Re: Bisexuality Issues

[silver12321]

Re: Bisexuality Issues

hey guys, i have a kind of problem like this,,, i mean... the label of this thread ...


anyway,,, to get my problem out in the open:

i'm a bi guy, but i don't like str8 porn,,, i actually don't find it very interesting even though i love girls to!

gay porn just really turns me on, but when i fall in love with someone i don't care about the gender,,,

sometimes because of my porn-preferences i doubt myself,,,

i know you can't really judge if i'm gay or bi,,, but help would be nice =]

 

[BluesDog]

Re: Bisexuality Issues

there are a couple of different components to attraction--- there is a physical side and an emotional side... you may be experiencing a stronger physical attraction to guys (with some physical attraction to women) and a stronger emotional attraction to women (with some or no emotional attraction to guys).

It might just be a phase or that may be the way that you are hard-wired.

 

[KaraBulut]

Re: Bisexuality Issues

Porn is fantasy. While porn does ferret out a lot of sexual inclinations, it is not supposed to be the way that you evaluate your sexuality.

Who you are sexually is a combination of what is in your head, what is in your heart and who is in your bed. Not what is in your DVD player.

And the terms homo, hetero, bi and ambi are all just ways to try to explain in a single word something that is very hard to explain. The important thing is that you find a place where you can be happy. Don't worry about the labels- just get out there and explore.

 

[Frafilippolippi]

Re: Bisexuality Issues

I actually feel the same way you do, I'm bi without a doubt but most straight porn doesn't do anything for me, I think it's because the women in straight porn are so far removed from the women I would have any interest in! If I found the right performer it may be different.

 

[ejbonk]

Re: Bisexuality Issues

Porn is like wine. Some are very good,others just ok. Most are cheap stuff,that would make better furniture polish or paint stripper.

The Basic Idea is to each their own. It is just a matter of personal taste.

Don't Worry Be Happy.

 

[silver12321]

Re: Bisexuality Issues

thanks you guys!!

btw,, frafilipposomething you are absolutely right! i personally think most str8 porn is really fake,,, the orgasms are fake and shallow you know what i mean right?


see ya l8r, i have some investigations to do on EMO's XD

thats what we do in my sort of class thing,,, we design magazines for subcultures,,, my teams subculture is: emo... :S


i don't really understand subcultures anyway... you choose a subculture that you feel most similar to, bu there is always (mostly bad) stereotypes, that makes me sick,,, i'm not part of any subculture,,, i'm myself... or maybe i am an alto... that's a subculture right???


,,,


damn... now i'm depressed :S LOL

 

[Frafilippolippi]

Re: Bisexuality Issues

thanks you guys!!

btw,, frafilipposomething you are absolutely right! i personally think most str8 porn is really fake,,, the orgasms are fake and shallow you know what i mean right?


see ya l8r, i have some investigations to do on EMO's XD

thats what we do in my sort of class thing,,, we design magazines for subcultures,,, my teams subculture is: emo... :S


i don't really understand subcultures anyway... you choose a subculture that you feel most similar to, bu there is always (mostly bad) stereotypes, that makes me sick,,, i'm not part of any subculture,,, i'm myself... or maybe i am an alto... that's a subculture right???


,,,


damn... now i'm depressed :S LOL

I do know what you mean (when it comes to porn) but I don't have a clue what you're talking about for the rest of the message!

 

[KaraBulut]

Re: Bisexuality Issues

Frafilippolippi:


Emo 101 -

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4nRNYG_xM2U

 

[Frafilippolippi]

Re: Bisexuality Issues

Frafilippolippi:


Emo 101 -

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4nRNYG_xM2U

VERY CUTE!


Emo I get, but the rest of the message not so much...

 

[KaraBulut]

Re: Bisexuality Issues

Emo I get

Well, you are further along than I.

 

[silver12321]

Re: Bisexuality Issues

whaha,,, it's a college assignment,,, we have to design a magazine

about emo's