge anymore, I can do that with my right hand anytime I want. So I guess a lot of people would say I'm Gay, but then again . . . . everybody has their own definition of just what gay is. BTW, my (female) wife is very tolerant of my Gay (?) activities.
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You're very lucky that you can enjoy the type of sex that is best for you, and you have such an understanding wife! We could all be so lucky 😋
 
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