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queenoftheshow said:
I think it's usually in the best interest of the relationship for both parties to remove the app once they get together. It just makes sense to me. What purpose does it serve to you if you've entered a closed, committed relationship?
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I use Grindr to network with gay people in my area. Said networking could be chatting, making friends in real life, sex or dating. What purpose does it serve to me if I've entered a closed, committed relationship? Lemme see - chatting and making friends in real life. I think it's a total douchebag move to cut contact with people you've become friends with because you've found a boyfriend. That devalues your entire prior contact with them.
 
Rolyo85 said:
I use Grindr to network with gay people in my area. Said networking could be chatting, making friends in real life, sex or dating. What purpose does it serve to me if I've entered a closed, committed relationship? Lemme see - chatting and making friends in real life. I think it's a total douchebag move to cut contact with people you've become friends with because you've found a boyfriend. That devalues your entire prior contact with them.
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You can't meet people aside from grindr? It seems kind of lazy. And why would you have to cut contact with anyone? You have a phone.
 
FlimFlam said:
You can't meet people aside from grindr? It seems kind of lazy. And why would you have to cut contact with anyone? You have a phone.
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Of course I can't. Not with people around me for sure. I am not a "chat strangers up in bars" kinda guy, and anyway, that's no less hook-uppy than any app. The only places where I could meet people would be school and work. I don't wanna constrain myself to those.

As for the phone argument, that's dumb and it's proven to never work with online friendships. A networking site/app is an environment as much as it is a means of contact. You come online BECAUSE people you know might also be on. Seeing them on prompts contact that you otherwise might not have a reason to initiate, or could simply not think of initiating otherwise. Not that I DON'T use texting with friends, but this all just sounds like "omg let's find reasons to not have Grindr", as if it somehow taints you. I don't feel tainted by Grindr. It's not a hook up app for me, so I don't delete it when I stop hooking up.
 
I met my bf on a site called gaydar.... we will celebrate being together for 3 years this weekend and couldn't be happier :)
 
My boyfriend and I met on Jack'd in November. We've been dating ever since.

It was really hard for me to get off Grindr/Jack'd, since I had been using those apps for a couple of years. It's not that I wanted to cheat on my boyfriend, I only wanted to use them to chat. However, I felt super guilty each time I logged in. In the end, I just had to uninstall both of the apps. It's only fair.
 
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