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Scared and Embarassed.

I am bi and just recently have started doing things with guys but, if I was to bottom for the first time I would prefer a smaller cock.But, you shouldn't worry becuase if someone loved you they wouldn't care about size.
 
I am a bottom and I like guys on the smaller side. In sounds great to be impaled on a 20 cm long rod but in reality smaller cocks are more enjoyable (at least for me). You look great on the pictures, of course your dick is small, but I am sure that I would say yes to have sex with you :sex:
 
superboy83 said:
I'd be willing to pm you some of the routines I do when I work out. It all just varies by the amount of weight you lift and the number of reps you do, depending on whether you just want to tone or bulk up. But I don't want to change your thread into a workout discussion. Also, probably an even better thing would be to go to the library or Barnes and Noble and go to the fitness or health section and pick up a few books about weight training. They usually have pictures and descriptions, which would be better than one of us explaining it on here. If you have any questions, just drop me a pm sometime. And I'm sure Seven would be glad to help out too.
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That would be awesome Superboy! I will be sending you a PM shortly, probably after I post this reply :)

Blacksheep said:
I have similar issues with people not realising I'm gay. Women like me though which makes it worse because it makes me really awkward and then I come off like a prick.

Telling friends you are gay can work wonders, once word is out then people will know and can stop fantasising about you and actually approach you ;).

It's hard if you are good looking though, I know that I don't look at really good looking masculine guys lest they are straight or I don't measure up looks wise.
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Yeah I really think that will help. I am out to my friends and I am making new ones constantly (Well acquaintances in classes and stuff). What I DONT want to do is just introduce myself and say I am gay, you know? If people ask I tell them I'm gay. But it's not like I am asked that all the time...or ever. So how is the word supposed to get out??

fjancsi80 said:
I am a bottom and I like guys on the smaller side. In sounds great to be impaled on a 20 cm long rod but in reality smaller cocks are more enjoyable (at least for me). You look great on the pictures, of course your dick is small, but I am sure that I would say yes to have sex with you :sex:
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Hehe, Thanks Fjancsi :)
 
I'm not sure if this has been mentioned before but sometimes, girth is more important than length when it comes to penis size. So, even though you feel that it is small length-wise, but if you have a really fat cock, it might make up for it.

You seem like a really nice guy CaliBoy so don't let that bother you. I'm sure there are lots of gay men out there who can look past dicksize.
 
heymikey said:
I'm not sure if this has been mentioned before but sometimes, girth is more important than length when it comes to penis size. So, even though you feel that it is small length-wise, but if you have a really fat cock, it might make up for it.

You seem like a really nice guy CaliBoy so don't let that bother you. I'm sure there are lots of gay men out there who can look past dicksize.
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It MIGHT make up for it? hehe.
Thanks Mikey, I sure hope I can find a guy to look past that :-)
 
CaliBoy601 said:
Do you know what I should start with Seven_sins?? Any pointers on a routine I should follow or something? ..|
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There are lots and lots of books on weight training, but the internet is probably just as good a resource. You can also watch the other guys at the gym. Some of the basic exercises are the bench press (for chest and triceps), the barbell curl (for biceps), the bent over row (for the back), the military (overhead) press (for shoulders and triceps), and the squat (for legs and ass). For "perfect pecs," add dumbbell bench flies. For more mass on the shoulders, add side dumbbell raises. For more triceps mass and definition, add some French curls (lying triceps extensions) and/or dips. To build the stomach muscles, do crunches. Use enough weight to do 2 sets of 6 to 8 reps each. You won't be able to lift much weight at first, but your strength will build quickly if you increase the weights periodically as time goes by. And find a partner to keep you motivated. Good luck, man.
 
I know its easy to say this, but I wouldn't worry about it. I've fooled around with a guy with a penis as small (or smaller) than yours and I had no complaints at all. In fact, I thought it was awesome that I could get the whole thing in my mouth at once. And there is another plus--it's less intimidating for guys that don't have much experience with anal sex.

That's my two cents. Good luck!
 
:wave: Hola

My advice to you is accept yourself the way you are. It really is hard because we live in a very brainwashed, superficial and cold world but the sun always comes up every morning to share it's warmth.

I am 19 years old too, had to learn and absorb things from a young age just like everyone else, have to battle constantly with some issues and sometimes still do - I am done trying to live up to ideals of other people who do not have my best interest at heart instead I am starting to open myself up to my own ideals so should you.

You don't need to be a golden boy, the gay adonis with the rock hard abs and the wavy hair, 10' dick and stylish with the fake tan etc - it's disgusting having that shit thrown up in your face daily so IGNORE it as it does not show the real diversity in the world. Start listening to your essence and let your essence guide you to your soulmate - yes there is such a thing just we have been dumb down to seek out as many sexual conquests as possible which is wrong sorry but I'm against ILLICIT SEX to those that would disagree and fume at me and tell me it's okay, fun etc to be promiscuous. How can you find your soulmate if you always lusting around at different guys? Thats like raping yourself !!

Anyway,

Just be you and change the things you can change and leave the rest as it is because I get a feeling that theres alot more to you than you actually let out :D
Don't give others the opportunity to feed of your positive energy and don't you feed off someone else - deflect negative energy and change it into something positive :D PEACE
 
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