Seeking advice from fellow guys... please help?

[Sexual-Dream]

Hello,

I am bi, but more leaning on the gay side. I have found a boyfriend that lives some distance away from me but it is drivable. He is bi as well but likes me.

I am a virgin so this could quite possibly be my first sexual experience. We would like to try anal sex on each other but we don't know if we will like it. I wanna be as prepared as possible for the time he wants to screw me.

So, my question is: I do not meet him until June sometime and I am wondering if there is any way I can train my ass to be ready for hard butt sex? Is there any tips or suggestions someone could give, best items to use... but please do not say dildos as I don't wanna buy them. I need to be givin items any household has.

I am also working out and losing weight avidly until June... I wanna set to impress. Is there any tips on how to charm your guys? What type of clothing should I wear? Cologne? Or deodorant? I have been using and enjoying AXE body-spray pretty well... but I do use old spice for actually in my pits and such.

I really love this guy and I think he really loves me so I really want to be the best I can. When doing anal sex... do you recommend wearing condoms? Buying lube? Would it be smart to bareback it - if we made sure each others asses were clean as clean could be?

What is the best way to get a dude to fall deeply in love with you?

Thanks for any input guys!

 

[Fuzzy1]

Use a condom when having sex, always, always, always. Barebacking is way too dangerous.

 

[lilman]

yes and walking around with a loose leaky ass for 3 days isnt fun if he cums alot and inside u

 

[mbamike]

I used lots of household items for sex play when I was in the "just curious" stage. Just look around for anything that is long and cylindrical. Handles of various types usually.

This biggest problem I had was that I could not find items that had sufficient girth. Alway put a condom on it before using and wash it thorough after using. Good Luck!

 

[mj2006a]

Open your eyes. It's not love if you haven't even met the guy.
It's an online fantasy relationship.

THIS, buddy, is the word from a wise guy... stopping "I really love him and he loves me".. this is a fuck..online infatuation... Listen to what this Sean says

 

[mike_n_herrin]

Open your eyes. It's not love if you haven't even met the guy.
It's an online fantasy relationship.

You can make your own dildos if you don't want to buy one.

Sorry I have to disagree here. In my opinion you should not make your own dildo. There are plenty of stories online etc where folks have done considerable damage to themselves by trying to stick things up their ass that are not made for that.

I do agree that you can train your ass, so you should buy some training anal plugs or just a small dildo.

 

[bankside]

Who gave the yokels a video camera?

Seriously, you can not make a Dildo out of a balloon and three christmas ornaments. First of all, they're often made of glass. Second of all, what a bad toy.

I know it is either satire or a homophobic prank, but I had to say something because people can tune that stuff out when they're horny. If anyone is curious to try anal sex, do not make your own Dildo out of a balloon and christmas ornaments.

 

[ericwhitney]

this is awesome, guy. and good for you for working to bring your game face forward. nothing feels better than getting ready for a big date, or knowing that the other guy put some effort into getting ready for you. just don't lose sight of the fact that you are already perfect. he's going to fall in love with you if it's meant to be.

as you ask the questions about what you should do, though, don't forget to ask your boyfriend; he's the one you want to please. as an example, I have a hard time kissing a guy reeking of after shave or smelly deodorants. they literally make me nauseous.

finally, maybe you want to rethink the anal sex for your first time in the arms of another dude. maybe your first time you want to focus on making out and rolling around for a few hours. establishing some intimate communication with him. see if he is kind and considerate in the sack. over time you can practice on each other with your fingers and dildos and discover together what each of you likes. chances of enjoying anal sex increase about 600%, if you are both relaxed and comfortable with each other with nice clear lines of communication. shaun white didn't get air his first ride down a half-pipe. don't feel as if you have to either.