Hey guys.
First and foremost, this is a long post, so your warned.
I have a friend who iv known since summer, but we don't hang out too much. But the thing is we both feel as if we have known each other for ever. He already plans on moving in with me this summer, once schools over.
Just today when he was driving me back to my house after a band session of Rock Band, he talked about why one of our friends was late, and how we think hes sleeping with another friend. To make the long story short he said that hes not even that good looking, if he was a girl he would pick me over him any day. Which was random as i wasn't even in the subject. I responded saying "I would pick you over all of them" and we smiled at each other in a caring way and left it at that.
A couple months ago he slept over and we shared my bed in a nonsexual way (not unusual to me and my friends) and in a joking but not joking way i layed down and spooned him for a couple seconds. I asked "This bugging you? haha" and he said "Nope, but is the blanket between us?" and i responded saying ya. than i pulled it out and he didn't do anything, than i waited a couple seconds, and than just went to sleep. He also said he wanted to go to the same college with me, and room together. He picked me over all of his other friends, which im thinking is because he wants to "experiment" or just come out there, in fear of his parents flipping out. He said to us that if he was gay and he came out, his parents would disown him or something. Another time we were leaving MC D's and i was saying that if he was bi, i would give him his first time (along with mine
) and he responded with, "I dont know, i might be bi, but i don't know." inside i screamed with excitement, but i said to him "Well if you need to find out, im here for you bro" than we ended the conversion. These are just a couple times, but he has only kissed girls, he recently had a girlfriend (who was not attractive IMO) and he says he didn't have sex because she only wanted to kiss. I met her at the movies last week and she was all over him, so i bet he told her he didn't want to go further. Im not even sure if he did anything with her, but one friend says he talked to her and she says they never properly were dating, but i really cant take his word for everything. I mean the pieces fit perfectly into a puzzel screaming "I LIKE MEN!" but im not sure how to take it further. If we say "Andy, your gay, just admit it" he flips out, even though we are joking. If he was straight, he wouldn't be so mad, i mean my other friends who are straight beyond belief even laugh about it and just go "Oh ya i know, cocks are delicious". What do you guys think?
First and foremost, this is a long post, so your warned.
I have a friend who iv known since summer, but we don't hang out too much. But the thing is we both feel as if we have known each other for ever. He already plans on moving in with me this summer, once schools over.
Just today when he was driving me back to my house after a band session of Rock Band, he talked about why one of our friends was late, and how we think hes sleeping with another friend. To make the long story short he said that hes not even that good looking, if he was a girl he would pick me over him any day. Which was random as i wasn't even in the subject. I responded saying "I would pick you over all of them" and we smiled at each other in a caring way and left it at that.
A couple months ago he slept over and we shared my bed in a nonsexual way (not unusual to me and my friends) and in a joking but not joking way i layed down and spooned him for a couple seconds. I asked "This bugging you? haha" and he said "Nope, but is the blanket between us?" and i responded saying ya. than i pulled it out and he didn't do anything, than i waited a couple seconds, and than just went to sleep. He also said he wanted to go to the same college with me, and room together. He picked me over all of his other friends, which im thinking is because he wants to "experiment" or just come out there, in fear of his parents flipping out. He said to us that if he was gay and he came out, his parents would disown him or something. Another time we were leaving MC D's and i was saying that if he was bi, i would give him his first time (along with mine
) and he responded with, "I dont know, i might be bi, but i don't know." inside i screamed with excitement, but i said to him "Well if you need to find out, im here for you bro" than we ended the conversion. These are just a couple times, but he has only kissed girls, he recently had a girlfriend (who was not attractive IMO) and he says he didn't have sex because she only wanted to kiss. I met her at the movies last week and she was all over him, so i bet he told her he didn't want to go further. Im not even sure if he did anything with her, but one friend says he talked to her and she says they never properly were dating, but i really cant take his word for everything. I mean the pieces fit perfectly into a puzzel screaming "I LIKE MEN!" but im not sure how to take it further. If we say "Andy, your gay, just admit it" he flips out, even though we are joking. If he was straight, he wouldn't be so mad, i mean my other friends who are straight beyond belief even laugh about it and just go "Oh ya i know, cocks are delicious". What do you guys think?
man i love these forums. Well i think im gonna just take it slow, make him feel comfortable about me keeping secrets and such. Maybe try to snuggle with him when he sleeps over, since im guessing thats not much of "a move" because i would just love to have a best friend whos gay