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Question for people in their 40-60

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Hiya! I am posting this question to people who are in their 40-60 (if you are slightly younger or older it's okay).

Say you have been going out on several dates with this guy who is considerably younger (>20 year younger) but not in a relationship yet, would you think that this younger man is being too aggressive in the relationship by:

-him giving you a kiss on the cheeks after a hug:kiss:

-him leaning and snuggling onto your body when both of you are on the couch

I am asking this because I do not want to appear overly aggressive but I want to please him at the same time, thanks for reading!
 
Just hang out for a while with the guy.... see what happens after a bit.
 
No I wouldn't think the younger guy is being overly aggressive, but some younger guys who don't have a lot of gay dating experience tend to move too quickly with affection. If you've been on a few dates, a friendly kiss or cuddle seems very reasonable.
 
I agree with Josher. he's probably waiting for you to make the first move to see if youre comfortable extending the dates. How did u meet?
 
No problem with your 2 choices that you listed.just stay away from sex for at least 5 to 10 dates. Sex has a tendency of clouding ones judgement of what your true feelings for this person. It has worked for me we have been together for 2 yrs. now
 
I love kissing and cuddling from a younger guy and I would kiss and cuddle back, I just don't think it would be too cool to be doing it in public, but at home, I would really enjoy it. I'm 46.
Watching a movie or tv with someone on the couch, one sitting up the other laying down with his head on the others lap I think is very romantic, it means you are very comfortable with one another.
 
TinyToeOut said:
Say you have been going out on several dates with this guy who is considerably younger (>20 year younger) but not in a relationship yet, would you think that this younger man is being too aggressive in the relationship by:

-him giving you a kiss on the cheeks after a hug:kiss:

-him leaning and snuggling onto your body when both of you are on the couch
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Hell no, I would not consider that agressive, far from it.
 
Thanks for the replies, I appreciate your inputs. We met online through a website and we exchanged emails, text messages and finally met up for dinner. And no, I doubt I would want it to be public display because the environment here is not really that friendly for homosexuals.

What else do you think would be romantic but not aggressive?
 
I don't think it is being overly agressive at all. If he kisses you back or holds you closer he's returning your affection. If he pulls away you need to take the message

Good luck
 
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