Screwing straight guys

[MisterMajestic]

"It's like, now that they've made that decision to act on some desires they've been putting off for weeks/months/years,"

Exactly Paladin...It is a turn-on to see how eager Married Men are..Married men have a type of passion that is full of lust and desperation to have their needs met.......Whether you're a Gay Top or Bi-Top being a TOP period means you're like a kid in a Candy store..

I believe there are more Gay/Bi Bottoms out there than Tops...

"What started out to be a couple of months of favors ended up being three years. We never had intercourse. I just blew and rimmed him. He never reciprocated."

I have a similar long-term encounter/friendship but just the opposite..He's a white guy (a local media personality), and he has a fetish for sucking Black Dick and Rimming/Sniffing Black Butt....He's also married with kids & all he ever wants is for me to come over, he strips me out of my clothes, Blows me, Sucks on my balls, and Rims me and he wants no reciprocation from me...After he's finished working over my Dick and balls I squat on his face and J/O while he eats my Butt and gets his nose deep in my crack..I shoot my load all over his face per his request..I would say after a year of our sessions he began swallowing my Load, but I often don't allow it because he sucks my Dick too hard when he knows i'm about to explode..His eagerness to have it takes over and the way he grips my Dick with his mouth hurts at times.....

Now I Love sucking Dick, eating Ass, Fucking, getting Fucked..I have no issues with making him feel just as good as he make me feel but he does not want that.

 

[echuck]

Never screwed a straight guy that I know of because if they like pussy and cock that would make them bi. Myself I'm bi and a top and love to suck a nice cock.

 

[cklover]

Never screwed a straight guy that I know of because if they like pussy and cock that would make them bi.

Exactly. Any man that sucks a cock or takes a cock in his ass is not straight. Similarly any man that sticks his cock in another man is not straight.

 

[JustMe891]

I consider myself bi and am only attracted to other staight acting bi guys. Those who know me know I am bi so getting some action has never been a problem.
Once your sexuality is know it is amazing how many curious guys and couples hit on you or just plain ask you if you want to join them.
I have noticed that most "straight " or curious guys all want to to be fucked and fucked hard. Is it just me or have any of you guys experienced this?
Mick

Hmm, I've fucked a few few 'straight' guys in my time, always rekon they are at least Bi probally gay.

 

[DurbanCub]

Exactly. Any man that sucks a cock or takes a cock in his ass is not straight. Similarly any man that sticks his cock in another man is not straight.

I understand what you mean by this, but you need to differentiate between a sex act and a sexual identity. It would be way to simplistic to assume that every man who had, at some point in his life, experimented with gay sex was in fact homosexual...

 

[cklover]

I understand what you mean by this, but you need to differentiate between a sex act and a sexual identity. It would be way to simplistic to assume that every man who had, at some point in his life, experimented with gay sex was in fact homosexual...

I understand your point and I think you have a better way of looking at it than I do. I like sex with men, but I've always identified myself as bisexual since I also like sex with women.

 

[conrad]

My sympathy is for the guys who find out late in life, and perhaps after a long marriage, that there is another side to their sexuality which gets to be so strong that they have to cheat on their wives.

My hope would be that they would try to hook up with a man they really trusted. And, I hope that such a man would insist on safe sex in the interest of all who might be affected.

I prefer to call myself ambisexual because, though I have had long term relationships with both men and women I have always been a faithful partner and expected and got the same from my partners. In my case it is my insistence that love and sex go together; one without the other is a bummer.

 

[Romalotti]

I fucked my straight roommate Joe once. We had always been close and he had teased me in the past. One night we got wasted and fucked around for 4 hours straight, which ended in Joe saying he wanted me to fuck him. He was normally the aggressive type, I was surprised. I fucked his hairy virgin butthole so good & hard. We moaned & groaned and I came inside him. After 11 years, I finally made love to my dream guy. But it never happened again after that.

 

[lambdaboy]

I have sucked and rimmed straigth guys and have had a few fuck me after finding out they never did anal witha girl, and I convinced them ass is ass best fucks I evr had they were unusually gentle took there itme till they were in and made me cumas they did love it.

 

[Paradigm]

Nor particularly gay, either.

Get over the categories. "Straight" and "Gay" are just classifications humans put on other humans to try and create a black and white world out of what is really only a bunch of different, mostly unrelated traits.

There's a lot more to sex than just who is on top. And a lot more to relationships than just sex. The difference between "straight" sex and "gay" sex is as much about approach "straight" sex in many cases is more about conquest and possession, while in many cases "gay" sex is more about bonding and release. Ever wonder why gay sex is so much more into group sex than straight sex is?

For a long time male on male sex has been so taboo that most people are brought up to be afraid of it. They dont even understand the non-possession aspects of it - why straight people still wonder who's the top in a relationship and still assume than anything anal must hurt. But as society has learned more, guys are realizing that their ass is still a sexual organ, and that sex doesn't have to lead to a relationship or exclusivity. Sex can be just plain enjoyable and fun and there is nothing wrong with it. Two guys, or 3 or 4 or whatever the case may be, can be very different, with in many cases a lot fewer hangups than getting it on with a woman. They are sex for different purposes.

Relationships are very different from sex, and it is possible to be "turned on" by one thing, but have a very different kind of relationship. Again, culture tended to focus on straight relationships, but it goes the other way around, too. Two guys who get turned on by girls can still very legitimately enter into a relationship with each other. Once you get over the fact that stimulus does not trump belonging in a relationship, they are quite compatible.

 

[JNewYork]

For some reason married men think their wedding-rings gives them a protection of immunity during bareback sex...NOT...

Yes, and also for some reason gay men think that fucking with a married man gives them immunity, too.

 

[CumAlong]

It seems I am doomed to be a gay-virgin forever and will have to remain to fuck only women (THE HORROR!!) because every guy i crush on is straight...im pretty sure. And then I have to spend the next couple weeks sad as I try and force myself to stop crushing on them because I don't want to ruin our friendship. I like them so much I don't want to lose anything I have. Some of my best times have been cuddling with one of my friends, he is such a cute little cuddle whore, but insists he is straight. Needless to say, my girlfriend was less than happy with how much I cuddled with him.

 

[DonQuixote]

CumAlong,
I relate completely with where you are coming from.

This has been an very interesting read - It reinforces that I am not as messed up inside as I once might have thought, based on "societal norms".

Still faithful after all these years, and curious but yellow, because I have ruined a couple of friendships in the heat of the drunken moment or emotional breakdown.

 

[catee222]

It seems I am doomed to be a gay-virgin forever and will have to remain to fuck only women (THE HORROR!!) because every guy i crush on is straight...im pretty sure. And then I have to spend the next couple weeks sad as I try and force myself to stop crushing on them because I don't want to ruin our friendship. I like them so much I don't want to lose anything I have. Some of my best times have been cuddling with one of my friends, he is such a cute little cuddle whore, but insists he is straight. Needless to say, my girlfriend was less than happy with how much I cuddled with him.

Dude, welcome to my world (minus the cuddle whore part, even though I'd like that to happen )

 

[AUmatty]

I crush almost exclusively on straight men. Not by choice. It just kinda happens that way. I'd be a complete virgin if I hadn't lowered my standards a couple times.

But hey, a man's got needs.

 

[Carnivorous]

I've had quite a few experiences with "curious" straight acting guys, alot of them boyfriends of my girlfriends friends. Women love to talk & sooner or later the boyfriends hear something about so&so's boyfriend & how much he satisfies them. Just about every time a guy has approached me was at a party or bar after a few drinks & they'll ask something like "just what do you have that makes you so popular?" I show them & they're really into it. Most have just wanted to see, feel & suck my cock--alot. Only a couple have wanted to feel it in them, its pretty big & thick. Just about all are now "very" close friends as this has shown them that they're alot more gay than straight--they love cock.

 

[Nomenclature]

I have noticed that most "straight " or curious guys all want to to be fucked and fucked hard. Is it just me or have any of you guys experienced this?
Mick

lol I haven't known any who actually wanted to have sex with me, but I have had a lot of straight guys start opening up to me in privacy and asking a lot of questions, admitting they were a little curious or sending me a few cock shots. A couple of guys have even come out to me, and here's one story:



One of my friends was actually a Christian. He came from a very religious and conservative, Republican-voting family. He would post blogs about praying, how important his religion was to him and listed "God, Jesus and My Family" as the most important people in his life. I'm atheist, but we respected each other's beliefs and hardly ever brought them up during conversation. One day he finds out about my sexuality and confronts me about it. He definitely didn't approve, but he told me "I won't judge you." After this conversation, he began avoiding me. We didn't talk again for over a year.

Later, i'm registering a profile on Dlist and - to my shock - he has a profile on there. It was my turn to confront him this time, so I do and he tells me "I've been gay all along but wasn't ready for anyone to know until I graduated college and moved away." After cussing him out for a few minutes (LOL), we finally get to talking again. It turns out that not only is he 100% gay, but he's a bit of a freak: He's a "total bottom", into being dominated and owns a Dildo I was completely shocked at the time, but now I know not to trust my pre-conceived notions anymore and to keep a more open mind.

 

[tommyj]

^^^ Have u done him or want to??

 

[mydrew1]

Lol, if only I was this lucky. At most I've had one or two straight guys ask me 'what is it about men that you find physically attractive?' and 'how do two guys have sex?". I'd definitely be happier with someone who'd want a regular kissing experience. I'd make it nice and smooth, with us on the couch my arms around the other guy, and without tongue.

It doesn't have to be sex for god's sake people

 

[Nomenclature]

^^^ Have u done him or want to??

He was pretty cute, but we just never really thought of each other sexually. I'm just the guy who counseled him, and helped him accept his identity.


Not EVERY story I have is hot. lmao Sorry.

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Lol, if only I was this lucky. At most I've had one or two straight guys ask me 'what is it about men that you find physically attractive?' and 'how do two guys have sex?".

lol Yup. I've had a LOT of straight friends that i've come out to ask me all these questions in privacy. It's so cute when a guy acts like he's disgusted, but is secretly curious/turned on by it and keeps asking more and more. I had one friend who would always play "The Question Game" with me, and one night when he was VERY drunk, he told me he wanted to fuck me. He had an amazing dick, but our friendship came to a complete end after that night.

Ah, well. Coulda been worse.


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It doesn't have to be sex for god's sake people

See, i'm lame because I enjoy kissing and cuddling more than sex. The problem is that most guys - especially straight guys - aren't really into kissing. . .or are just terrible at it. Straight guys who experiment with a gay guy will usually not be okay with kissing him; They just want to blow a load and leave.



I would love to have a NSA cuddlebuddy, though.