Question to straight men about a guy at the gym

[dellboy5]

Re: Question to straight men about a guy at the gy

I turn 21 soon and the guy is about late 20's early 30's i say more with the early 30's

 

[dellboy5]

Re: Question to straight men about a guy at the gy

when i say follow i dont mean follow him but i move where i an see him and sometimes do the machine next to him but i dont actually follow him like a shadow

 

[justndav]

Re: Question to straight men about a guy at the gy

If it were me and I lived close I'd say hey how about we go back to my place for a drink and hang out? You'd probably get in his pants and get to wrap your lips around his bits.

 

[vegetaishott2003]

Re: Question to straight men about a guy at the gy

It's not hard to engage in conversation with other guys at the gym, but don't be creepy about it. I've found that a good, non-threatening opener is to ask a question or make an observation about their workout routine. Most guys are happy to talk about their workouts.

It can be something like "How do you do that without hurting your back? It kills mine." Not only does it break the ice, I've gotten some good workout advice from it.

I haven't hooked up with any, but that's not really my intention. If you think he might be interested, just make your approach natural and not sexually suggestive. If the conversation takes off, you can change course then.

Yes............................this is the right response. I mean I don't go to the gym...but it happened to me at a STR8 bar.

 

[UnderBiCover]

Re: Question to straight men about a guy at the gy

he takes pleasure in having a guy stare at him and follow him from room to room panting..That probably builds his ego more than saying a WORD to you...

I agree

the guy totally knows you dig him & he's enjoying watching you dig him without letting on that he even knows what's going on

he's playing you & you don't even realize it - he's pretending to be clueless but he knows exactly what's up with you

 

[vegetaishott2003]

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OMG.....I know.........watch Buckshot Hard Studies...there is this scene in this movie that has......almost....the exact situation.....guy eying another guy in the gym.......I know it's fantasy....but it could happen

 

[Rex]

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Why would a guy be watching him if he's trying to feed his ego? I think he would have an interest too unless he's just trying to play some mind game to make you THINK he's interested when he's really not....

I think bw92116's advice is the easiest way to get some quick insight but the hard part would be adjusting yourself while watching his face to see his reaction. Guys don't usually make eye contact when doing something like that so it would end up looking weird but if you play it off cool you could see how he looks at you and it could tell you something.

 

[Marksman]

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i have no clue where to put this so sry if its in the wrong cat

OK. IM a bi 21 year old. i like to have sex with girls but if the right guy comes along i wont say no lol. i like to work out alot and at my gym there is this guy that always looks at me. I think this guy is hot. I wanna know why is he looking at me

1. He just wants to see what im doing
2. he looks back at me since im looking at him
3. he likes me

if im looking at him and then he turns to look at me i always turn my head ( just reflex) so my question is how do i find out what that looks mean. i try to "follow" him at the gym and work next to him or where i could get a good view of him. sometimes he works out next to me. so im lost

sry if this does not make scense i cant really explain it and ( sry for grammer and spelling)

You work out at the same gym and frequently, it seems, at the same time. It's not completely unnatural for guys to make friends with other guys, believe it or not. He's probably just waiting for you to start a conversation or give an acknowledging nod. Guys looking at other guys don't necessarily mean they want to hook up with them.

 

[StillWaters24592]

Re: Question to straight men about a guy at the gy

You work out at the same gym and frequently, it seems, at the same time. It's not completely unnatural for guys to make friends with other guys, believe it or not. He's probably just waiting for you to start a conversation or give an acknowledging nod. Guys looking at other guys don't necessarily mean they want to hook up with them.

Thank you, Marksman, for some more common sense.

If you want to meet him, be a man and say hello. Why play the games with eye contact and touching yourself? If you just want to flirt and wonder "what if," then don't be surprised when nothing happens. Isn't that what frustrates us about women?

 

[Marksman]

Re: Question to straight men about a guy at the gy

If you want to meet him, be a man and say hello. Why play the games with eye contact and touching yourself? If you just want to flirt and wonder "what if," then don't be surprised when nothing happens.

If the other guy isn't already weirded out by him looking away whenever the looked at him though.

A couple of semesters ago I had a neighbor who used to do the same thing to me. He'd look away all of a sudden whenever he saw me in school or at the apartment building we used to live in. After a while I just ignored him altogether.