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Reassessing JUB

Quite honestly, I post a lot less than I used to, and usually, it's just recreationally acting like a turd.

I dont' even do that very much.

I think some people take JUB a lot more seriously than I do, and for that reason they get angry at those of us who think it's just a bit of fun.

That's kinda turned me off of posting as much, I think.

But I've been here for two years and JUB goes through peaks and valleys. If you don't like it around here, just wait.. it'll change.
 
Yet another thread I must walk away from.

I know you're only 18, but if this is the way you intend to go through life, I do not envy you the trip.

Best of luck to you.

I've said it before and I'll say it again: I like your stunt of "walking away" from threads once you realize that you have no argument or have been trumped!

I think some people take JUB a lot more seriously than I do, and for that reason they get angry at those of us who think it's just a bit of fun.

That's kinda turned me off of posting as much, I think.

Looks like some people have had their OWN arguments turned against them! :D
 
I've said it before and I'll say it again: I like your stunt of "walking away" from threads once you realize that you have no argument or have been trumped!



Looks like some people have had their OWN arguments turned against them! :D

Oh, I have arguments, and I have not been trumped. No matter what I say, you won't listen, so why bother? You don't get it now, and you never will, so staying here and arguing would be a waste of my time. That is the only reason I'm 'walking away'.
 
Oh, I have arguments, and I have not been trumped. No matter what I say, you won't listen, so why bother? You don't get it now, and you never will, so staying here and arguing would be a waste of my time. That is the only reason I'm 'walking away'.

Haha, it's quite funny you shold feel that way since if you'll look around you'll see your points have CLEARLY been debunked by members OTHER than me also! Anyway, if you don't feel like arguing your already lost cause please don't, since it is benefiting nobody!
 
We'll see if you're still here in a few years.

GSDX has a long history of nonconfrontational debate in this forum.

We can wait to see how time measures your mettle.

Well if any of the PMs/comments I've received form multiple members about how nice I am and how I'm rightfully agruing a good point are any indicator, that'll be a very long time!
 
I neither pay for or donate anything to this site. As far as I can see, I'm a guest here and really have not much say in how things go.

If the operators deem something offensive and remove it, fine. I don't own the place.

As much as we are a 'community' here, I find it a bit daft complaining about how one is treated, linking it to the operators.

Would you complain to your host if the chicken was too dry?

I'm not trying to be argumentative or malicious, but c'mon guys; it's all water off a ducks back.

For the record, I do recognise every one's points a valid. And I understand from where you're coming.
 
JUB remains for those who contribute. Detraction will make for a tedious longevity.

And that's why I am contributing my opinion. I feel I would be detracting if I stayed behind the scenes and did NOT express myself!
 
I still love you Lube...;)


** runs through field, hair blowing in the wind **

Elvin, I still love you, Dear! (*8*):kiss:



(OK, it would help if I still had hair, but whatever)
 
Opinions contribute.

Insults derail debate.

When another's position appears insulting or disrespectful, it's worth going through a stage of questioning to either ascertain intent or to allow retraction. Charging back with name-calling does nothing but set the stage for a blowout.

Which is why I give my opinion. I do not feel as though I've insulted anybody in this thread, merely debunked their opinion. The two are not the same thing. If you think that post about people NOT learning I made is an insult... it's not meant to be, merely an observation.
 
It is no wonder so many of the long-time Jubbers aren't posting here anymore. They have been leaving in droves.

Why? Because this place is going to crap. There is so much talk about people having the right to their opinions, but, as soon as someone presents an opinion, people are all over his ass, and they're not offering different opinions. They are attacking the person they don't agree with, and they're getting away with it.

Twice in this past while I have been ganged up on and attacked for my opinion. The attacks went on and on, even after I walked away from them, and the attacks were carried over into other threads as well. Was anything done about them? No. A little warning here and there to 'play nice'.

I must come on here with my eyes closed because I've never seen this sort of treament. I've seen Threads be highjacked by guys chatting to each other which is very boring and frustrating and not stopped but I haven't seen the above type of treatment.

I don't spent a lot of time on here anymore because the porn is getting too twink oriented and I'm pretty sick of having to log in every time I come here because of the changes. In spite of following all the instructions I don't stay logged in which frustrates me.

And finally, yep, lots of the guys I used to chat with are gone. But then maybe they've just moved on with their lives, as we all do.
 
Please point out my lack of self-control. I'm interested in where you believe I lost it.
 
So point out where, exactly, in this thread I called him a name. If I DID I apologize, but I don't remember calling him a name in this thread. So please, for my benefit, point out where I did.
 
^I think they're referring to the grammar thread, Nametaken.

-d-
 
Maybe you didn't call him a name in THIS thread - but given that I (as a Mod) can see an "infraction" listed against your name, it would seem that one of the Mods (or Admins) must have thought you had done something worthy of a rebuke.

Anyway - is there REALLY any point in turning this thread into yet another pissing match?

I don't think that serves any purpose...nor, presumably, does anyone particularly enjoy reading it.

I think everyone here has pretty much stated their point (some several times over.;))

Can we just be a little mature and let it go?
 
Yeah, I did call him a name (quite deserved it tho) in another thread... But like I said, that's a completely different argument.
 
Thanks for being honest enough to admit that.

Please also realise that the rules of JUB are "No Personal Attacks" (ie name calling). We ask that you debate the point - not attack the poster.
 
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