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Question, Man-to-Man sex

All I know is, when I'm enjoying anal sex - I'm enjoying anal sex - and that usually means a nice, big boner that stays hard for most of the trip... and sometimes I come during sex without even touching my dick - though it usually helps.... I'm kind of guessing that the guys with the soft-ons aren't too into it.... not true bottoms....
 
maxibutt said:
All I know is, when I'm enjoying anal sex - I'm enjoying anal sex - and that usually means a nice, big boner that stays hard for most of the trip... and sometimes I come during sex without even touching my dick - though it usually helps.... I'm kind of guessing that the guys with the soft-ons aren't too into it.... not true bottoms....
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I agree, you have to really like getting fucked to get and keep that hard-on! I know, I do!…
 
TheTrish said:
Hi! ;) In about half of the gay porn I've seen, usually in a MMF, the guy getting FUCKED in the ass has a hard-on as tho he's enjoying it. In the other half, the cock is limp or even shrivaled as tho he's not enjoying it. Can anyone explain this?

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I sometimes get hard, sometimes not so much. But if I'm getting fucked, it doesn't matter. Getting fucked is a physical sexual pleasure beyond compare.
 
CagedBird said:
daydreamer27 makes a valid point imo. Ive been bottoming for about six weeks now & realize that while having an 8" cock in my ass, I tend to focus on the anal pleasure as opposed to the penis pleasure. After my bf pulls out, I can achieve erection if desired. So far, I find it difficult to focus on both ends of my body @ the same time w/o sacrificing quality of pleasure.
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Agreed. I need to focus on one thing at a time. (I like to 69, but prefer taking turns.) When I'm getting fucked, the last thing I'm thinking about is my dick and my cumming. I'm thinking about the cock inside me about to blow a big, juicy, luscious load. Yeah, once he's done it all gets scooped into my mouth.
 
I have only had a few cocks inside me, I think about half the time I am small and the other half I am rock hard. I think the anticipation of anal sex makes me focus on my partner penetrating me, me feeling comfortable and then him pushing and and out of me. Me hoping he will last long enough to cum in me.
I get hard again when he's done as it is then my turn to cum.
 
LSC1962 said:
I have only had a few cocks inside me, I think about half the time I am small and the other half I am rock hard. I think the anticipation of anal sex makes me focus on my partner penetrating me, me feeling comfortable and then him pushing and and out of me. Me hoping he will last long enough to cum in me.
I get hard again when he's done as it is then my turn to cum.
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Good answer. The anticipation of being penetrated is an exciting build-up, isn't it. Then the press, initial stretching, filling, and pumping in and out. Hoping he stays hard and lasts long enough to make you feel used and a bit sore.
 
Answering the OP's question: receiving anal can be enjoyed with or without a hard-on. For me, when being fucked I'm completely focused on the feeling and emotional pleasure of his cock inside me, the feeling in my ass and knowing that I'm willingly submitting my body for his pleasure. My dick might be a limp appendage that's forgotten, or (if he angles it right to massage my prostate) I'll get hard and leak pre-cum without touching. I feel grateful to the top for gifting me a prostate orgasm but I don't expect it. I only want him to enjoy my hole and get off.

My pleasure is measured by the feeling in my ass and the satisfaction of the Man who has fucked me, not by the hardness of my cock.
 
LSC1962 said:
I have only had a few cocks inside me, I think about half the time I am small and the other half I am rock hard. I think the anticipation of anal sex makes me focus on my partner penetrating me, me feeling comfortable and then him pushing and and out of me. Me hoping he will last long enough to cum in me.
I get hard again when he's done as it is then my turn to cum.
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Me hoping he will last long enough to cum in me. When I am getting fucked, the guy has to understand that cumming inside me is not optional. It is a prerequisite. Not to be debated. Shooting his load in my pussy is climax to the story. I love the process of him pumping me, but I NEED the culmination of him exploding inside me. Hearing him scream, feeling him quiver and quicken his thrusts and collapse after orgasm . . . Is there anything more beautiful?
 
magicdick said:
Me hoping he will last long enough to cum in me. When I am getting fucked, the guy has to understand that cumming inside me is not optional. It is a prerequisite. Not to be debated. Shooting his load in my pussy is climax to the story. I love the process of him pumping me, but I NEED the culmination of him exploding inside me. Hearing him scream, feeling him quiver and quicken his thrusts and collapse after orgasm . . . Is there anything more beautiful?
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That is exactly what I'm looking for in a partner. Someone who can take advantage of the situation, penetrate me, fuck my ass and cum inside me. I want to be in either doggy, standing from behind, or missionary. I have had so few successful anal sex adventures, I am still not sure which will be my favourite position. But I really liked standing bent over a counter from behind a LOT. That position is universal, you can do it outdoors, in any hidden spot fairly easily or inside somewhere. Just not in a car backseat, that has to be doggy or missionary. I need to experience that scenario.
 
LSC1962 said:
That is exactly what I'm looking for in a partner. Someone who can take advantage of the situation, penetrate me, fuck my ass and cum inside me. I want to be in either doggy, standing from behind, or missionary. I have had so few successful anal sex adventures, I am still not sure which will be my favourite position. But I really liked standing bent over a counter from behind a LOT. That position is universal, you can do it outdoors, in any hidden spot fairly easily or inside somewhere. Just not in a car backseat, that has to be doggy or missionary. I need to experience that scenario.
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Well said, baby. My preferred position is on my back, legs up in the air, with a pillow under my ass. He can go deep and shallow. I can look him in the eyes. I can grab his sweet ass. I can pull him down for a deep kiss. We can talk and whisper in each other's ear. I can watch him thrust and pump and quicken when he cums. Oh, the glory of it all!!!

P.S. Don't get me wrong. Doggy and bent over the couch are marvelous, too. But I feel more like his slutty bitch when I'm on my back.
 
I’m very passive guy and when a man tells me he’s going to fuck my ass or orders me to suck his cock, I get an immediately hard and STAY hard until he finishes. I love a cock up my ass or in my mouth so much that I can’t lose a hard on if I tried. Even if I’m caught by someone while I’m giving a BJ I never lose the hard on, in fact I often get harder…I love to have guys watch me getting fucked or sucking someone’s cock!…
 
I should also mention that I keep my hand off my cock while being fucked so I can concentrate on the sensations in my ass.
 
wolfypdx said:
I should also mention that I keep my hand off my cock while being fucked so I can concentrate on the sensations in my ass.
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I don’t Jack very often when I’m getting fucked either. I want him to see my big hard on and knowing how much I like his cock up my ass
 
If I am riding a cock I can stay hard but any other position I cannot. especially if I am bottoming missionary. I can stil cum but its limp
 
daydreamer27 said:
My personal experience is that you can't stay hard while being fucked. I think that is the same for many guys, even on a porn set. It has nothing to do with being gay-for-pay, that's just how your body responds to anal penetration.
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When I first started having anal sex as a bottom this would happen to me. I would suck the man's cock to get him hard (this always would get me hard) to fuck me and then he would lube his cock and my ass . Some guys would finger my ass before penetrating me with their cock but not long after they had entered me I would lose my hard on even though I was extremely aroused by having a cock in my ass fucking me. As I became more experienced and relaxed with being fucked by a man this stopped occurring and I would keep my erection all the way through being fucked regardless of how long it took the man to cum in me.
 
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