Relationship with family member (brother) ?

[Josh9944]

This is the most disgusting thing I've read in my life.

Has anyone ever been involved in a relationship with a close family member?

I've started dating a really cute guy from my class. Both he (Allen, 21) and his brother (Hampton, 18 ) are gay. Hampton is just as cute as Allen.

I've become romantically involved with Allen. The other night I met Hampton for the first time, and learned that the two brothers explored their sexuality with each other, and are romantically involved. They live together in one of their parent's houses (his parents don't live there). Aside from each other, they've never had an outside relationship with anyone. They're very close. Allen is deaf, and although he is an Abercrombie store model he's very shy and never explored dating until he saw me lusting over him.

The other night I was in a threesome with the two, and while I had a great time I started thinking about the morality and the ethics of what was happening. This is my first time ever being in a relationship with anyone and wonder if I'm overthinking the issue.

They're both very happy and are extremely welcoming to me joining their family and becoming a trio.

 

[AstareGod]

This is the most disgusting thing I've read in my life.

You need to get out more.

Personally I find it interesting dating a deaf person, even though I haven't dated one. To the OP, I'm assuming you're not deaf. I took a few sign language classes and found the language easy to pick up, but I've lost a lot of it because I haven't used it persistently.

Anyway, I see nothing wrong with this. Just make sure you are responsible with your physical & emotional health and all will be fine.

 

[BunkerBuster]

Personally I find it interesting dating a deaf person, even though I haven't dated one. To the OP, I'm assuming you're not deaf. I took a few sign language classes and found the language easy to pick up, but I've lost a lot of it because I haven't used it persistently.

No, I'm not deaf, but it certainly has made our relationship very interesting! I'm quickly learning sign language, but have a long ways to go. We practice total immersion, where to help me learn we speak no words at home unless absolutely necessary. It's all sign.

As for the brother, although he still lives in the house, he has begun to separate himself from our relationship as he has started to date someone of his own. He appears to have gained some confidence and has started to develop new friends. He's not jealous of the relationship I have with his brother, and in fact we are still great friends. We still go shopping a lot together and swap clothes

 

[Just_Believe18]

^ See, everyone? BunkerBuster was there for both of them in a time where they needed help the most. Now, the younger brother has been inspired to have the confidence to go date others. Even you prudes have to admit the outcome was positive.

 

[Fire]

^ See, everyone? BunkerBuster was there for both of them in a time where they needed help the most. Now, the younger brother has been inspired to have the confidence to go date others. Even you prudes have to admit the outcome was positive.

But see, you're working off the assumption that any of this is true, which is typically a mistake when it comes to lascivious tales of gay incest on the Internet.

 

[BunkerBuster]

I admit I had to look up "lascivious." That must have been one of the SAT words I quickly forgot

 

[Just_Believe18]

But see, you're working off the assumption that any of this is true, which is typically a mistake when it comes to lascivious tales of gay incest on the Internet.

Which we are suppose to assume in order to help those who ask for advice here. If there's no trust, then this sub-forum doesn't work.

 

[3nipples]

Which we are suppose to assume in order to help those who ask for advice here. If there's no trust, then this sub-forum doesn't work.

Ultimately it doesn't really matter one way or the other. The discussion is just as valid either way and may help one of the hundreds of lurkers in the background who may find themselves in a similar circumstance.

 

[slnattak]

I am sexually attracted to a family member myself. I see nothing AT ALL wrong with it, you can't help who you're attracted to. I've been thinking about how, if possible, we could fool around - but I don't know about this yet.

I know a very sweet innocent boy, that had nothing much wrong with him AT ALL have a healthy sexual relationship with both his younger brother and his father. He was self-confident, assertive, capable and compassionate to others. He just happened to have a loving relationship with his brother and dad.

The same 'eww it's just ewwww' arguements have been used against homosexuality since time immaterial. That homos can go around and do the same thing for others is just....mind boggling. Neither homosexuality or incest in of itself, in the proper context between the individuals involved- is destructive. There is no objective evidence to back that up. If you don't like an aspect of gay life, you find a niche you do belong in and stop whining.

If you are courageous enough to act on your sexuality you will encounter things that feel healthy and right and things that don't. You simply stop doing the things you don't enjoy while keep doing things that you do enjoy. But morally judging yourself gets you nowhere.

If you find a sexual act or person repulsive, don't sleep with them/don't do the act. It's really that simple. If you're not into something, get no growth out of it or whatever- don't do it. But judging others for something they like is just shooting yourself in the foot.

Even if later they feel guilty about what they did and decide it's not for them - YOU DO NOT PATRONIZE THEM. They already reached the conclusion FOR THEMSELVES that it was inappropriate for them.

 

[saymyname]

I think it sounds hot. The three way part could get confusing, but otherwise, go for it.

I can't believe how judgmental some of you guys are being. As if there aren't a ton of gay guys with big brother/little brother complexes. Bitches.

 

[USEDCAR]

I think its hott to look at in porn and stuff but for me theirs way too much people in the world for me to turn to a family member for love.