racist guys?

[Glafna]

Basicly sexual attraction is based off of what you find attractive. I don't find most black men, asians, indians, etc that attractive. Doesn't mean I'm racist, just I enjoy the company of another white man over another ethnicity. Everyones a little bit racist, but thats usually just preconceptions about them if you were walking down the street, or were in a small business owned by one, not when it comes to sexual attraction.

To assume otherwise just says that you don't think much of your fellow man, which is rather pathetic.

 

[Jo-thin]

Funny thing is my Boyfriend sai he would never date a black guy ! Now today we've been together for 2 years and I'm his 1st boyfriend he says Im sexy and loves me, we're sexually active! I'm black hispanic, but I am black with a small nose that is all. People are willing to give a chance instead of judge. I never say what I prefer if I see a hot asian I think hes hot, same goes for all racism, Arab, Latino, Black white, IDC If you're fucking hot to me, screw what your color is xD

 

[Taralen]

How the hell can you be racist and gay? I just don't get it. We are already a damaged community as is. Gays come in all shapes in forms, races, heights, countries? Give me a fucking break.

 

[Lefty]

Some body needs to take Taralen out back of the woodshed.

Do a 'splain to Lucy'for that boy.

Greys Anatomy plus the Funk and Wagnalls says

That People, not just gays..........

Come in all forms, races, heights, countries and yes and even IQ's.

 

[hotb0d]

aah euphemism.

The word 'preference' must be the best invention racists ever came up with.

 

[Lefty]

And my preferences include

Smoking weeds

not pulling them

or seeing widows wearing them.

 

[xname10]

why is it that guys post ads on craigslist or state on their adam4adam profiles that they want only "white or latin guys"?? I know everyone has their own tastes but why is race or skin color a factor in deciding good sex? Its as if these guys dicks wont get hard from the site of darker skin tones?? I just dont understand it..discrimination within the gay community?!? The hate never stops!! I've had so many guys want to fuck me when they hear my stats..as soon as i send a pic of my chest (six pack btw) they stop contact just beause of my skin color!!!!

Like one guy said "white and latin guys only" in his ad. I had talked to this guy before and after he saw my skin tone he ignored all emails. So this time I e-mailed him calling him racist and asking why he was discriminating. He proceeds to give me "examples" to justify his actions: "If you dont like italian food does that make u racist?" WTF He compared human beings to food!! The nerve of these people..

I dont know why but it seems ur talking about white guys rejecting you because of ur skin color? because i sometimes see ''latinos'' and blacks saying those things but rarely, mostly whites.

There is also whites that only like blacks and dont like whites, and whites that only like asians, asians that dont like anything but white,etc,etc

To me all those people with racial preferences are creepy.

 

[Lefty]

well,

I heard at the hair dressers that their are boys who don't like girls...

and they even have a name for them...they are GAYS....

now isn't that a queer name?

 

[aijalon18]

I understand people are hurt by being rejected b/c of their race, but you could look at it a different way. Why give racist guys like that any of your energy. If a guy doesn't like blacks, asians, indians, etc. Who cares? Fuck them. They are not worthy of your dick of color. Why give them the power to make you feel bad? If anything it kinda shows your own insecurity in your race's beauty, b/c it seems like you need to be validated by white guys. If you like your brown skin or asian eyes you shouldnt need anybody's stamp of approval to like them. Just b/c magazines only celebrate blonde hair and blue eyes, that doesnt mean you are obligated to as well.

 

[Glafna]

wow...your post said a LOT.

...and speak for yourself on that 'everyone's a little bit racist' line. Okay?

Oh, so you have NEVER had a negative thought about another ethnicity based on your preconceptions about them?

To deny it is to be a liar

And yah the post says alot. It is my opinion on the matter



Everyone has their own opinions on this subject, and despite what many of you seem to think, it is just our personal preference. And it doesn't have anything to do with racism. That's calling a arabian cab driver a towel-head or a paki, or a mexican a beaner(?).

And what I left out was that theres this lovely arabian piece of ass down in california I'd love to get my hands on. And this rather gorgeous mixed fellow that I've sparred swords with. As I said 'most' xD

 

[dhchitown1984]

At first I thought this wasn't a thread worth adding my own two cents to, but then I figured, why the heck not?!

For purposes of the thread and positioning myself in the argument, I'm a mid-twenties white guy living in Chicago. I find that black guys and white guys catch my eye most often, however, I never restrict myself to those attributes when I'm talking to guys. If someone says "no blacks" or "no whites" or "latinos only" or "no asians or blacks" then yes, I believe that is racism. You're completely disregarding a group of men because of one phyiscal attribute that is exclusive to only their race.

To say "But wait! I'm also not in overweight guys! See, it's preference!" is an easy out. Overweight guys can be white, black, asian, latino, middle eastern, pacific islanders, and so on. By excluding a race, you are completely writing off an entire sub-group of humanity. (Don't confuse my use of the word sub-group as an inferiority, simply saying that each racial group is a sub-group of the human race). There a some real d-bags out there regardless of race. I'd much rather see "no d-bags" on your a4a profile instead of a racial exclusion.

Being a city that is rich in racial diversity probably makes it a little easier for me to see the bigger picture, because I believe I'm a product of my environment and I can understand that people not exposed to a lot of racial diversity may not be able to see things big picture. I just hope that people come around and get their heads out of the 50s.

 

[Lefty]

Personally,

I have been a racist all my life. As a native of America and California

born of political protagonists of higher than average intellect, my life

has been Racist..local, county, state and federal...it was the golden rule

in our home that you researched, read, registered and voted in all the

races. Win....Lose.......Draw

Racist was the Law.

Don't piss and moan, vote....the Ballot box is the Great Equalizer.

 

[Glafna]

^ No, I look at people for who THEY are, individually.

Like I said, if you don't know how to do that...it's your problem. Sad.

Then you sir are a liar. It happens to everyone at one point or another, usually when your on a dark street on your own, or like my example below, something unusual happens when a group of a certain ethnicity goes to an area.

It's not that I can't. But there are instances where the thoughts pop in my head automatically. My town there are very few black people. They tend to converge on friday/saturday nights when people are out partying. And every now and then someone gets stabbed. It may be racist to assume that a black man did it, or it may be putting the facts together.


NEWAYS, that's rather off-topic.

What dhchitown said is rather close to what I was trying to get at.
I've said my 2 cents and im out.

 

[hotb0d]

I knew you were intelligent.

of course. I am more than just a hot bod

 

[Lefty]

Hey Hunt............

want a real Laughah?

Look in Gallery de la Glafna.

Not that I would cast aspersions

Yet the photos are excursions

And like him that would make

His everything a fake.

 

[asu1117]

Then you sir are a liar. It happens to everyone at one point or another, usually when your on a dark street on your own, or like my example below, something unusual happens when a group of a certain ethnicity goes to an area.

It's not that I can't. But there are instances where the thoughts pop in my head automatically. My town there are very few black people. They tend to converge on friday/saturday nights when people are out partying. And every now and then someone gets stabbed. It may be racist to assume that a black man did it, or it may be putting the facts together.


NEWAYS, that's rather off-topic.

What dhchitown said is rather close to what I was trying to get at.
I've said my 2 cents and im out.

Because only black men stab people...



Just because you're racist doesn't mean that everyone is nor does it make them liars when they say they aren't.



And living in a rural town with a predominantly white population is no excuse for allowing yourself to become racist.