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Same Sex Relationships: Can They Work?

Danugh

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I went on a dinner date last night with a man.

Not the most attractive guy in the world but great conversationalist and really quite charming.

The evening went well but later on i realized that he was the same sex as i am so even though i liked him it created a dilemma. Do we just be friends or try and make something work. Granted its quite early to even be thinking about a relationship but it just got me to thinking.

Can two tops be in a committed relationship?

Can two bottoms be a committed relationship?

If so, how would it work?

Is it just best to be friends and enjoy each others company.
 
I would never dump a guy who I truly LOVED just b/c he wasn't a top or a bottom.

If you're in love, you find a way to make it work. Plain and simple.
 
The gay relationship, or any other relationship, is not based on sex. It is based on other more important things, like love, trust, courage. I dont see why you two cant make it work. If both of you can grow on these qualities, im sure you will have a fulfilling and happy relationship.
 
i was in a relationship once with someone i loved very much but who just wouldn't put out for the life of him. at first i thought we could work around it and that with practice he'd learn to like it, but there was no way. and after a while the sex became poorer in frequency and enjoyment for both parts. we had mutual blow jobs but that was about it. i strung it along for almost 4 years before we broke up because i really loved him and wanted to be with him, but it became so unbearable it just had to end.

now, i know there's no such thing as a relationship that's entirely based on sex but it plays such a big fucking part. especially when you're in love and you're monogamous. so unless you find a way to be comfortable with flip flopping, it's never gonna work. no amount of oral sex or hand jobs is ever gonna change that. if you don't plan on having an "open" relationship, it's always better to be with someone who likes what you have to offer and vice versa.
 
Adam2299 said:
I would never dump a guy who I truly LOVED just b/c he wasn't a top or a bottom.

If you're in love, you find a way to make it work. Plain and simple.
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That's along the lines of what I would have said...
 
Dont ask "can they work?"

Ask "why cant they work?"

Then make it work.

Thats what loving someone is all about.
 
People i just met him yesterday, its not that serious. Its just that i liked it him, so i was just wondering if i would be willing to date someone of the same sex or just be friends.

He has made it clear that there will be no compromise so i guess its just friends for us.
 
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