Reischfleger No goodbyes, just see you around :)

[Reischfleger]

I was not sure if I should write this because I am sure a lot of members saw @ChristianGianni post and roll eyes assuming he was craving attention. trust me I know him and this was not the case. He does not care about getting attention. He did it because he wanted to let you guys know what is going on ...

Anyway, I am posting this because I won't have any time after today. I am going on a 3 months business trip and probably more after the summer. I just gave my married colleagues with children the best gift they could ever ask for. I took over everyone's business trip for this summer. I NEED IT

I recently lost someone very special to me and at the same time, I had some bad news. All this together had turned my world upside down. I am heartbroken and sometimes I think I will never be the man I use to be. I do not want to fall into anxiety or depression so I am drowning myself in work. I know this is not the right thing to do right now for my mental health, but it is all that is keeping my mind off things. I know mental issues are something to take very seriously and I know I should seek help before things get worse, but for now, I will handle things this way.

I always hated the internet because everyone has an opinion and believes everything they read or heard. We are humans behind this forum and any other communities, please always be kind to each other you never know when your kindness can help a person going through a bad day or if your unkindness could hurt someone's life. That being said I joined this forum in 2006 when I was just a toddler and it has helped me in many ways The combined experiences and advice from different members helped me understand and accept a lot of things. I was young and naive. I made a lot of mistakes, but I learned from reading here. I will always be grateful for all the long hours I spend on the weekends reading, laughing, and sometimes shedding a tear or two reading your post.

To all the members I follow below THANK YOU! Remember every goodbye brings a new hello

@amballins @bluestar1079 @Danb258 @hardreader @LoveMyPeppermill @MoaningMike @MusicMan321 @Paulll92 @ronboy @Superboy69 @TUgrad12 @ChristianGianni

You guys are awesome keep sharing your stories and posting your sexy hot, and funny pictures. Help when you can, be kind, and do not judge. You are a cool group of people. Take care!

A special thanks to @rareboy @seven2go @ronboy I know you since I started here and you have always been so kind to me. If and when I am okay I will be happy to find you here again. @ChristianGianni sweetie you know I will always love you. Our memories of yesterday will last a lifetime. We’ll take the best, forget the rest, and someday, will find that these are the best of times

I PROMISE I will take care of myself. When I am okay and ready to join the online community. I will drop by to say hello.

One last thing and the only person that knows this is Christian. Hey, @Vannie My real name is Mark. Nice to meet you and thank you for all your positive reactions to all my posts.

Jubbers always be kind to each other because being kind allows others to see the goodness in humanity through you.

“It’s easier to treat people properly than to repair broken relationships.”
― Frank Sonnenberg.

No goodbyes, just see you around. Hasta la vista

Love, Mark

The absence of a friend is going to make me feel lonely and frustrated.
There is nothing good about goodbye… it makes me feel lonely and suffocated

 

[Danb258]

@Reischfleger

Mark

I am so sorry to hear of your loss, and I wish you all the love and happiness as you work through your feelings and emotions. Sometimes the internet can be a cesspit of unpleasantness, which is why I find JUB such a refreshing change. The people here are incredible and that 100% includes you. If you ever need to reach out anonymously then I am on kik and ******** as Danb259. I'm in the closet so discretion is everything.

I wish I could do more but in the meantime stay true to yourself and I know it is a cliche but it really is darkest just before dawn. Time doesn't ever stop us from remembering nor does it take away the pain, but it does let us heal enough to move forward and bring joy to others and with that eventually to ourselves.

Be happy and enjoy your business trips.

Sending hugs.

Dan

 

[MusicMan321]

It was meeting you on here and hopefully you'll be OK take care

 

[NotHardUp1]

All the best to you as you look for healing.

And I don't think anyone assumed anything about Christian's farewell, or at least not about attention seeking. Those posts are only suspect when someone leaves with drama in their wake. Christian could have hardly gotten more attention than he got.

We'll miss you both.

 

[unloadonme]

Sorry to hear about the bad things in your life. Hope to see you back sometime soon.

 

[rareboy]

Wishing you all the best and looking forward to seeing you again here.

It is a joy to interact with you on JUB.

Take care of yourself.

Hugs,

rb

 

[Vannie]

Hey Mark. Sorry for your loss. Time will start to heal slowly but surely.

I think I love you now that you quoted Styx

Here if you need another ear anytime.

John

 

[bluestar1079]

@Reischfleger

Thank You Mark!

And thanks for including me and yes you believed in me and said Kind things to me as well and I appreciated it yes, I need a friend sometimes to talk to I have a lot of issues myself. Sometimes I tend to run away and hide from my feelings and emotions, and I also feel the same way about the internet that not everyone understands and sees what you are going through. I keep a lot of stuff inside also. I also enjoyed @ChristianGianni and his posts and also considered him a good friend as well. It's nice that there are good kind people in the world the world needs that and less bullies. I have been bullied and mistreated a lot especially online and I don't have many friends as well. I will miss you and hope you decide to come back and visit when you feel the time is right. I also have a busy life and try to stay away when I feel i need too. I started seeing a therapist last week and hope he will help with some issues. I'm sorry you are going through all of this as well. I also have a hard time trusting people and having the right people stick around hopefully I'll be able to make some good friends and travel and enjoy my life etc. Yes, take care of yourself it is important.

Love,
Michael

 

[rareboy]

Hey Michael,

Sorry to read that you have struggles, but hope that having a counsellor will help you.

Always remember though that there is a community here that has supported a number of people through crises or just been here to make one another laugh.

Again... a reminder of why we will miss Mark and Chris...

 

[ChristianGianni]

Mark, you are the one that holds my heart and I trust you with it

 

[cityboy-stl]

I never know what to say, but I wish you the best and hope that everything works out. Hugs to both Mark and to Christian. We've not met in person, but there is a place in my heart. Take care of yourself, you guys.

 

[Essex Boy]

We will meet again. Of that, I'm sure. R.I.P

 

[PrinceCory]

Gosh, @Reischfleger, I just read your news. I'm kinda behind in checking out the new threads that have been emailed to me by the forum. I also have not (yet) seen the post you and other mentioned from Christian. But I'm only up to May 27 in my emails.

As others have mentioned, I hope you the best and look forward to you being able to return to the forums. Same for Christian, too.

 

[ShadowCat]

Just posting this here because of my decision to delete my profile Mark we maybe said 2 or so words to each other but I wish you well! Take as much time as you need remember Rome wasnt built in a day, just dont throw yourself into too much and burn yourself out! I am making this decision to delete because like you I also need time away; a year, 5, 10 who knows! Since you were so tight with Christian please give him my love as well, I traded my email with him but that email is also being closed and he will have no way to get in contact with me. All my best- ShadowCat

 

[metta]

"I recently lost someone very special to me and at the same time, I had some bad news. All this together had turned my world upside down. I am heartbroken, and sometimes I think I will never be the man I use to be. I do not want to fall into anxiety or depression, so I am drowning myself in work."



I have definitely been there and done that. I hope your memories help to comfort you. I'm the last person to give advice on dealing with loss. I don't know anyone that handles it as badly as I do. But I do wish you well. I wish you comfort, health and joy. Be well, and be kind to yourself!