Runing into someone after a hookup

[justme575]

I was at the local bathhouse on the weekend and exchanged blowjobs with this really hot guy.Sure enough on monday at work I discover our new clean up guy around the shop is him.....we just gave each other a grin and i havint said anything about it yet.

Anyone else have any experiences like this?

 

[spooger]

i so wish it were true ...

 

[DJ1990]

Nope. Although I did run into this guy from high school that I sent a really awkard message to....and we just passed by each other...but that's a whole other story.

 

[jasoncrew03]

I've slept with plenty of people in my dorm building and I see them almost every day. It's not awkward, it's just sex.

 

[DJ1990]

You guys are so slutty.
Be careful with those penises out there....especially if you take it in the butt.

 

[BoiOnFire]

I've seen a few hookups in public after the fact, I usually just give him a little grin, and usually they do in return....As long as you realize it's just causal sex then why should it matter?

 

[looseliam]

I've run into them as clients at work - some with their wives. I just and go about my day.

 

[Ninja108]

none for me...but then again, I'm engaged.

 

[hotatlboi]

yes a few. In college I hooked up with this one guy then we got assigned to the small group in a class, lol. It was a bit awkward.

Also this one guy I made out with at a bar I ran into in the checkout line at the grocery store.

 

[Bent-On]

With the seedy reputation that bathhouses have I wouldn't be caught dead inside one. Even the Dutch ones - as if you were standing in a check-out line for STD's.

 

[leomendez93]

I was called for Jury Duty in my city and right there, three people down on my row, was a guy I knew "a bit" more than others. He did not look to my side.

 

[honooryuu]

i still see the guy i had a bad experience with once on campus. we dont talk to or acknowledge each other.

 

[NineOfClubs]

In the 90's I hooked up a couple times with guys who were half of a long standing "monogamous" couple.

It was an effort to play it cool when I ran into them out on the town with their significant others.

 

[FunFunk]

How guys react in these situations would be affected by what the actual experience was like, the circumstances in which they subsequently ran into each other and how they each feel about casual sex.

I myself have run into people I've had casual sex with (it's a large but crowded city where people live on top of each other -- mostly metaphorically, but sometimes literally, lol ). Once I spotted someone in the subway that I'd hooked up with only about a week before (he lived in my neighborhood), but I hadn't really been satisfied with the encounter, so we just ignored each other.

Another time, I was in a gym I patronized regularly and saw an escort I once hired working out as a visitor. He also recognized me and we had a friendly chat for a moment while he was between sets.

The way I see it, sex, including casual sex, is nothing to be ashamed about and there's no reason to ignore or be cold toward someone you had such an encounter with, particularly if all parties involved had a pleasant, satisfying experience. The only time I would truly hesitate is if the person is with a significant other not "in the know" whose relationship would be damaged if he started to suspect his partner was cheating on him.

 

[alley]

Once in a while I do run into someone...when I first came out I seemed to attract a certain type of guy...usually married and not out. So, if I do run into one of these guys it is a bit uncomfortable just because I dont know if they want to "recognize" me.

And couple of them were a bit stalker-ish...so, when I saw them I ducked and hi-tailed it away.

 

[HunterM]

Once I had a failed hookup, I went to a guy's house and realized we had a miscommunication about the purpose of my visit, so I left. He invited me to stay but I left because I felt weird about it.

This sounds so funny "had a miscommunication about the purpose of my visit." What happened? Was it like "I'm here to suck your cock" and he said "I thought you're here to drain my pipe...my kitchen sink's PVC pipe" ?

 

[rareboy]

With the seedy reputation that bathhouses have I wouldn't be caught dead inside one. Even the Dutch ones - as if you were standing in a check-out line for STD's.

So rants the 28 year old virgin self-hating troll.

Honey, if I were you I'd loosen up on the bath-houses a bit because from the sounds of things, getting fucked in one of those is about the best you're ever going to do.

 

[Cruiser7]

Okay, awesome.

So you go ahead and have the same sex outside of bathhouses that I'm having with guys in bathhouses, pat yourself on the back, and remind yourself just how better you are.

Oh wait, you're not having sex because according to you gay sex is synonymous with HIV. Lovely.

Quoted for brilliance!

 

[BrownBoi89]

Yesterday I walked by the guy I slept with a couple weeks ago, I'm not sure if he saw me or not.

 

[cityboy-stl]

Ha, I had to give someone a job interview a couple of years after I fucked his brains out. Awkward, to say the least.