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Question to Non-Smokers

Non-Smoker, would you date a smoker?

  • Yes, I have and will again

    Votes: 11 16.9%
  • Yes, I would be open to that

    Votes: 12 18.5%
  • No

    Votes: 37 56.9%
  • I'm a smoker and want to choose something

    Votes: 5 7.7%

  • Total voters
    65
I don't smoke and I've never dated one. I don't think I could handle being with a smoker so I'd have to say NO!
 
No, no smoking, can't have it. Sorry.

Unless of course I was in love (or very deep lust) with him. Last time I fell in love, he was a smoker. But then, we weren't actually dating (except in my head), so I never got to "lick his ashtray." Still, I can think of a couple of guys I know for whom I might make an exception.

But on a reasonable, logical level, I would have to say no. And it's not because of life-expectancy or other health factors, it's because of the smell. If I'd known that's how I smelled when I was smoking, I would have quit sooner. It's really ghastly, and it gets into everything. Bleah.
 
I dont smoke, myself.. but a lot of people I know do-so, so I can tolerate it.
Ive been with smokers, and cant notice the difference from taste.. obviously..
Its just when it comes down to the house or all of their clothes smelling of it; not nice!
 
my boyfriend was a smoker until about a week ago. he's trying really hard to give up and it really is affecting him but he is determind. i'm supporting him 100% and if he succeeds (which he looks like he is going to) i will reward him ;)

i love him and that wasn't any different when he smoked, but i was never really happy about it. I like having a smoke-free boyfriend now he's given up, and i kiss him lots to demonstrate that he tastes nicer :D
 
i would be fine with it if they go outside and stuff... i am allergic so you can't smoke right next to me constantly but i can tolerate the after smell especially if i like you :) so i would have no problem if you go outside... aside the fact that theres no smoking in my apartment...
 
I have and I would again.

Smoking doesn't bother me, just all these rednecks with chewing tobacco YUCK
 
I'm a non-smoker and dating a smoker would not be a deal breaker especially if he was the man of my dreams.
 
Obviously I can understand and agree with all the arguments stated against dating a smoker.

But I am left a little speechless and unbelieving that all of you would pass up someone to whom you were attracted and such attraction was returned just because he smoked.

In real life I am not so certain that choices are made according to what you say you believe on a gay web site. #-o

The call of the loins/heart is usually stronger.
 
A smoker would certainly never be my first choice--- but I suppose when we love someone we take them pretty much as they are!
 
Yes, I might miss out on someone special.

However, I would really encourage him to quit (I can't handle a lot of smoke & the smell - I grew up with two smokers) and I'd support him if he chose to do so.
 
I would not. I cannot stand the smell or the health problems (harming yourself and others) associated with smoking. I would want to be with someone that would inspire me to become better than I am. Not with pressure but by example. The person would have to have respect for his body and try to take care of it, not poison it. I don't want perfection, I would just want someone that can inspire me.

My best friend (past away in 2005) was born with a physical disability (kidney problems). He did not do anything to get these health problems. He fought to take care of himself the best he could. It used to frustrate him to see others squander their health when he had to work so hard to survive.

If people choose to smoke, that is their choice. I just don't want them to do it around me. The same goes for ilegal drugs that damage the brain.
 
I'm a smoker, but were I a non-smoker I wouldn't date a smoker; I chose no.

I was very ill once and stuck in bed for a week. So, I didn't smoke. When my girlfriend came by to say high, I hated the taste on her mouth. I won't ask someone to taste the same.

I am also mindful that if I am seeing someone who is a non-smoker, I don't smoke around them and I won't smoke if I know I'm seeing them that day.
 
I choose no but it depends really. I mean if he's the one then it really doesn't matter in the end cause everything will just click. But I try to avoid smokers (of all my friends in real life....I have only one friend that is a smoker and he smokes really cheap cigarettes!) I can't stand the smell or the smoke. My eyes water and I find it hard to breath sometimes. However, a guy who smokes a pipe...has no effect on me and a pipe's smoke smells nice. Am I f*cked up or what? :D
 
what's it taste like to kiss someone who smokes? stupid question but i've never so... I guess I wouldn't be opposed to it, but i would try to convince them to quit. If it's really true love you'd find a way to work it out.
 
I would prefer not too, but it would not stop me if it was the only thing that I was concerned about with him!
 
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