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Robin Roberts, Jason Collins,Derrick Gordon, Michael Sam dating white gays why?

-Kane- said:
This has to be the biggest crock of bullshat I've read in quite awhile.
Did you just pull this "ratio" out of your ass? In the real world, that's not how people present facts.

The truth is; BLACK Gay men are more open to interracial couplings than WHITE Gay men. The studies are online for all to see if you just do a little looking. Also, Black Women are often the last choice amount racial groups when it comes to online dating. OkCupid did a study and found that Blacks are more willing to date/marry outside of their race than most other groups.. WHITES were among the least.
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Minus the hostility I can't say you're not on point. It seems silly to pretend that a good bulk of dating profiles don't state "no blacks," I've seen it more times than I can count. I imagine the reasons are predictable and unsurprising to anyone who didn't grow up under a rock. In fact, considering America's history with standards of beauty and perceptions of af-american males it would only make sense that black men are by and large considered undesirable mates outside of the big-dick mandingo fetish and bragging rights. I see that in straight and gay couples alike, people who go out of their way to remind you that their bf is black, as if we are some sort of trophy.
 
mizanin66 said:
Im white.........
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I'm off-white. White is the color of fresh snow. If I actually became entirely white, I would be whisked to ER quickly, by somebody. :kevbo:

When I was highly sexually active as a very young adult, I was always surprised how often I had black partners (the % being a number of times higher than the ambient and regional demographics would have predicted), and I was fine with that, because my racial preference "black versus white" has always been close to or absolutely neutral.
 
Karen_Walker said:
That seems to be how a lot of you interpret his post. I often forget just how deeply you guys sometimes just don't get it. This isn't about keeping anything pure, it's about A) a class system where white partners are used as a status symbol and B) a lack of availability of black partners for out men, least of all celebs probably due in large to rampant homophobia in the agonizingly religious black American culture.

But that first sentence pretty much sums up any taboo discussion, "It makes me uncomfortable 'so drop it.'"
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Maybe the white guy is using the black guy to raise HIS status symbol ??? Can't it work both ways?

"Man... look at that dude. He hangs with blacks. He's cool !"

... reading this thread, it feels like some blacks have already mentally/psychologically put themselves in a lower position. Is that real, taught, geographic, genetic, ... ??? where does that come from?

Why is white automatically assumed to be greater than rather than equal to, lesser than, or irrelevant ???

A) a class system where white partners are used as a status symbol
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Let's assume this is true... hypothetically. How does the other side work? Does this also raise the white guys status? Lower it? Doesn't change it? There's got to be some kind of reaction to this action. What's in it for the white guy?
 
To me it is very unfortunate that the people making claims about other peoples relationships don't actually know for a fact why they're in them and how both people feel about each other. In general too many speak about others peoples relationships when they'll never fully know what is going on behind the curtains.

I would imagine there is truth in the fact that different races or just different class of people date or marry or whatever for some sort of "rise" in status, but I can't say I gathered that this topic was well represented that way. It came off that the usual 2 have problems with the relationships themselves and are the ones who seem that they need work on their own personal problems before telling other people how they should live.
 
borg69unimatrix said:
Maybe the white guy is using the black guy to raise HIS status symbol ??? Can't it work both ways?

"Man... look at that dude. He hangs with blacks. He's cool !"
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Yes, it works both ways. And being used as a token piece for cool points isn't as flattering as it seems.

borg69unimatrix said:
... reading this thread, it feels like some blacks have already mentally/psychologically put themselves in a lower position. Is that real, taught, geographic, genetic, ... ??? where does that come from?!"
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See America for the past 500 years.

borg69unimatrix said:
Why is white automatically assumed to be greater than rather than equal to, lesser than, or irrelevant ???!"
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Again, see America's history of race relations for the past few centuries.
 
This is the never ending thread. I wonder, what would we all have thought had a white guy posted this?
 
IamNoah said:
This is the never ending thread. I wonder, what would we all have thought had a white guy posted this?
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They would still flee from it in terror. Any issues regarding homos of color is met with hostility, "it's all in your imagination, color lines don't exist" and "get over it."
 
I want anyone who's reasonably intelligent, attractive, and willing to sit on my dick. (With my Dread Lord Husband's permission of course.)
 
I will never post pecker pics or probably even nip pics here. My self-esteem is wayyy too low for that. :O
 
IamNoah said:
I will never post pecker pics or probably even nip pics here. My self-esteem is wayyy too low for that. :O
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You won't even let us see the nips? :( has the interwebbz taught you nothing? letting strangers gawk at your good bits is the #1 self esteem booster. that's what the facebook "like" button was invented for.
 
Karen_Walker said:
You won't even let us see the nips? :( has the interwebbz taught you nothing? letting strangers gawk at your good bits is the #1 self esteem booster. that's what the facebook "like" button was invented for.
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So, Karen Walker... what are you hiding in your purse??
 
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