Referring to my asshole as my pussy.

[aethelreddansforth]

"Who says bottoming is feminine?" I say it is. For me and me only. I leave the connotation of "bottoming" to the one doing it. Essentially it's none of my business. Or yours.

"By design?" We aren't talking about a sculpture or a painting or a Frank Lloyd Wright here. As the bottom who started this thread, I think of my asshole as my pussy. I let the female persona in me rise to the surface. I enjoy being dominated and used by my man. I want him to have his way with me. Am I being submissive? Yes, with permission. But I initiate all my love affairs and tell my men what I want and how they should treat me. So who’s submitting to whom?

I don't have feminine mannerisms. I don’t identify as gay. I am bi bordering on transgender. Would I get a vaginoplasty? Yes, if it could be reversed in a week. I love my cock too much. I love women (and men) having fun with my cock too much.

On one hand, I welcome your comments and openness about your thoughts towards another JUB member’s sexuality. On the other, your finding my desires and verbal proclivity “cringe” says something I cannot fathom about your mental state. But I’ll take a stab at it: Some hostility toward women going on there?

I say it isn't. I say it shouldn't be seen as such in any absolute sense. What you're doing is just citing your own personal views. You can think what you want. By me saying "who says bottoming is feminine?" there is no subtext.
I don't hate women. and I have my own thoughts and views. You can scope, or just accept another perspective.

 

[aethelreddansforth]

i just answered your question. it's pretty funny you try and scope at random strangers, when you asked for answers. what answers did you expect or want? You can do what you want. I can do what I want. it doesn't mean everybody else should ideally empathise or agree with said viewpoint. i get why some, for instance, would be into race play. I can understand it intellectually. but i feel it's only racist whites or self-hating/uncle Tom blacks who engage in it. Sexuality should be about beauty and not mimicking brutality.

 

[magicdick]

I say it isn't. I say it shouldn't be seen as such in any absolute sense. What you're doing is just citing your own personal views. You can think what you want. By me saying "who says bottoming is feminine?" there is no subtext.
I don't hate women. and I have my own thoughts and views. You can scope, or just accept another perspective.

You wrote, "I say it [bottoming] isn't [feminine]. I say it shouldn't be seen as such in any absolute sense." You just contradicted yourself. "I say it isn't" is pretty absolute. You also conveniently ignored the "by design" and "cringe" issues.

Unless you can make more sense, this conversation is over.

P.S. I did accept another perspective. I merely found your perspective absolute and demeaning.

 

[magicdick]

i just answered your question. it's pretty funny you try and scope at random strangers, when you asked for answers. what answers did you expect or want? You can do what you want. I can do what I want. it doesn't mean everybody else should ideally empathise or agree with said viewpoint. i get why some, for instance, would be into race play. I can understand it intellectually. but i feel it's only racist whites or self-hating/uncle Tom blacks who engage in it. Sexuality should be about beauty and not mimicking brutality.

What in god's name are you ranting about? Never mind. I'm blocking you.

 

[aethelreddansforth]

office is often taken and not given.
I responded in some ways to you since you were trying this "scoping" technique. i don't see the connection of my honest opinion and being a misogynist. You asked for opinions, i gave mine. anybody usingthis site can give their opinions in good faith. it's just nobody engages with me in a scoping tone, as you did. Moreover, I responded to that other person, and you again were using impugning tones, so i thought "fuck it".

if you pose a question, then you should accept answers, in good faith. you are saying I'm being "demeaning". well, offence is taken and not given. I get the suspicion you only really allow "cool" Californians to post questions or answer them. lol. fair enough. CA seems like a fake and hypocritical state as it stands though. yes, it's rich but then it has massive homeless towns as a liberal state. As I'm as human as any preppy CA resident, I can have my opinion also. If any preppy CA resident dislikes that. maybe they should know what the phrase "everybody has a right to an opinion" means. everybody has no subtext to it.

I'm happy yo've blocked me, since people who use scoping tones in non-relevant contexts generally turn out to be bad news in my experience.

 

[BlondMichael]

More than a few on JUB object to my referring to my asshole as my pussy. I can tell you why if you want, but I would like to know if you agree and why you agree (or disagree). I'm open. (I'm always open for business - both holes - so speak your mind.) My asshole IS MY PUSSY!

My guy calls it his pussy, so it is!!

 

[magicdick]

My guy calls it his pussy, so it is!!

My lovers all now refer to my ass as a pussy. They love it. They also refer to me as "bitch", "little girl", "cum-lovin' cocksuckin' whore", and so forth. I love it. I just like submitting to a cock; pleasing him is my only goal. (And I'm bi and not effeminate in the least. Not that there's anything wrong with that.) Thank you for the comment. P.S. I bet you're a great lover and pussy fucker.

 

[Tosk224]

My husband refers to his hole as his cunt, as he knows it drives me crazy when we’re having sex.

 

[magicdick]

My husband refers to his hole as his cunt, as he knows it drives me crazy when we’re having sex.

Just my lovers being verbal in their own fashion drives me crazy. So many just lie there and take it, so to speak. Scream in pleasure! Moan - loudly! Tell me what a good fuck or cocksucker I am! Tell me I have a nice pussy (or cunt, which I like, too). Tell me I have the biggest, prettiest cock you've ever seen! (That's right, lie to me. It's better than lying there like a mannequin. )

 

[cumlover91]

It depends on who i'm bottoming for but sometimes i do it. Especially if they are bi, It drives them absolutely insane. They love it. It usually makes them fuck harder which makes me say it louder which gets them and me going crazy.

 

[magicdick]

It depends on who i'm bottoming for but sometimes i do it. Especially if they are bi, It drives them absolutely insane. They love it. It usually makes them fuck harder which makes me say it louder which gets them and me going crazy.

You speak my language, baby. I get loud and talk dirty. It adds to the excitement of being intimate with a man. Having a man's cock inside me, mouth or pussy, is the ultimate in sexual experience. When a man is fucking me or when I have his cock in my mouth, I pinch myself: Am I really getting fucked? Do I really have a nice cock in m mouth? Am I really about to be rewarded with luscious cum? Just thinking and writing about cock gets me hard.

 

[BlondMichael]

He can call it whatever he wants. As long as I get that dick!

 

[magicdick]

He can call it whatever he wants. As long as I get that dick!

Me, too! What's in a name. Call your asshole what ever you want (mine will always be my pussy), as long as I get to fuck it. Same with your cock, as long as I get to suck it and have it fuck me and breed me.

 

[tabby82]

He can call it whatever he wants. As long as I get that dick!

This! I have had guys call it all sort of things! I love it when guys call it cunt, major turn on for me. If he use the words faggot and cunt in bed this will drive me nuts

 

[magicdick]

This! I have had guys call it all sort of things! I love it when guys call it cunt, major turn on for me. If he use the words faggot and cunt in bed this will drive me nuts

Samewise!!! Especially being called faggot, queer, bitch, whore, etc. Gets me going. I tell my men to verbally abuse me, grab me by the hair as they fuck me or I suck their cock and call me bitch.

 

[BiBtm64]

This! I have had guys call it all sort of things! I love it when guys call it cunt, major turn on for me. If he use the words faggot and cunt in bed this will drive me nuts

That's how it is, isn't it! The guy getting my ass can call it what he wants. It's HIS ass!

I love it when he says "You like that deep in your pussy, faggot? Want your cunt fucked harder and deeper?"

 

[magicdick]

That's how it is, isn't it! The guy getting my ass can call it what he wants. It's HIS ass!

I love it when he says "You like that deep in your pussy, faggot? Want your cunt fucked harder and deeper?"

""You like that deep in your pussy, faggot? Want your cunt fucked harder and deeper?" Never had a guy speak those words while fucking me. My guys tend to be on the quiet side. I'm the opposite. I talk, urge, coax, coach, scream my pleasure...

 

[TheHardOne]

""You like that deep in your pussy, faggot? Want your cunt fucked harder and deeper?" Never had a guy speak those words while fucking me. My guys tend to be on the quiet side. I'm the opposite. I talk, urge, coax, coach, scream my pleasure...

I would immediately end things if spoken to that way.

 

[magicdick]

I would immediately end things if spoken to that way.

I appreciate and respect your feelings. No offense intended. Please let me explain my feelings.

I am a bisexual guy in the broadest sense. I love women. I love their bodies. I love their minds. I would never ever speak to a woman like that (unless she asked me to). On the other hand, when I am with a man, the male-female dichotomy within me disappears. I become a woman and I mean that more literally than you think.

That male-female dichotomy exists within every human. All of us have both estrogen and testosterone. All of us have (some much more than others) the psyche of the opposite sex. The difference between a penis and a vagina is largely just a difference in morphology.

Oh, hell, let me keep a short story short. I love to be called bitch, whore, slut, faggot, queer, and what-have-you. Those words reinforce the gay and female “me” that comes out when I’m blowing a guy and being fucked and being covered with his cum.

I love my cock, but I’d love to have a pussy for a year and submit to as many men as possible. Yes, I like to be submissive, to be dominated by my men. Something that would never happen fully dressed outside closed doors. But watch out when the doors are closed.

All this likely makes no sense to you, but this is me.

 

[tabby82]

Maybe there is a limit to what I allow him to say. I am submissive, I like guys to take control of me. If I am getting what I want too he can say pretty much whatever he wants in the bedroom. In public I would not let him talk to me like this.