Racism is a problem--read this

[james1200]

lostlover and nik who are both my friends are white and into black and latino guys...and they're hotter than most guys on here so don't feel bad, lol. it all balances out...tho yes, those black guys into just white men are pathetic even more so than the asians cause of the history of blacks here...they don't realize they still have a "yes, massah" attitude that makes them unable to appreciate the beauty of anyone who's not white...

 

[sparky95]

I'm curious about this too, as I'm in a inter-racial relationship with a Japanese guy. In his circle of friends, the guys in relationships are a mix of inter-racial and Japanese only pairings. I think it is quite complex as I get the impression that some gay Japanese men would never consider dating a non-japanese, some would , and others would only date non-japanese! Also I think a lot of Japanese both gay and straight regard caucasians as sexy, but inferior to Japanese culturally. Also I think that there may be degrees of racial superiority in Japan itself, with men decended from the Ainu of Hokkaido and from the far southern islands regarded as slightly inferior. I may be wrong about this, can anyone correct me?

 

[Corkles]

Lord Have Mercy.

I love Asian men.

I love Indian men.

Unfortunately for me,I am half-black (and I look 100% black which I am cool with)

So they aren't attracted to me cause they want white guys.

It's so annoying,but it is what it is.

 

[deadslug]

i like all colours, makes life more interesting!

"i'm not racist i hate everybody equally"

 

[Lostlover]

It's seem as though race is a hot issue on these forums, and I'm about to add to it, because it really is a pretty major issue. What's up with all of these minorities (Asians) seeking white approval with threads like, "Do Asians have a chance"? I mean, is it just me or is there something seriously wrong with a group of people who refuse to date their own race, but rather seek the approval of someone white, even though they may be fat, bald and 30 years older?

It's not just Asians. I'm starting to see the same disturbing phenomenon among other blacks. I'm different in that I don't seek out white approval, it would be nice to for once get some MINORITY approval. I'm proud of my black heritage, but also of my visibly white heritage, yet view myself for what I am--a minority. What bothers me is the seemingly large number of minorities who are only interested in white men.

To test this out, I signed up two accounts on manhunt, one describing myself as a mixed (2/3 blk 1/3 wht) guy looking for other hot guys around my age, that showed my six pack and tan. Then, I made up a nearly identical ad, except this time I was white, and the picture was with a shirt on. Both pics were headless, so there was really no way for interested guys to gauge the attractiveness of the guy.

Needless to say, the white ad received more interest from all races in a shorter amount of time, despite the fact that I have a visibly more attractive body. While I do agree people are entitled to preferences, I have a serious problem with minorities looking at another minority profile and automatically dismissing it, but at the same time jumping at a white profile. My profile got more interest from whites than other minorities! WTF

Before I start reading about the media and how it "influences" us, it should be said that this same phenomenon is not observed in the straight community. Minorities are interested in other minorities for the most part. Why is it any different in the gay community?

Also, if I were all white I'd probably only be interested in white guys and would be irritated that all of these minorities would be interested in me. White guys like white guys, why in the hell can't minorities be interested in each other? Being interested in someone who looks like you isn't racist, but normal. I think a lot of minorites need to have that hammered into their heads.

Furthermore, most white men are NOT interested in minorities, and these stupid white chasing people of color just throw themselves at whatever white man they can get, even if he's not that goodlooking. I've seen it over and over again.

It just shows weakness and insecurity in my opinion, especially in instances where the minority is VISIBLY more attractive than the white guy. If I were as pathetic as some of these minorities I'd go around saying how I'm 1/3 white and have white features, but I don't do that. I'm proud to be black.

It just bothers me that this early on in life I'm already noticing many instances of this and can only imagine it will get worse. I guess this country was built on the principal of racial superiority (white) and it's still evident today, even in the gay community.

I agree with what you wrote above, I have noticed this. There was a thread about James Blake and Andy Roddick and people were saying Roddick was much better looking. I don't think any male, straight or gay, could say with an honest face that Roddick is better looking than the absolutely gorgeous but black Blake.

The racial shallowness/prejudice definitely goes both ways, I_Just_Blew_My_Load86.

There are some Puerto Ricans and blacks that I have met who can't be seen with a white person for fear of being labeled a "sell-out".

Also, some need to realize not all whites are prejudice or have small penises.

I_Just_Blew_My_Load86, I really wouldn't want to befriend prejudice people like you described from your experiences. I like to pretend they don't exist. I guess that's all the advice I can offer to you, because they're not going anywhere (unfortunately).

 

[Andreus]

white penii are cute even when they are smaller.

sarcasm alert
sarcasm alert
sarcasm alert

 

[freekyguy]

What bothers me is the seemingly large number of minorities who are only interested in white men.

not me...why should i only into one race when i can enjoy all of them? .

 

[sparky95]

I'm curious about the diffirence in dating patterns between asian guys who have immigrated to the west and those who are born here. Most of the gay asians I interact with are adult immigrants and I think their attraction to caucasians may be due to seeking someone 'exotic' as much as any internal racism! Any comments?

 

[Rali_hates_Mondays]

As an asian, I have many ambitions. However whilst many of them are behind the purposes of my life, I have one primary goal to achieve, one that will be the cherry on the cake, one that will be the defining part of my life!

And that goal is to seduce and to obtain a white husband . Realistically I'm thinking that my partner will probably be in his 80s although if fortune is kind to me in the future, then maybe I might get a 60 year old ! I am the classic archetypal submissive. I am willing to do everything in my capability to serve my master. I'll clean the dishes after every meal, clean the house, clean his clothes, clean his mouldy socks and I'll even cut his dirty toe nails! I'll freely give all of my money to him, my family will pay a highly favourable dowry and all of my property will go under his name after matrimony. In matters with regard to the bedroom, his needs for erotic pleasures come first and if he wants to carry out an act of an unusual nature, I'll consent with, without hesitation! Looks and money will not steal my heart but I am instead looking for... personality .

This humble gay slave, this queen of asian stereotypes is at your service!

 

[jockboy01]

Yeah, I'm not so sure about this. I won't dwell here as I already did on another "racist" post. But I'm white, and the guy I currently like... isn't. It doesn't bother me. And I know a lot of white guys who like guys of a different race. And a guy liking me is flattering regardless of what race he is... esp if he is hot. I'm not sure we're running in the same circles because I don't agree with this evaluation.

 

[Andreus]

maybe most of us just disagree with your ideas

just a thought

 

[tommyj]

Jockboi, I don't know if you new friend is Asian but when I was out in LA I was overwhelmed by the number of Asians who threw themselves at me. They seemed to like white guys with blue eyes I guess (and the goatee helped too!)

 

[Oriental1986]

I'm Asian and I agree with I_Just_Blew_My_Load86.

I too hate those self-hating Asians who are only after 'White Cocks'. I cringe every time when I see young/good-looking Asians (male or female) with some ugly, unattractive, hideous white guys. That just shows how desperate they are and what pisses me off the most is because of their desperation acts, it affects the Asian’s image. You know they’re easy, exotic sex toys, self-hater, cheap etc.


But having said that I don't think that 80%-90% or so of Asians are after Whites, it might seem like it but that's not true. I don't like the fact that you are mainly pointing your finger at us Asians, when clearly that most Blacks/Latinos are too after White ASS.


Most importantly you guys should check out the ‘Big dicked Blacks and Latinos fucking Asian’ thread and make sure you read xiandarkthorne comments because they are so true:


http://justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=124575

 

[JustBoys05]

I too hate the idea that Asian who are only after White, but I_Just_Blew_My_Load86, where do you get the idea that the majority of Asian are chasing only after White?

I'm Asian, somehow a lot of people I'm in contacts with are White, even my best friend is White...does that make me one of those "self-hating" Asian, I dont think so...maybe I'm hypocrite...lol.

 

[Andreus]

I too hate the idea that Asian who are only after White, but I_Just_Blew_My_Load86, where do you get the idea that the majority of Asian are chasing only after White?

I'm Asian, somehow a lot of people I'm in contacts with are White, even my best friend is White...does that make me one of those "self-hating" Asian, I dont think so...maybe I'm hypocrite...lol.

watch it now, she'll tell ya to go away

 

[Andreus]

haha "she" as in referring to me. We all suck dick but come on now, referring to me as a woman, that's just going too far.

just trying to keep it light

actually you have some points here, but i think you are insisting that the issue is universal and it isn't

but

there are people that have problems with this

 

[JustBoys05]

Why everything is Racism.

Come on now, it pisses you off because people ignore you, is there anything more to it, rather than just "internal racism"

 

[Rali_hates_Mondays]

OK I'm gonna post a more serious post seeing as the thread is hungry for serious answers.

I am Chinese, I was born in Britain but I'm well aware of my heritage. Unfortunately I speak fluent English but not fluent Cantonese nor Mandarin, I'm just not a linguist. In Brighton even though it has some of the largest gay populations in Britain, I rarely see gay men of colour. I don't hang out at the gay scene but I do go to a youth group.The vast majority of gays that I do see at the group are white. I'm the only Chinese guy and there is a youth worker who is mixed race and that's it. And so speaking in terms of demographics, I am surrounded by white people. There's little I can do to change that.

Just because you are white does not guarantee you a place in my bed! In fact i don't look at these things in a narrow black and white perspective. It's stupid and perhaps the most paramount sign of ignorance to reject anyone based on the grounds of race. I've seen black men, on TV and occasionally in public, whom I found very attractive. I've also seen white men whom I'm attracted to but the occasions in which I do encounter them are very frequent.

There was this very short phase in which I thought gay Chinese men wouldn't do it for me, as I thought that they were all just ladyboys! But I grew out of that quickly and I realised that I am attracted to oriental men as well. I remember watching the Chinese soap dramas that my parents watched and getting turned on by some of the actors. I remember there were 3 boys at Sunday school, on whom I had crushes on.

Anyway I don't have self loathing qualities... well I may have some but they're not because of my race. I get lazy, I can be a bit rude, sometimes I feel I'm not putting the effort into things... These have nothing to do with race.

 

[Oriental1986]

Maykhawk:

I wasn’t being ‘internally racist’ at all.

Like I said, the reason for me hating those ‘self-hating Asians’ is because of ‘their desperation acts’, which mostly gives out the negative/degrading image to the whole Asian community and not just Thai, Chinese, Japanese etc.

Don’t you agree?


JustBoys05:

I wouldn’t say that you’re ‘self-hating Asian’ , majority of my friends are white too and only have one half Japanese and a British-Indian friend. I’m not an International student so I don’t have any Oriental mates even though I would love to.

The thing is having non-Asian friends is completely different from choosing to just worship white dicks, is it not?


Rali_hates_Mondays:

I totally understand what you’re saying and to certain extent I do agree with you.

However that doesn’t mean that Asians should just go with any Whites just because they are White or there aren’t other ethnic men where they live. I have no problem with inter-racial dating but whenever I see those young/good-looking Asians (male or female)/unattractive white guy couples, that makes me sick to my stomach.


Lostlover sent me a pm and I totally agree on what he had to say:

‘…I'm not Asian but I hate that my Asian friends only date white guys and won't even look at someone of colored skin. What bothers me is that a lot of them seem to have this standard of beauty that doesn't include even their own race.’

That’s so true.

‘…It's just a turn off to me and it's so UGLY to see a young/well-to-do Asian with an older out of shape white guy who looks like he just used drugs. It's such an ugly thing to see and I see it all the time. The Asian guy needs to know he can do better and that white isn't utopia.’

I just hope that all of those ‘self-hating Asians’ and normal Asians too will learn something from this message and the thread. Spread the facts, tell them to accept who they are, tell them to love themselves and have respect to their heritage.

 

[Oriental1986]

maykhawk, when you get some time check out all the links below:

The Truth About Gay Asian Men

http://modelminority.com/modules.php?name=News&file=article&sid=112

Will u date an asian guy?

http://justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=122290&highlight=Asian

Do Asian guys have a chance

http://justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=52343&highlight=Asian

Stereotypes on Asians

http://justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=109883&highlight=Asian



My Azn bros, don't you find 'Top 10 Reasons to Date an Asian Guy' thread offensive. I didn't see the funny side anyways here's the link:

http://justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=119621&highlight=Asian