Question for Bottoms

[Nude_Dude]

1. how does a bottom know if the guy has a condom on
2. does the bottom feel it
3. which is better for the bottom with or without

There is a CERTAIN amount of trust
I'LL be the one who puts it on him - ALWAYS go missionary - to know where his hands are
I can hear the sound of it being removed
This must all sound complicated, but it's all second nature and instinct
I've learned to feel when "it's not on" - for the most part

It's MUCH better without
That's what boyfriends are for

 

[olmikee60]

cant you see the cock and or condom? i prefer no condom but i also prefer for the guy to pull out. as for diseases it is better to get fkd with a condom.

 

[Nude_Dude]

i prefer no condom but i also prefer for the guy to pull out.

I'd never suggest the BF "pull out"
If it's a close and trusted mate (as opposed to any "fuck buddy") I'm usually happy to take his load, as well
I realise it's frowned upon, but I find there's something special in "making love" with a few mates I love - though not actually "in love" with

 

[PipRosi]

Oh dudes, this is enlightening! I didn't know about this stuff when I posted a thread about "bottoms."

They sound Canadian. No wonder they're so smart.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

From the moment I realised I was gay - I realised I was put on this earth, to bottom