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R U out or still in the closet

R U out or still in the closet AS OF 7/10

  • OUT

    Votes: 27 61.4%

  • IN

    Votes: 17 38.6%
  • Total voters
    44
Out with close friends, in the closet with parents...but I thnk they will figure it out eventually.
Some of my cousins know too, the ones I am close with....
 
DJ1990 said:
Out with close friends, in the closet with parents...but I thnk they will figure it out eventually.
Some of my cousins know too, the ones I am close with....
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I'm the exact way. I don't want to put my mom through the stress she's going to be in for no apparent reason. When I finally fall in love and I feel that he may be the one I'll tell her then.
 
Out since 18.

Recently had my biggest out adventure, as I stood behind my partner as he graduated from his residency program. Never before had I declared my sexuality in front of that great a number of people, 100+.
 
loki81 said:
I just kinda live my life without thinking about it. I neither wear it on my sleeve nor do I hide it.
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This is me today.

Maybe my situation is somewhat weird, but in the early 80's, I was in denial and quite naive. At the time, I thought only other gay men were the 'flaming queens' so I didn't really know what to think of myself. I knew I was attracted to men, but not the kind I thought of as being 'gay'. I had no one else to base my feelings on and thought I was just a freak of nature, or something like that.

Fast forward 20 years and I'm happy and out, but like loki, I don't wear a sign, but I no longer hide. It's part of who I am, but not all of me in any sense of the word. I'm a man and a person who just 'happens' to be gay. That is all.
 
I agree, do it when you're ready, but get yerself ready:

[ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pzQ3NFXwpV8&feature=youtube_gdata[/ame]
 
gmoney said:
This is me today.

Maybe my situation is somewhat weird, but in the early 80's, I was in denial and quite naive. At the time, I thought only other gay men were the 'flaming queens' so I didn't really know what to think of myself. I knew I was attracted to men, but not the kind I thought of as being 'gay'. I had no one else to base my feelings on and thought I was just a freak of nature, or something like that.

Fast forward 20 years and I'm happy and out, but like loki, I don't wear a sign, but I no longer hide. It's part of who I am, but not all of me in any sense of the word. I'm a man and a person who just 'happens' to be gay. That is all.
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:confused: :p :badgrin:
 
Out. Have been for years. I don't brag about it, but I will mention it if the subject comes up, or calls for it. LOL, I am surprised how many people do not know, even though I think it's obvious.......
 
Out to a handful of friends and (obviously) the male sexual partners I've been with.


I don't know how to go about telling my family tbh.
 
Only out to select friends--no family. Although I'm debating on coming out to one relative I'm particularly close to.
 
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