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Was the second question valid?

  • No, its in appropiate

    Votes: 6 66.7%

  • Yes, its valid.

    Votes: 3 33.3%
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Scenario: You and your ex split up. Neither of them cheated and both know this. You run into a person you met 4 years ago and haven't seen him in 3. Did not run into the guy in the span of those years. The relationship lasted 1.5 years.

The first question is
"Who is (person's name). "
--The answer is, class mate i met 4 years ago, have seen in 3 years.

The second question is.

"Have you "been" with him?"
 
is asking if you slept with someone as the second question in a conversation weird?

cant understand?
 
its not the being suspicious part that only bothers me. Its the constant second question.
 
It's valid to a point. No pain in asking, but to hound the person constantly is wrong.

1.5 years is no short time. Rather than asking "Have you been with him?", a better question is "Are you on good or bad terms with each other?".
 
Well if it was already established that you havn't seen him, I don't think he was asking if you were cheating. It sounds like he was just curious, although I don't know the context of the conversation.

Also, maybe if your ex met the guy, maybe he was trying to feel out if he was fair game :).
 
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