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Scenarios which make you really sad?

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* When I am in a group of people, and see someone try and speak.. and realise no one is listening then looks down and you can see the self confidence drain out of them.



What about you guys?
 
When i get to the bottom of a pint-glass, check my pockets for money and realise that it's either another pint or a long walk home...life sucks sometimes don't it?
 
When I'm driving down the highway and someone in a truck passes by me with their dog in the bed of the truck not tied down. I've seen one too many dogs fly out of the back of trucks and smash into other cars.
 
190E said:
It sucks when you fall in love with someone and they dont love you too.
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Yeah, but that's why i'm usually in the pub in the first place!
 
billy118 said:
* When I am in a group of people, and see someone try and speak.. and realise no one is listening then looks down and you can see the self confidence drain out of them.



What about you guys?
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At least YOU seemed to notice. Maybe if that person knew that... ? (*8*)

Personally I shout down the rest of the group and ask to be able to hear what that person wanted to say. Some folks just need a little encouragement and some others need to know it's not all about them...

Yeah - sad to see someone on the outside looking in.

And Nominus - it's a short walk from the local to my gaff, so you need to change pubs ;) (*8*)
 
When I see my Grandmother at the nursing home. I put on my brave face, but I'm heart broken when I get in the car to go.
 
A scenario that broke my heart today was this video of my family back in 1990-94 and I saw grandma, great uncle and aunt, and it broke my heart because years later I had to see the three of them deteriorate and die...
 
It breaks my heart when I see a grown man cry.

Dirk
 
Seeing someone having their heart broken.

Duroc, you have no idea. My dad caught me viewing gay porn once. Not only was I enbarassed because my pants were around my ankles, but my dad went off into the kitchen and cried. I felt awful.
 
People dropping food also upsets me, if it's not deliberate of course.

I saw a cute guy walking down the street with an icecream.. it slipped out of his hands and I really felt sorry for him and wanted to buy him a new one!
 
I was once in the laudramat doing my clothes, and this homeless guy was washing his sleeping bag.

He took it out of the washer and put it in the dryer and asked me how long each quarter would buy. I told him ten minutes.

I saw his heart sink when he realized that he only had enough to get his bed half dry. He put it in and put his two last quarters into the machine and turn up the heat as high as possible. He watched it anxiously for a while, and then he went out to the parking lot and looked around on the ground, presumably for another quarter.

I quietly went over and dropped two more quarters into the dryer to make sure that he'd have a dry bed that night. It should have made me feel good. But it didn't. I sometimes wish that I could really help... but sometimes you just can't.
 
^^^ Nice one J :=D: (*8*)

Sometimes those little things seem a drop in the ocean compared to the problems that we don't know about or personally can't do very much about :( but even if you were the only one to notice, it's good to make a little difference when you can.

Sometimes I wish I could take a drop-out or a young offender to one side, sit down with them over a cup of tea or a beer and ask them just what exactly they would want for themselves if they could have it, and then be in a position to help them get it. Not give it to them, but at least help them to get it for themselves. For the lack of clean clothes or a permanent address, be it ever so humble, so many don't get the chance they deserve.

Maybe I'm deluding myself in this, but from the times I've spoken to runaways and folks down on their luck, most have simple, honest ambitions to become a tradesman or be able to support their family... I've never met anyone yet who had nothing and wished for the world.

:(
 
duroc5088 said:
It breaks my heart when I see a grown man cry.

Dirk
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There is nothing wrong with crying Dirk. I sure found that out in the last 3 years. When I need to I do, when I see someone else cry I give them a hug.(*8*)

I remember going to the Nursing Home to see my dad. He did not even know who I was, he was not the person I grew up loving and looking up to. That made me sad, and I cried the day they took him out of our house to go there, he looked back and he knew he would never see that house again. I cried for 3 days then. But it took 24 care to watch him so we had to put him in the home.
 
Soilwork said:
I was once in the laudramat doing my clothes, and this homeless guy was washing his sleeping bag.

He took it out of the washer and put it in the dryer and asked me how long each quarter would buy. I told him ten minutes.

I saw his heart sink when he realized that he only had enough to get his bed half dry. He put it in and put his two last quarters into the machine and turn up the heat as high as possible. He watched it anxiously for a while, and then he went out to the parking lot and looked around on the ground, presumably for another quarter.

I quietly went over and dropped two more quarters into the dryer to make sure that he'd have a dry bed that night. It should have made me feel good. But it didn't. I sometimes wish that I could really help... but sometimes you just can't.
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You planted a seed of kindness. There is nothing more exciting and inspirational to me than when someone does something quietly for someone else. It shows tremendous dignity towards others.

What makes me saddest is when someone has the opportunity to do something for someone else-no matter how small- and is afraid to act.
 
The ones that come to mind for me are around families.

1. There's very little else in this world more unfair than when parents have to bury their own children (no matter if the person who died is a newborn baby or a 40 year old). It's unnatural. My mother's always told me that one of her greatest fears would be having one of her children die.
2. Having a sick child and knowing there's absolutely nothing you can do to make them feel better. I remember one time when my nephew got struck by an illness and how lethargic he became. I remember watching him and feeling completely hopeless, knowing that if I could swap places I'd do it in a heartbeat just to see him smile again.
 
the patients that I pick up that are dying and there is nothing I can do for them.......
 
couples arguing over petty things...life is too short for that
 
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