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In your opinion, can you find your true love by cheating on someone else?
 
It's possible, but unlikely.

May I ask why you are asking?
 
Who's to say that you're not cheating on your true love?

Just something to think about.
 
How was it that the old song from the 1970's went?

"If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you are with..."
 
Yes, the current marriage/partnership could be an arrangement of convenience.
 
I say no, because every situation I've seen where someone found someone they loved more by cheating on the one they were with, both people eventually got so hung up about cheating that it spoiled the relationship. The new person knows that you will cheat, because you cheated to be with them, and as a cheater you'll always wonder if what's good for the goose (you) isn't just as good for the gander (I.e., what if he needs to cheat on you to find the real love of his life).

So sure you can find your true love that way, but just as surely you will lose it painfully. At least, that is what Ive observed.

If you find your true love while you're with someone else, have the balls to dump them (the one ur with now). If you don't have the courage then you don't deserve the reward.
 
biguy562 said:
In your opinion, can you find your true love by cheating on someone else?
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Of course...A person can Fall Madly in Love with their "side-Piece".....People should be cautious when cheating...Now-a-days Lovers arent sitting back and just walking away from being cheated on...
 
yes you can, and love is very exciting for everyone in the beginning, but rest assured eventually your new lover will be your long time lover and you will be looking for someone new. or, the new lover will think he can't trust you because you cheated with him and he will leave you for someone younger and better hung.
as you can see nothing good comes from running around on your hubby. it's evil.
 
Sure you can.

You probably would not be cheating if you were in the "perfect" relationship.
 
Thanks for the responses everyone! I was just wondering what yall thought. I got cheated on a few months ago and my ex said he's the one and they are engaged now and all that fun stuff.
 
quasar said:
*mushy-lovey-dovey alert*
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True love is not finding someone u can live with - it is finding someone u can't live without. :)
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That is an amazing quote. :luv:

CGHJ said:
I say no, because every situation I've seen where someone found someone they loved more by cheating on the one they were with, both people eventually got so hung up about cheating that it spoiled the relationship. The new person knows that you will cheat, because you cheated to be with them, and as a cheater you'll always wonder if what's good for the goose (you) isn't just as good for the gander (I.e., what if he needs to cheat on you to find the real love of his life).

So sure you can find your true love that way, but just as surely you will lose it painfully. At least, that is what Ive observed.

If you find your true love while you're with someone else, have the balls to dump them (the one ur with now). If you don't have the courage then you don't deserve the reward.
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I have to agree with you there. I don't know much about relationships, but I believe in most cases, cheating will result in nobody winning ultimately. I couldn't imagine how someone could do that in the first place, but I guess everyone's got their reasons. *shrugs*

biguy562 said:
Thanks for the responses everyone! I was just wondering what yall thought. I got cheated on a few months ago and my ex said he's the one and they are engaged now and all that fun stuff.
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I'm so sorry that happened to you. :(
 
Thanks JonHCA, it was really hard. He was my first love. I'm moving on though, still think about him sometimes and still don't really understand but that's life for ya I guess!
 
biguy562 said:
Thanks JonHCA, it was really hard. He was my first love. I'm moving on though, still think about him sometimes and still don't really understand but that's life for ya I guess!
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Well i thought I was warning you away from making a stupid mistake, but now I see Im giving you something to look forward to. I've heard this one a million times and all I can say is don't take him back when he realizes he's fucked up. You dodged a bullet, now go out and find yourself a real man
 
If you enter a relationship with someone who's completely okay with cheating on their and/or you partner, you're a dumb if you expect that person to stay faithful to you if they ever become unhappy with you.
 
how should i ever trust someone that i met when he was cheating on someone else :confused:
 
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