question for regular tops!

[JSRD]

Hey guys another relationship question here! For those guys out there who top regularly how do you feel about your partner switching with you and you bottoming? I've only topped before in both my relationship and in past encounters. I want to try bottoming once and have expressed this to my partner but i am also pretty nervous about it. One is the pain, and two i'm worried it might change the dynamic of our sexual relationship. I love being the top. I love the power...I love his ass...I love everything about it. I just want to try the other side once. In the past my partner has topped while he was in a long term relationship, but before that he spent the majority of the time bottoming. He has expressed how much he loves me topping him though to calm those insecurities. How do you fellow tops feel about this?

 

[LuckysRevenge]

You phrase this like tops are a different species.
Tops and bottoms, the only difference really is a stated role.

If you are secure in your relationship, you shouldn't have to worry about anything.

If you're stuck on stereotypical roles defining your relationship maybe that's a personal issue you should look into.

I think you should give it a shot. What's the worst that could happen?

 

[JSRD]

You phrase this like tops are a different species.
Tops and bottoms, the only difference really is a stated role.

If you are secure in your relationship, you shouldn't have to worry about anything.

If you're stuck on stereotypical roles defining your relationship maybe that's a personal issue you should look into.

I think you should give it a shot. What's the worst that could happen?

im thinking that too. i mean we try something new that we both didn't really enjoy is the worst that could happen! the best is we both really enjoy it!

 

[nyctopgam]

My bf fucked me once. He asked. I said O-Tay. We both liked it. Then we went back to our roles. Better this way for us.

In general, I find I never ask to bottom but also never say no.

 

[The Fly]

I have never bottomed...................but it's not totally beyond the realm of consideration.

 

[palbert]

You should consider adding fiber to your diet.

 

[ronboy]

Variety is the spice of life...
So is versatility.....

 

[innocentbychoice]

Do it. I'm the bottom of my relationship but I like topping once in a while...And I've asked my boyfriend, even tried, but have never been able to. He gets too scared and uncomfortable...So I stopped trying. I like our sex life but it IS frustrating that I can't do it all because of him. So, if you can do it, try it! satisfy your partner.

 

[ibill1]

I wish I could be versatile, but my ass strongly disagrees. (Those that can't Bottom - Top). I do have the highest respect and admiration for anyone who lets me stick my cock up their ass - I guess that makes them more of a man than me - or at least a higher pain threshold. I do feel like I'm missing out, and in my mind, I'd definitely bottom, so it's not just a mental barrier for me.

I might give it up for ronboy though.....

My sentiments exactly. Lord knows I have tried, boy, have I tried. I'm versitile in my head, but only in my head at the top, the lower head has totally different ideas. The poor thing just has to stick in something.