Last week I met this guy on adam4adam. He seemed really nice so we traded pictures and numbers. After talking to him on the phone we found out we had a lot in common so he invited me over. He lives 30 minutes away but that's fine. When I got to his house he answered the door in his underwear. Was he hot and he kissed me right away and walked me to his bedroom. We sat on his bed and talked awhile. Then we decided to make out and one thing led to another. After that we fell asleep and I left in the morning.
The next day he called me and said he missed me and asked me to come over after work. When I got there he answered the door looking all fine. He is a great dresser and always looks really nice. It also helps that he has a great body. We decided to go out to a gay bar. At the bar he kept looking at me and telling me how he wanted to kiss me. We decided to leave the bar and get a bite to eat. At the restaurant I found out that we have a lot in common. he loves to shop, likes the same music and movies. After dinner we went back to his house and cuddled in bed for the next.
We went out every night since then. I didn't mind the drive that much because he made me feel good and I knew i made him feel good too. We would talk about things that I wouldn't normally talk to my straight friends about. he told me that he wanted to take me to Boystown but was afraid that I would leave him for someone else. I told him I wouldn't do that because he makes me happy. He asked me if I was his boyfriend and I said it feels like it. He then told me I didn't really ask him yet so I ask him to be my boyfriend. He hesitated for a second and got really sad. I told him he didn't have to say yes. He looked at me and said he would love to be my boyfriend.
Two days ago we went out for dinner. We ordered drinks and the waitress ID us. We both showed her our ID's and he left his wallet out in the table. I looked at his picture on his ID and said that he looked really hot in it. He looked at my ID and I looked at his again. I noticed that it wasn't and Illinois drivers License. It was a Mexico ID. I asked him if he had an Illinois drivers License and he said no. I asked him why he didn't have one and he told me that he would tell me later.
after dinner we decided to go to the mall. We talked he kissed me a few times while I was driving. We got to a red light and I asked him why he didn't have an Illinois License and he got really quiet. He asked me if I had an idea why and I said I think I do. He asked me why and I told his that I think he doesn't have one because he is not registered as a US Citizen. He cried and said I was right. he explained that he hates it because he can't get credit or get a decent job. he then looked at me and said "You don't want to be with me anymore" I told him that was not true. He explained that he was sensitive and that he gets emotional over things like that. Then he explained that to reason why he hesitated before tell me yes about being my boyfriend was because his last boyfriend threatened to report him when they broke up. I explained that I would never do that and if something did happen I'm not that kind of person. I explained that all I want is for us to be honest with each other. he smiled and said I make him feel so good about himself.
Yesterday he called me after I got done working. He asked what time I was coming over. He told me he was organizing his closet. When I got to his house he said to just come inside. I took my laptop and overnight bag and went to his room. he was still organizing his closet so I put my stuff on his floor. He looked and me, looked at my stuff and had a sad look on his face. he kissed me went back to hang up something in his closet. I knew something was wrong. I asked why he looked so sad. He said it was nothing. I took his hand and led him to his bed and sat down by him. I asked him what was wrong. He wouldn't look up at me and said he didn't know how to tell me this. I asked him if it was something I did and he said no. I asked again to please tell me what was wrong. he looked at me and started crying. I explained that I think I know whats going on. He asked me to tell him what I thought it was. I got up from his bed and he grabbed both of my hands. He asked me to please sit back down. By now I was shaking and asked him to please let me go. I grabbed my stuff and he asked me to please sit back down. I told him I'd rather not know and headed to the door. he grabbed me again and said that he really wanted to talk to me. As I was about to leave he shouted that he still wanted to be friends. I put my stuff in my car and just sat there for a few minutes. I felt really sad so I called one of my good friends. he didn't answer so I left him a message. after a few minutes of sitting in my car in shock I decided that an explanation was owed to me. I walked back in his house and he started to hug and kiss me. I pushed him away and demanded to know why he was breaking up with me. He told me to sit down. He started to tell me and stopped. Then he started again by saying how I started out as just a fling. He explained that he has had a boyfriend now for 5 years and they have an open relationship. By now I was almost in tears and I started to shake. he said that his boyfriend doesn't want to have sex and he needs sex. He said that when he told his boyfriend about me he got jealous. I asked him why he didn't tell me this and he said he never thought he would have feelings for me. I asked him why he played me and he kept telling me he was sorry. he started balling and went to hug me. I pushed him away and asked him to not do that. He started saying what I hate more than anything. I'm a good person and he is so sorry because he knows I'm a good person. I looked at him and told him "so that makes things better?" He apologized again and told me that he really wanted to remain friends. I told him again that he should have been honest with me in the first place. he asked me to please stay. I told him that we are definitely over and that I am not going to stoop to his level and tell on him about being illegal. He told me that he wanted to take me to Boystown on Sunday and help me find someone else. I looked at him said "So now I'm nothing but a bar fly" I opened his back door, turn to him and said "you are nothing but a jerk, Dont even bother." and left.
I'm sorry this is such a long read. I really don't have anyone to talk to and I'm still sad over this. My friend just laughed at me and told me that he knew this would happen. Hopefully some of your comments will make me feel better. Thanks for reading.
The next day he called me and said he missed me and asked me to come over after work. When I got there he answered the door looking all fine. He is a great dresser and always looks really nice. It also helps that he has a great body. We decided to go out to a gay bar. At the bar he kept looking at me and telling me how he wanted to kiss me. We decided to leave the bar and get a bite to eat. At the restaurant I found out that we have a lot in common. he loves to shop, likes the same music and movies. After dinner we went back to his house and cuddled in bed for the next.
We went out every night since then. I didn't mind the drive that much because he made me feel good and I knew i made him feel good too. We would talk about things that I wouldn't normally talk to my straight friends about. he told me that he wanted to take me to Boystown but was afraid that I would leave him for someone else. I told him I wouldn't do that because he makes me happy. He asked me if I was his boyfriend and I said it feels like it. He then told me I didn't really ask him yet so I ask him to be my boyfriend. He hesitated for a second and got really sad. I told him he didn't have to say yes. He looked at me and said he would love to be my boyfriend.
Two days ago we went out for dinner. We ordered drinks and the waitress ID us. We both showed her our ID's and he left his wallet out in the table. I looked at his picture on his ID and said that he looked really hot in it. He looked at my ID and I looked at his again. I noticed that it wasn't and Illinois drivers License. It was a Mexico ID. I asked him if he had an Illinois drivers License and he said no. I asked him why he didn't have one and he told me that he would tell me later.
after dinner we decided to go to the mall. We talked he kissed me a few times while I was driving. We got to a red light and I asked him why he didn't have an Illinois License and he got really quiet. He asked me if I had an idea why and I said I think I do. He asked me why and I told his that I think he doesn't have one because he is not registered as a US Citizen. He cried and said I was right. he explained that he hates it because he can't get credit or get a decent job. he then looked at me and said "You don't want to be with me anymore" I told him that was not true. He explained that he was sensitive and that he gets emotional over things like that. Then he explained that to reason why he hesitated before tell me yes about being my boyfriend was because his last boyfriend threatened to report him when they broke up. I explained that I would never do that and if something did happen I'm not that kind of person. I explained that all I want is for us to be honest with each other. he smiled and said I make him feel so good about himself.
Yesterday he called me after I got done working. He asked what time I was coming over. He told me he was organizing his closet. When I got to his house he said to just come inside. I took my laptop and overnight bag and went to his room. he was still organizing his closet so I put my stuff on his floor. He looked and me, looked at my stuff and had a sad look on his face. he kissed me went back to hang up something in his closet. I knew something was wrong. I asked why he looked so sad. He said it was nothing. I took his hand and led him to his bed and sat down by him. I asked him what was wrong. He wouldn't look up at me and said he didn't know how to tell me this. I asked him if it was something I did and he said no. I asked again to please tell me what was wrong. he looked at me and started crying. I explained that I think I know whats going on. He asked me to tell him what I thought it was. I got up from his bed and he grabbed both of my hands. He asked me to please sit back down. By now I was shaking and asked him to please let me go. I grabbed my stuff and he asked me to please sit back down. I told him I'd rather not know and headed to the door. he grabbed me again and said that he really wanted to talk to me. As I was about to leave he shouted that he still wanted to be friends. I put my stuff in my car and just sat there for a few minutes. I felt really sad so I called one of my good friends. he didn't answer so I left him a message. after a few minutes of sitting in my car in shock I decided that an explanation was owed to me. I walked back in his house and he started to hug and kiss me. I pushed him away and demanded to know why he was breaking up with me. He told me to sit down. He started to tell me and stopped. Then he started again by saying how I started out as just a fling. He explained that he has had a boyfriend now for 5 years and they have an open relationship. By now I was almost in tears and I started to shake. he said that his boyfriend doesn't want to have sex and he needs sex. He said that when he told his boyfriend about me he got jealous. I asked him why he didn't tell me this and he said he never thought he would have feelings for me. I asked him why he played me and he kept telling me he was sorry. he started balling and went to hug me. I pushed him away and asked him to not do that. He started saying what I hate more than anything. I'm a good person and he is so sorry because he knows I'm a good person. I looked at him and told him "so that makes things better?" He apologized again and told me that he really wanted to remain friends. I told him again that he should have been honest with me in the first place. he asked me to please stay. I told him that we are definitely over and that I am not going to stoop to his level and tell on him about being illegal. He told me that he wanted to take me to Boystown on Sunday and help me find someone else. I looked at him said "So now I'm nothing but a bar fly" I opened his back door, turn to him and said "you are nothing but a jerk, Dont even bother." and left.
I'm sorry this is such a long read. I really don't have anyone to talk to and I'm still sad over this. My friend just laughed at me and told me that he knew this would happen. Hopefully some of your comments will make me feel better. Thanks for reading.
But then I have memory issues. 
