Saw my friend naked and wanking, I may need brain bleach :P

[lg7979]

I don't really know if this is the place to say any of this but I feel like I want to get it off my chest.

So I was perusing cam4 as I do way to often and came across a guy who looked pretty hot so naturally I entered the room. About 5 minutes into to kinda watching kinda being distracted and not having said anything yet I see the bottom half of his face, and his mouth is really really familiar. I read his username, has his year of birth and initials, I see his skype name, full first name, I then go to look at his profile pictures and I am just blown away. It's one of my best friends from high school, we're both in different unis now and still stay in touch a little. He doesn't know I'm gay, not that I ever said I was straight to him, we just never really talked about anything like that (I know what you are thinking guys in highschool that didn't discuss that?! What can I say I guess we were weird ) and I never knew until now he was bicurious.

As soon as I realised it was him anything that turned me just went away. I can never ever think about him like that.
Should I just try and "brain bleach" and ignore it all and hope the next time I see him I don't blurt out "I never knew you had a 9 inch cock"
That is the most sensible thing to do right?

Sorry for the long rambling post, I just feel like I needed to get it out.
Oh, and thanks if anyone took the time to rea

tl;dr
I think I just need to forget what I saw and move on

 

[LatinCoffee]

wow--just don't mention it to him unless he wants to ever disclose that to you. He may feel uncomfortable. He may be in the closet as you found him on a gay cam site.

 

[lg7979]

Yeah, I definitely am just going to not do or say anything unless he is the one to bring it up.

 

[HunterM]

Yeah, I definitely am just going to not do or say anything unless he is the one to bring it up.

You're doing the right thing.

Now...what's his Cam4 name? I want to see him.

 

[sixthson]

I predict you be back looking for him within two weeks. Happy wanking*

*shit, I sounded like sloppyseconds there.

 

[AstareGod]

Hmm... I'm going to go out on a limb and say work up the nerve to talk to him about it. My philosophy is - if he was so scared of someone seeing him online, he probably wouldn't have been online at a site like Cam4 in the first place. Now that you know this little tidbit about him, your friendship with him may grow stronger as he may want to open up to you about it.

Even if you have or want no sexual attraction towards him, being able to talk about slightly taboo topics such as this can help your friendship grow. If he is in the closet, being able to open up and confide in you may be just the kind of thing he's looking for.

 

[jaysizzles]

He's online putting it all out there...performing! It didn't take much for you to figure out that it was your friend...so I don't see the harm in letting him know you saw him on there. Compliment him too while you're at it. I wouldn't blab to any of your other friends about it tho.

So, now you know he's bi-curious, and he's one of your best friends from hs...he should be understanding and accepting when you tell him you are gay and that you saw him perform. It's one more thing that the 2 of you have in common, not to mention your affinity for Cam4. You can go clubbing together or whatever...

And 9 inches you say!? I too would like his Cam4 name.

 

[dereperez]

If you like where you are at in terms of friendship with him, I would just let it be and don't bring the topic up. You said you still stay in touch with him "a little". That sounds like perhaps you guys aren't very close friends at the moment and that he may not be comfortable with you seeing him on there or knowing that he's bicurious.

However, if you would like to become closer to him, this could be a possible launching board topic. Just be ready for it to go both ways.

 

[lg7979]

I predict you be back looking for him within two weeks. Happy wanking*

*shit, I sounded like sloppyseconds there.

Haha, you did.
I kinda hope not, I don't want to be like a creeper in his chat lol

On the topic of saying anything
I'm just going to wait, maybe if the time just feels really really right I'll say something, but from the way he tried to hide his face in most of his pics I think he doesn't want people to know it's him.

And 9 inches you say!? I too would like his Cam4 name.

Now...what's his Cam4 name? I want to see him.

Well I don't want to pass it around and stuff, but since you are soooooo interested plus the fact it's hard to say no to an avatar with Chris Hemsworth's steely gaze and I guess that he likes people watching (prefers money I think )
I'll just say it begins with jbig and ends with cock91 nospaces I didn't tell you

 

[Durango95]

OK this has happened to me a few times and one of the guys was one of my niece's ex boyfriends, actually fiance, from college...Yikes

The old saying...let sleeping dogs lie....is used for a reason. I'd say let sleeping dogs lie.

 

[secondmonkey]

I found a video of my best friend fucking a girl on xtube. At first I was shocked and horrified but now I just think it's funny. I think he's embarrassed but it's not a big deal. (I told him about it) Answers some questions I had...

 

[rareboy]

I think you should compliment him on his performance sometime.

 

[BrendonM91]

Hmm... I'm going to go out on a limb and say work up the nerve to talk to him about it. My philosophy is - if he was so scared of someone seeing him online, he probably wouldn't have been online at a site like Cam4 in the first place. Now that you know this little tidbit about him, your friendship with him may grow stronger as he may want to open up to you about it.

Even if you have or want no sexual attraction towards him, being able to talk about slightly taboo topics such as this can help your friendship grow. If he is in the closet, being able to open up and confide in you may be just the kind of thing he's looking for.

I agree with this very much so.

He was on a public site having fun. If he is naive enough to think that noone he might know will ever see him, then more fool him. However, I think this gives you an opening to come clean about your sexuality to him. Don't bring up the site or that you saw him having a pull, just open up about your own sexuality, he will more than likely accept you (unless he's a self hating fag, which are right pricks of people). It may also entice him to open up to you about himself. If you have any attraction to him this may give you an opportunity to make a move, even help him experiment so he can learn more about himself and you.

 

[Ninja108]

I'd say go ahead and talk to him. As others have pointed out,you can't expect to do this on a cam site and not get found out.

 

[billybob109]

He is showing a lot of his face in the photos. Even if you did start "dating" would you really want your bf on some cam site for the whole world to see?